Ananya ......... My heart goes for you.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Ananya is in not in such a mental state that she is can react using her brain , mind. If she is telling such rude words to Kabir , then how many emotions must have died inside her. She was not talking to Kabir. Now, if kabir try to force her to listen to her, it will create more negativity. She has given enough time & chances to Kabir to tell the truth. Some hours before, when the first message came Kabir didn't tell her anything. So, why she will believe him. She is hurt. Whom she believed most, he lied to her. Now, everything what she will see & listen she will think negatively. After the truth came out then he is trying to explain it to Ananya. All the characters are very real here. Ananya believed him blindly, she never questioned him for anything. What he told till now is like word of God. When this high level of blind faith is acceptable then the sound of broken heart will have to be accepted. When Kabir told that her father commit suicide, then SK was automatically tagged as an escapist. Wasn't that wrong? When after blast Ananya told Kabir is so perfect . His father escaped from the situation but kabir does not . Then we never told that how a daughter can compare her father with her BF? Why ? Because it is Kabir Sharma the great? At the begining of Shreya-Kabir relationship ,Kabir was not unhappy , she was talking about that time, she was not talking about the time when he was in pain. So, what is below the belt , I don't understand. We are seeing 2 sides of the coin. 2 sides of the story known to us , not to Ananya.Here it is not Ananya , it is her anger, her feeling of betrayal, her hurt towards Kabir is telling all this. Her pain is unbearable. She is also feeling that she has done injustice to her dad by not understanding him that he is not a person who escaped from the situation but fought for it. It is like just yesterday her father being murdered brutally and his pain of getting murdered is hurting a daughter from inside. What she is feeling inside we cannot even think of ...
Her blind faith totally broken.
Whom she hero worshiped he has betrayed her.
She came to know that her father has been brutally murdered , the 8 year old wound of loosing her father has been refreshed.
Her love , relationship is broken.
She is in guilt that she felt that her father was escaped from the battle ground by the act of suicide when he died the death of martyr.
She felt that as a daughter she failed miserably by not trying to bring the truth of her father's death .
Her dream of a small happy family is being shattered.

So much is going inside her , how can she talk like a balanced person?
Agar usse Kabir ke sare saach ko aanke bandh karke gale lagana manzoor hain toh Kabir ka yeh jhoot ko paer se dabane ki haaq bhi usse hi hain.
Now its too late for Kabir. He has to think of some other way for transmitting his side of story to Ananya.

I am not against Kabir. One wrong decision from his side has left him in ocean of sorrow. Hope he succeeds in reaching to Ananya with his side of truth. He told Tarini that it can shake his relationship with Ananya from its base. It is happening.

But, so what , she is in pain ? It is her duty to understand Kabir's all actions. If she can't , she is not worth of loving by kabir.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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The words she used were below the belt but all of us say things in anger we don't mean
If anyone has never said a bad word to a loved one then come forward and tell but I very much doubt it

I was also angry when she said that but she is suffering too. We should not judge her too much . We should give her the chance that we expect her to give to Kabir

Her anger is justified her words are not I agree but we should not start doubting her love over those words spoken in anger p

Ananya has always been shown temperamental . She always says things she doesn't mean. She once said to Ronnie ye aadmi hi theek nahi hai after the confession when she had a tiff with kabir bit later she promptly forgot that

Only thing is in the show they won't show her regretting her words
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Good post Koyel 😃

Kabir was right on his part if he was trying to protect Ananya from the danger involved in SK's case but we know he has made a mistake so he'll have to pay the price for that too.. and Ananya has all the right of being angry with him and even lashing out her anger and pain at him (and I am glad that he understands it too that its her anger talking and not her heart)..

So if Kabir is ready to be patient enough in dealing with her because he realises his mistake and if she vents out the anger at him in order to restore her equilibrium and think rationally there is nothing wrong with it..things between them are not going that bad as we are thinking it to be!

