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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ambrosia

I can absolutely understand how a person can get into shock if he/she hears the voice of someone whom everyone assumed dead. Her anger is justified to some extent as because of sandhya's decision her family suffered a lot, little Ved did not deserve the pain of loosing his mother at such a tender age and neither did sooraj ji deserved what he suffered for the all of 8 months.


However, the anger should weaver the slightest bit when you hear your beloved person's voice, the fact that she is alive and safe and that you are actually hearing that someone's voice once again is a feeling that should literally bring tears to your eyes. Yes the anger is there, yes there are millions of questions as how what why but most important of all there should be happy tears, a feeling not being able to form coherent thought.

In Bhabo's case, it was solid vengeance. No relief, no happiness, not a slightest hint of that anger that mother feels towards her child. When a mother is angry, no matter how serious how grave the situation is, she does melt down on hearing her child's voice who was assumed dead. But i guess we forget that a mother-in-law can very rarely take the place of your biological mother.

I know the question arises, should sandhya be forgiven for what she did. But before the question arises i wish sandy was given a chance to explain why she lied and faked her death. A perfect explanation to that is if she hadnt done what she did then pushkar would have probably turned into ashes by now.


Exactly. You said what I wanted to say - only better. No matter how angry you are, you cannot resist a loved one if he/she comes back from the dead. If roles were reversed and if it were Suraj in Sandy's place, Bhabho would have been in seventh heaven, running all over the place with happy tears. She took that useless Mohit who had run away for years back in with tears of joy. This is Sandy. She is a super selfish lady. If she truly loved Suraj or Ved, she would be happy for them. She has every right to scold, even be angry & demand an explanation but to wish her to remain dead and torture her by bringing in another lady after all the love Sandy has poured on her is just plain cold hearted revenge. I hope Laalima does not fall prey to bhabho. One Sandhya's mahabali is enough at Rathi aangan. No woman deserves it. Also just watching bhabho, I was throwing kungfu punches in the air. BhaLima combo if it forms will make me want to declare war.😆


Mugle, your posts are too good. Your analogies are too funny. Ironhead bhabho😆 Keep your sense of humor through the next few days buddy. We are counting on you!







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Posted: 10 years ago
#12
@Ambrosia and Deebz
Im too irritated that Babho didn't feel happy for a second when she knew sandhya is alive. She did feel happy to see Mohit! In spite of the fact that how much angry she is, at least she should be released a second when she hears sandhya's voice!

Also Babho never loves sandhya like a mother because if she was surya didn't have to go through so much difficulty to study, also she would not cheat Lalima to marry sooraj.

remembering Zakir-Emily issue, I never expect Babho love her dil like daughter.

Babho did say that she let her own daughter pursue dream but daughter-in- law must obey her.

At first I was annoyed with Babho so much as there is no mother who has a daughter could criticize other's daughter about education when she let her daughter study and didn't teach her cooking.
But then I realizes That's who she is, she has money so she has right to choose her perfect daughter-in- law. That's all. I don't expect Babho to love her dil, she just needs to understand them!

I don't like Babho from the beginning!
Edited by Lifebeautifulso - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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@Deebz @lifeisbeautiful absolutely agree with the both of you. She hasnt changed one bit, although she claims that she has loved sandy as her daughter but she is so quick to pick sides whenever she gets one chance. Her beendni is just a beendni for her whom she can decorate in her home as some show piece, as "something" she can show off to daisa and others as her trophy👎🏼 for excelling the role of a perfect mother-in-law..
She is soo blinded in her vengeance that she didnt even feel the need to give the phone to ved who was more excited to hear his mother after 8 months of wait. She was about to put the receiver down by saying "oh i cant hear you" well too bad you need hearing aid.. emily, ved, the kids can hear sandy perfectly fine
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Completely Agree with all. Deebz snd Ambrosia, very well written. If bhabho ever truely loved Sandy as her daughter she would have happy tears atleast for few seconds but alas this is hypocrite bhabho who claims she loves her Dil like daughters but reality is different.

