Swara - Mockery of Victims & Strong girls

i wonder does swara really even know the meaning of self respect and being strong
if she thinks she won her war and is succeded with the after winning attitude she is caring on shez d big looser here rag will get what she want obviously sans will also get what he wants,laksh will also adjust wid rag after few days of whinning
who lost everything here is just swara
im not talking abt love issue here,fighting with ur enemy might show ur strength but then handing over urself to the same enemy shows ur foolishness not love or strength
now what is swara acc to all the ppl in society Drug addict,characterless grl who have affairs with guy,who runaway on her wedding day,grl who romancing both her brothers
apart frm all this its for society what abt herself doesnt she feel ashamed of herself doesnt she have any selfrespect,she calls herself strong
she just want to become mahan to both these families by forgiving the criminals,cheaters and loving them back and making others too accept them
she is the one who lost it completely,she lost everything her character,her reputation,her brain

i know what im gonna say no one will agree with me i dont even mind abt it but i just want to put my pov

swara have 2options one is laksh and other is sanskar to choose to live her life with
seriously these are her 2options for her one guy who created an opportunity to make her a prostitute infront of the society,made her family and all her loved ones to think her as characterless,drug addict
other guy who used this opportunity to satisfy his ego by insulting and bashing her in each and every opportunity he got bcz she rejected him and he was jealous to see her with other guy so he made himself feel better by abusing her

so now this girl have to choose one of these guys as her partner love them and accept them and give them chance and live her life with

atleast here san was a stranger pure stranger he didnt knew anything abt swara,he just used her to hurt his bro and swara forgived him which no grl wont do but atleast we have a point here that he was a stranger not anyway related to swara later he did everything to make her life right thats a difft thing

gr8 laksh who claimed he will nvr marry any grl if not swara and claimed he blvd her so much and loved her and all the crap.but as soon as he got to know the grl rejected his love and left his life he showed his jealousy,ego by treating and insulting her in each and every way possible

now i dont even understand or relate with any character in this show
what they made this show as
now the grl whoz a victim have two options to choose from but both of them who are responsible for her present ill fate
even horrible than this is the victim herself doesnt feel or mind to do so
she is so happy forgiving all these 3 ppl rag laksh san and want to play cupid
so shameless
whom should i call shameless here so many ppl creating posts on laksh and rag
swara is more shameless than both of them
oh god is this the grl whom i liked so much what she have turned into
she is making fun of all the victims on the name of her goodness and mahanta
what are cvs trying to show us or give msg to ppl here
u can drug,kill,kidnap and do all crimes still u will get ur love
u can drug and defame a grl she will fall for u and love u
u can insult bash a grl to satisfy ur ego and jealousy but when u say one sorry after few months the grrl will b there waiting for u to run into ur arms
u being a victim got drugged,almost got killed,got a reputation as characterless grl will fogive all the ppl who destroyed ur lyf and reputation and play marriage counsellor game with them

Swara has self respect but she also seems to be attached to the victim tag, a lot of the times she puts herself in a bad situation then feels sorry for herself.

I agree with you, you made some really good points. I think at this point in time Swara's character is just ridiculous.

I strongly feel that she should reject laksh and sanskar

as per me swara doesnt even know the meaning of self respect
if she even had an ounce of it she wouldnt have put herself and her mom all this crap
this so called self righteous,strong,self respect,fighting for what is right swara is not the present swara which they are showing
she cant even stand for herself
whn she had went through all that this grl didnt wanted to bring the truth out to prove that she was not characterless nor that her upbringing was bad as they are claiming to be she did it only for what to unite her maa papa
so this so called strong grl cant even stand for herself,cant even stand for the truth and what is right her mission was only uniting maa papa
what a gr8 mission
she can hear all the insults taunts abuses abt her mom,her upbringing and her character but just fighted the battle for uniting her parents but not to prove all the accusations they made on her and on her mom as false
what more proof we need to call this women that she dont have selfrespect
i think the cvs were very clear frm starting that swara cant stand 4 herself nor she is strong or have any self respect that is y she was so happy knowing shekar was her dad,rag was her half sis
instead of refusing him she was dieing to be owned by her so called father who told infront of there families and society that her mother is characterless by refusing that he had any relation with her and left her pregnant or unmarried
so it was merely my illusion that i thought swara had all these traits
but thnxs swara for proving me wrong and it was not ur fault that i didnt analyse ur character properly when she herself frm starting proved how weak,selfish,blind,hypocrite,double standard person she is
finally after uniting her parents by forgiving accepting and giving chances to all those ppl who ruined her life swara made a mockery of all the victims

i dont have any problem if swara genuinely falls in love with sans and want to live with him
but y she want to choose sanskar or be with sanskar for ragini the same rag who did all this now for her sake swara want to be with sans until laksh accepts ragini
this is called what if not a mockery of victims
y cant she live her life without interfering in others lyf and making there life hell
in future she can concentrate abt marriage but no ok atleast is she rly whole heartedly giving chance for the marriage no just to get her evil sis her fav toy she will fake her relation and use or hurt the other person conveniently and act as if she is the victim here infront of her partner and mahan infront of the both families
who is she to take decisions on others ppl lyf whether its shomi,ragini,laksh,sans,pari,adarsh
who is she god
shez just insulting all the actual single moms,victims of drug addicts and encouraging the murderers,fake molestations

Swara, not having self respect is stretching it a little too far imo...she is a hypocrite and selfish to the boot ( for her chequered family ), and but definitely not lacking in self respect....

If you see properly.. Swara was always like this only. She had this forgiving nature from the very beginning but the difference is back then she used to forgive mistakes done but right now they are crimes. Thats what makes her look mahaan and lacking self-respect and yes a very unrealistic character too. TBH I dont connect with this character anymore since the day she survived that accident. Like you even I have loved and adored this character a lot but this present Swara just doesnt make any sense.

Yes and now she will mess with everyone to make them forgive Ragini which is wrong. She should let others decide what kind of relationship they want with Ragini. Ragini should earn her forgiveness through her behavior instead of unnecessary interference by swara

Yes and now she will mess with everyone to make them forgive Ragini which is wrong. She should let others decide what kind of relationship they want with Ragini. Ragini should earn her forgiveness through her behavior instead of unnecessary interference by swara