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Posted: 18 years ago
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Shali, Good post dear and I can completely relate to the mood. Michi do drive us up the wall and ruin our weekends😡 Not that they make our weekdays any better😡

Coming to if Michi really belong together…. They most certainly DO😃! At this stage they are together ONLY because they belong together😕. They are destined for eachother….At this stage there is nothing else concrete holding them together but the will of God who wants them together at any cost. If it were any other couple, forget surviving this phase, they would have never got together in the 1st place.

No matter how much this phase frustrates us… it is necessary for Michi to go through this ordeal. When the two came together after the initial apprehensions… both took to eachother like they have known eachother for eternity. Everything was so quick, they instinctively seem to have felt they have found their soulmate and everything else drained out of the picture… they didn't even realize Neev & Ayesha existed in the same house and are capable of ruining things😡. They probably dance with eachother and look so sincere to a line like '...Na koi hai, Na koi tha zindagi mein tumhare siva'😕 And could actually blush saying they have known eachother forever. They happily retreated into the perfect Michi world oblivious to their surroundings. And being the romantic and idealistic fools that both Prachi and Milind are… they couldn't handle a crisis and put it to an end… they kept escaping and overlooking issues that kept coming their way… which was snow balling eachtime they refused to set it straight and today they don't know to handle the magnitude of it😡. These two needed a reality check and the fact that they were too lost in eachother… only a huge dhamaka could make the different by threatening their relationship. They need this phase to define their relationship, its importance in their life, They need to work & fight for their relationship and protect it…no more taking for granted their good fortune and the destiny that has brought them together with one single stroke of fate. Marriage's track happen for days, weeks and months no end and look at these two… it was one single episode… the 1st two minutes Milind took to propose and Prachi accepted and the last 2 minutes the guy is here with the Barath😆.. ..That is how lucky they have been with their relationship.

I get annoyed with Prachi's silence… what really a put off for me is when she doesn't stand up for herself… at times it is so frustrating, why fight for her when she doesn't want to justice for herself. And Milind's denials are another headache to deal with😡. The only solution to this is one of them take the initiate or in the heat of the moment confess their love… All will fall in place by itself.

Now going through this phase they should learn some important lessons and hopefully they will remember it forever. They need to know the importance of communication, Prachi needs to speak up when Milind asks her something and Milind needs to listen when she talks. If they want an unconditional relationship then they need to work constantly and win the confidence of the other person over and over again.

This is a couple surely Made in Heaven😳…what they need to taught is that they have to make it work on earth😡… that is where the two act like the biggest idiots to have walked the earth😡… hopefully that will change after this phase😊

Having said all this... my patience is running out... I cant endure this any longer for the sake of the two... they should end it by now and learn their lessons😡 Ironically I put up a post contrary to this post just to assure myself these two are meant to be and everytime they have been at crossroads of lives...they have reached out to eachother and taken their relationship a bit further...and hoping this will happen again😊
Edited by Ryka - 18 years ago

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