She can be angry how much she wants but atleast opposite person must be given chance to explain their reasons even hard Core criminals are given chance to explain themselves. Bhabho doesnt want Sandy anymore she is feeling lalima can replace Sandy's place now, what Suraj and Ved wants is secondary to her. I remember she never wants mohit truth to come infront of pari because she told no child should hate thier parents but with Sandy and Ved that equation changed completely.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: sandiab

I agree this woman is terribly annoying she should die the old hag. I wish that they have a cross over episode with Sns and guara or koki smack punch her in the face. Sandy can tender to her wounds. Terribly old woman. I think sooraj is probably her step son.


The cross over episode is a nice idea.. Sooraj JI must be bhabhasa and some other lady's son but definitely not of bhabho🤢🤢
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Thanks a lot deebz.. M sure bhabho and the third lady will boil my blood like anything but still I will try to keep my humour intact..

@deebz, @ ambrosia.. I agree with you and its exactly what I wanted to convey that a mother is a mother.. Her anger is justified, her pain is also justified but her stone heartedness to some one who she claims to love is not.. You rightly said ambrosia that it was solid vengeance from her side.. She has such a small heart.. And absolutely no motherly feelings I ve ever seen in her for Sooraj ji or Sandhya.. What she always did was humiliate them that's all.. Her only claim to fame is taming bhabhasa and making him her shadow other wise she is good for nothing.. And I agree with you too deebz that bhabho accepted losers like Mohit ( the biggest of all from the beginning), vikram, Meena, chhavi but the only reason I see behind that is because she herself is a big time loser.. And its her good luck that she got a son like Sooraj ji and a daughter in law in Sandhya.. Yes a mother in law can never take the place of a biological mother but then why are daughters in law expected to love them like that??

Coming to you phuc I would say that I hate to mention lalima in any post other that my hate post or fun post.. And yes this post is about bhabho so I will only speak about her.. I don't know what values bhabho inherited from her parents, but what i ve learnt from my parents is that every child is same whether its yours, or your siblings' or even an outsiders'... God forbid if my child ( though m not married) ever went through any thing like sooraj ji I would also go to any extent but that extent would not mean using some one else's child for my child.. There is a very thin line of morality that is drawn by god for every one and I know that some one up there is keeping a track of all my actions.. M a god fearing girl and I would definitely ask god to take my life and save my child but I will surely not use anybody for my child.. There is a saying in Hindi that poot Kapoot ho sakta hai par mata kabhi kumata nahi hoti ( a son can fall from his morals but a mother can never) but bhabho's every action has always proved that she never was a good mother..
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: jsingh12

Completely Agree with all. Deebz snd Ambrosia, very well written. If bhabho ever truely loved Sandy as her daughter she would have happy tears atleast for few seconds but alas this is hypocrite bhabho who claims she loves her Dil like daughters but reality is different.

She can be angry how much she wants but atleast opposite person must be given chance to explain their reasons even hard Core criminals are given chance to explain themselves. Bhabho doesnt want Sandy anymore she is feeling lalima can replace Sandy's place now, what Suraj and Ved wants is secondary to her. I remember she never wants mohit truth to come infront of pari because she told no child should hate thier parents but with Sandy and Ved that equation changed completely.



Bhabho always had different rules for losers and different for classy people.. She is a very rigid lady who would prefer to die but would never accept her mistakes.. In fact she can go to any extent to justify her mistakes.. M sure in coming episodes she would again be shown as rudeness personified but that's nothing new.. No body can replace Sandhya in Sooraj ji's or ved's life and bhabho will definitely learn this truth the hardest way and I m eagerly waiting for that day...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: -RJ-

poor surya il never understand her true nature.


Yes my friends because their hearts are pure unlike bhabho's..
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: iLoveNutella

I was always confused if she loved Sandhya because of her righteousness, sacrificial personality, and caring attitude or whether it was because Sandhya is her daughter in law , because of whom she completed her challenge to Daisa and her friends (to get Suraj a bride in 10/15 days , something like that)

Oh Hanuman Galli's gossip girl clique , you are one of the reasons SurYa married , but you make us feel sick 🤢 😆


Bhabho never made any efforts to understand Sandhya I think it was sandhya's treatment of bhabho as a mother that must have moved her ( only for a short while ).. Otherwise she was always looking for excuses to throw Sandhya out...😡😡

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