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Posted: 10 years ago
#61

Originally posted by: Aashima.

Mangala is uneducated like others in that village...& her wishlist for Nimboli is also based on her environment ...agreed.

But unfortunately the likes of Kamli is also not doing <<never did>> anything for the betterment/growth of the girl apart from once indulging her in all sorts of dangerous daredevilry...& now making her a playmate for her husband.

Social workers or opportunities only helps when one wants to help themselves. And moreover what others can do if the fake scenario present in front of them is all hunky dory. they cant go on suspecting each & every person/thing.
And as far as Mangala is concerned , from whatever shown from her thoughts, it doesnt seems that any trust issue is there for her with Anandi W.R.T Nimboli's future. Its only that she is sure that once parted with her, she wont be able to see her again & thats the only thing forcing her to do what she is doing right now.
She needs an assurance...& that will be it.


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@aparna The girl can be good-hearted, daring, or street-smart<<sometimes>>,,...
But she is equally innocent <<if dumb is not the correct word to use>> & ignorant. <<doing every other thing despite of knowing consequences/punishment, dropped schooling, trusting a person with history like Kundan>>
While she could think of her parents or how bad her mother would be to marry her off in this household where most hates her...I doubt if she has guts or intelligence to think of herself or her future over her existing dear-to-her relations with Kamli-pushkar, teesa-Urmi or even chagni for that matter.


So with this molestation attempt also , i dont think she is actually going to understand what her "so-called beend" tried to do with her.
It will be the eye-opener for others members of that house only.

The fact is that girl needs more tahn what a few people can provide her.
Kamili before her marriage she was wrapped up in her own world she may have been nice but has done nothing to make any difference to that girl's life. Simple thing like creating interest in reading and writing was something she could have done but didn't do.
When things were going well for her in her in laws place she did try to do something which is nice of her but now she is back at her parents place with things becoming tough she will be back to hers self absorbed self wrapped up in her own problems.
Mangala can only do nothing other than hoping to get her married to some guy who may be very much like Kundan.

The girl is smart but ignorant and innocent to the ways of the world. For that she needs her mind to be opened up by people who have seen more and understand more.
I don't even want Anandi to help her get out .I would like to see her wanting to get out of there or questioning the system there based on the new insights she has given by her mother.
I have accepted the fact that Anandi is a failed mother and her motherhood will be restored to it's status after a great deal of efforts.I only want Anandi to fight Akheraj after she finds out where he is.
Want Anandi's daughter to find her way to her mother or help herself out of the mess with the insights given by her mother.

I just don't want that girl to look at life like the way Kamili or Manga do.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#62
@Kikyo and saba Bang on
Jharla is not under Jaitsar for now if cvs changed in future i cannot say anything but Akhiraj told Jagya in quite clear words your son's child marriage would never be possible in Jaitsar but how easily it happened in Jharla ...It is clear proof Jagya is not MLA of Jharla so why people are blaming him ?
well if cvs would have shown things with reality then Nimboli's story cannot be shown because with all support of MLA , Udaipur's DC , i am sure Jaitsar 's DC would be involved in it , police commissioner , O i guess CM would help too since he knew Anandi and Shiv and knows Jagya too so with all these people involved in Nandini's search mission and could not trace her How is that possible ?People call Jagya worthless MLA Ok then what about Udaipur's DC? what about then CM ?what would all Rajasthan police All are worthless😛because they were handling this case on their top priority why no blaming to them ?
Funny there have been no sketch made of Akhiraj singh thats why Jagya cannot recognize him? Dadisaa's memory is working for all other things but she forgot Akhiraj singh?funny

