Milind knows the truth, so now what?

Namaskaram, Adaab and SatsriAkal,

Finally fevicol kaa mazbooth jood is broken (😃 yay I meant Sukruti ka mu/mouth yaar😉 ). Well is it fair on M part to yell and scream and almost hit prachi😭. He called her so many names, I am shocked 😲, shameless, characterless so many things said and unsaid🤢. Why is he obessed with neev? If things go in this way, we will have a story between Neev and Milind ( ok was kidding i meant no offence ). Well why did he leave Sukriti scott free, the gal is not exactly Cerelax baby ( i mean infant, infact she has a infant of her own 😕) , why is he hitting prachi? He was the one who practically raised her(sukruti), if she is so shallow who is the one to be blamed prachi or milind? Is it more to do with her culture and values than to do with prachi 😡?

Now my questions to you ladies is that as a woman, if somebody calls you so many names, can you go back and live with that person ever ?😕 If a person loves you is it ok for him to call you names and abuse you badly? I would like to know what you guys think about Milind and his outburst. Is there a justification? Another thing is, is marriage a game, whenever you want you play hubby wife, whenever you want u just drop the act, what is this serial upto, infact any k serial upto, 😡 I dont want this to turn into another KS🤢🤢🤢, where for every problem they break the marriage, then once the problem is over or if it turns out to be a blooper😆, then they marry again, its digusting how our rituals are mocked in each one of them? What is your take on it ? Eagerly awaiting for your replies,

Ram Ram

Basanthi 😊

P.S whats up with ayesha's voice 😕, it was not sanjeeda voice or am i imagining ?

P.P.S wwassup with the song i never heard that one which movie is it, and btw why does ayesha has tears her eyes

Honestly Basanthi, I can't even imagine myself to be in Prachi's situation.. First to be in a marriage of compromise.. then fall in love with that person and then to be rejected so badly by him.. I am not sure how I will react.. I think I will forgive him if he apologises to me. Mainly because I can understand the pain and humiliation he felt once his sister ran away from the house. But I will also let him know how much I was hurt by his actions and how much my self respect was bruised due to his accusations. I will also ask him to take a stand whether he wants to continue this marriage or not? I will ask him if he is still in love with another woman to release me from this marriage.

No, I don't like at all the way marriage is being portrayed in these serials. All most all the Kserials show atleast one couple getting married for compromise or buisiness agreement. I don't know how many of these happens in real life. Atleast not much in the society that I go around. Marriage is not something which we can be written and rewritten again..

I don't wanna know what happen next I just to see MP in
love and happy together that is all that I want see😳is that too much 2 ask for Ekta? 😡 😡and I also want something really bad 2 happen 2 that idiot Ayesha my GOD I stand her anymore or I'm gonna go made very soon if say one more thingg 2 my dearly Prachi ever again

After reading today's update, they both seem to have just given up. Even once the misunderstanding was cleared there was no step towards any reconcillation. I don't blame Prachi, she may have just reached breaking point after all the abuse and accusations, she had to bear. It's Milind who has to make the first move, but he is probably too paralysed by guilt and remorse to do anything. He probably feels he has no right to ask her anything, yet alone forgiveness.

But that's fiction, in a real life sceanario this would probably qualify as abuse and near impossible to tolerate. Even if all is forgiven, I don't think all will be easily forgotten. In real life this is probably a deal breaker as Dr Phil say but in soapie land, who knows? 🤢

i know for sure in real life marriages dont break b'coz of these things. they remain in minds and keep proping up now and then but life goes on. The kind of society we have created , rates marriage as very special and imp not just when u want to take benmefits from it but also when u have to sacrifice a lot of things every now and then,

so i guess only thing i can see happeneing is tht they will remain married but idealy milind will have to give up his ego and bend.which again rarely happens in real life!!!

Basanthi!! (Arre..yeh kaun sa naam choose kiya hai tumne!!! Baap! 😆 )

My take on this whole thing! Well..First i would never marry guy where the marriage is a compromise...say..i end up marrying the guy...i would except him to treat me as his equal...if he is as abusive as Milind has been prachi...i would definitely leave him....

But acceptance is part of any marriage...so if he realizes his mistakes and grovels over more than an 1000 times i might (and that's a big "Might") forgive him!!! 😆 😉

I don't think i can be ever like Prachi..Chup chap...listening all that bullshit from Milind's mouth..i would give it back a hundred fold for putting me through so much pain!! 😉

Waaa Basanthi cool thread...

My take on it (let's see if I can concentrate on the question) :

First of all I still don't know what he was actually saying to Prachi, I just knew he was angry and spitting nasty words. So my perception of his calling her names is still somewhat blur.

However, in real life there's nooo way I can take such crap from my husband, I'm just not that type. Sheesh, if someone like Ayesha comes and talks to me the way Ayesha talks to prachi I would slap her so hard her teeth would fall or something (ahem). I'm actually a villain type in real life, not heroine at all. My real life partner is actually more like Neev (no physical similarities though), calmer, softer and kinder. Because with someone like Milind I'll create the 3rd World War.

However, back to Michi, I've seen marriages so crappy yet both husbands and wives hang on to their marriage, so it's not so far fetched to say that Milind and Prachi can survive this.

And since this a 'fantasy world', I think Prachi can surely forgive Milind if he apologizes. Their relationship could be so beautiful if only the misunderstandings could be cleared *starry eyes*. But I don't know where they'll go from here because yes it seems like they're giving up already.. For me Milind's love for Prachi is so clear and heart-wrenching, and because I know this I do think it's a justification for his outburst, he didn't mean what he said and said it because he was hurting too much *clears throat*. As for Prachi I won't have a heart attack if she suddenly says (to the audience) that she doesn't love Milind that much, because she's not being too clear with her feelings (at least not as clear as I want). Point? Non existent.

Marriage is a very serious matter to me, and my personal value won't allow any divorce (unless hubby is a psycho) so yup I won't like it if they do divorce-remarry over and over again, that's not amusing at all.

Hey you all females over there..... aren't we all very selfish? we all love P for her patience but if we put ourselves in her shoes.... the first thing we wud do is run to court for a divorce 😆 😆 ....
In fact.... this is the success mantra of all K serials.... no matter how forward we all have become and how we wud react to the situation.... we still r very traditional.... we all like meek "sati-savitri" type of women who lives for family and husband and wud not do anything against him 😕 .... and since we like this doormat type, tear shedding women.... we watch the serial for the sake of our inner traditional women....
seriously... that's how tulsi, parvati and prerna r "ideal" indian women.....we have made them devi .....