Hopefully we'll get to see some positivity next week in relation to KaYa!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Well said Koyel!! Uff..I commented on this forum after so many days just cuz of ur post.Anitaji ki tarah forum posts also swing between Kabir and Ananya.
I blame the cvs for not maintaining equality between the two characters.Ananya's emotional baggage has never been focussed on.So just cuz she has a mom & bro, her pain is lessened eh?The story has been revolving around Kabir a lot..even the SK case had to be linked up to him.
Ultimately the end game is KaYa. So, pretty soon Ananya will come around & try to understand Kabir's POV.A person seething in anger does lash out..not justified but wholly relatable.
Oh well nothing more to do than patiently watch the rest of the episodes.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: NandiniRaizadaa

The words she used were below the belt but all of us say things in anger we don't mean

If anyone has never said a bad word to a loved one then come forward and tell but I very much doubt it

I was also angry when she said that but she is suffering too. We should not judge her too much . We should give her the chance that we expect her to give to Kabir

Her anger is justified her words are not I agree but we should not start doubting her love over those words spoken in anger p

Ananya has always been shown temperamental . She always says things she doesn't mean. She once said to Ronnie ye aadmi hi theek nahi hai after the confession when she had a tiff with kabir bit later she promptly forgot that

Only thing is in the show they won't show her regretting her words


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Posted: 10 years ago
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God Bless you Koyel for making this post
Whatever happens Ananya is supposed to behave like a Devi..
The girl has had 2 massive jolts - one the news that her father was murdered and second and more ghastly - her love, her fiance, her hero - was an eye witness and inspite of the topic of her dad being raised so many times - this fact was always hidden

But no - she has to act calm, she has to sit and listen patiently to all, she should not be shattered, she should think before she speaks...ridiculous...

Kabir has made a big time mistake and he has to bear the brunt of it for sometime...Iam surprised that even Kabir realises that Ananya is reacting out of sheer hurt and pain...but some of us dont bother to see that
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Majority of the forum members understands ananya's plight, she is justified in her stance but those words were not. Like I said, I would have accepted if ananya accused him of being money hungry but why bring shreya into a conversation? was also surprised to know that she does suspect the email but does not care.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: pomegranate

Majority of the forum members understands ananya's plight, she is justified in her stance but those words were not. Like I said, I would have accepted if ananya accused him of being money hungry but why bring shreya into a conversation? was also surprised to know that she does suspect the email but does not care.

What makes you think she doesnt care...she is making her own investigations isnt it...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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@koyelbasu : In the English language, "below the belt" is used when a person speaks derogatory terms or innuendos. I didn't hear anything like that said by Ananya. 😲 So why is this term being used in this forum? Secondly, Ananya was venting out her anger, she was forthright in her views and anyone with a sane mind would think the same!! Kabir also was expecting the same behaviour but he was over-confident that Ananya would take it easy, the same way in which she gulped the infidelity angle. Wasn't Kabir asking too much? It's like "main kuch bhi karoon, mujhe saat khoon maaf hain!" 😲 😲

Ananya is upset because Kabir has hidden the truth from her and lied that her father committed suicide. Kabir is completely flawed and is now trying to mend the fence by doing all that he can. He knows too well that he has acted like a moron! 😡

Am sure Ananya's anger would subside once she herself realises that she jumped the gun and should hav given a chance for Kabir to explain himself. When she sees the tapes, its possible that she sees Shreya in it and then confronts Kabir again! It's possible that once someone realises that she has the tapes, they may kidnap Anuraag or Armaan- Anita and she would find herself in Kabir's shoes! 😃 😃

Ronnie was the interesting knot yesterday, 'cause now Maanav's folly is going to be unearthed...


-Rekha
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: kaks0211

What makes you think she doesnt care...she is making her own investigations isnt it...


I don't know if I heard it right but didn't see say she knows there is another side to that letter but she doesn't want to know what is that side? so contrary to popular opinion, she knows something was fishy about that email.


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