Cvs plot is full of bloopers

Edited by Beautiful-Soul - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Any child or every child can be said to need more. We are seeing Nimboli as per our own expectations and comparing to what she could have got had she remained with her parents. But the fact is nothing is perfect. A child such as Shivam and Abhi also can be said to need more - compare them with a child living in a developed country, a wealthy and happy family not this complex circus where the elders had so many skeletons in their cupboard etc. etc. It is a cultural difference - like people in developed world see our life as something less developed and crude - eating with hands, sleeping on floors, even not using toilet paper 😆 - so many thing that they think are primitive. That does not mean that we people are not providing our children good things. Shivam is not getting what he could get in Udaipur - does that mean he is to be taken away from SN and sent to Singapore for his better future? A pervert like Kundan can be there in urban society or a village cum district called Jaitsar also (remember Nirbhaya? she came from a small village to a big city and what happened...) Creatives want to gain sympathy for their balika vadhus - and only bad effect of bal-vivah is bad in-laws, beatings and marital rape and in future - adultery by husband. They don't know that in-laws can be good also, balak var can be good also...
As regards Nimboli seeing life as Kamli and Mangala are seeing is concerned - it will not happen. Does Anandi sees life as her mother/Sumitra saw? Does Jagya sees life as his father saw? Every one is unique - they can imbibe good values and also bad ones. I so want a real social worker comes and make Mangala/Kamli/Nimboli/Urmi unite for better future. I so want Nimboli and Mangala running away from Akhera and not landing in SN but a far away place - living peacefully. If Anandi is not searching her daughter - it is not Mangala or anyone else's fault. Let Anandi immerse herself in her social work. But this demeaning of other character is so bad.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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People want Nandini to run away from the house and reach nowhere else but shiv niketan.

But this will not happen. Nimboli will not run away. Even when she was tied to the tree, she asked anandi to drop her back home... so no way nimboli is going anywhere. It is her house.

She may learn to deal with kundan in her own way, but she will not go anywhere.
Edited by Shinya - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
#65

Originally posted by: kikyo

Jharla is not under Jagya's constituency So far its told in serial

1. when Akhiraj first time saw Jagya The villagers told him he is Jaitsar' s MLA Dr Jagdish Singh Usually people refer to their MLA as our Vidhayak sa like Jaitsar people call Jagya but they called Jagya as Jaistar's MLA Used name of the place with him
2. Akhiraj when first time was telling Jagya stories about Jharla's bad sarpanch Jagya told him you should contact your place's related administrative department How can i help you in this
3. Akhiraj told Jagya He will make Jharla a good place like Jaitsar
4 yesterday in very clear words Akhiraj told his supporters do such arrangements that Jagdish should feel he has visited his own place Means Jharla should look like a good and peaceful place like jaitsar

i believe these all are enough proofs Jharla is not under Jagya's MLA raaj 😛so why blaming Jagya? His own Jaitsar is a peaceful , good place so are all the villages under his control Thats why the people keep giving him votes and want only him as their MLA since such a long time😉

True Jharla is not under Jaitsar I hope cvs progress Jagya's political career and make him CM of the state then he can control all state 😉
i wonder why cvs did not progress his political career why he is only MLA for such a long time
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Yashoda maiyaa had a hard time parting with Krishna , she cried, she went into shock, tried holding on to him..that was her "mamta". There is nothing wrong if Mangala has this fear of parting with Nandini..it's legit, and should be there. Woman has loved that kid with all her heart.
This logic that social worker can only help if one wants it ..umm no, because if that was the case ..no social reform would have happened in our country. True and real social workers have to convince, fight and educate villagers who have internalized opinions and fears about various social wrong doings.

Heck , when teacher ji tried to stop anandi's wedding, her parents objected.., were they wrong or misguided. Or even Bhairon for that matter.


Yes , Jagya doesn't call his parents but he lives in their family home with his granny . While Anandi even after her marriag break-down was never show leaving BV or when her parents were sick and sad. It's fiction and this is where they went wrong when they justified child marriage and blamed everything on straying.

If the argument is presented that it's a story and daily hence Anandi cannot be shown searching for her daughter than how can they show Mangala being proactive about it.

Kamli or her again , two different women, different experience and handling of situation ..it's the "intent" that unites them.

Anandi is the one with means and sources..our expectations from her will be different than any other character. because she is sold as the moral compass.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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@Manahil .. They don't want to send Jagya out of Jaitsar and BH 😆Because in that way BH cannot be shown so they want to keep him Jaitsar and BH

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