Describe it!!!

Guys do describe a live in relationship. don't copy text only share your own experience that's what you heard about it or if you know some people out there who are in or were in...OR if you have experienced it.

You don't have any answer 😲😉but still i read post that Dylan is being pitied.

I dont know what to say... I mean may be its common in the states and abroad... but here in india, in our city I have never seen such thing. Its true that many consider this live-in thing as unethical and against our culture.. I can't say much about it but I personally try to go with our traditions and rituals as long as it isn't anti-social or derogatory that is.

Originally posted by: -Pree.Jaani-

I dont know what to say... I mean may be its common in the states and abroad... but here in india, in our city I have never seen such thing. Its true that many consider this live-in thing as unethical and against our culture.. I can't say much about it but I personally try to go with our traditions and rituals as long as it isn't anti-social or derogatory that is.

And well if love is true from one's heart, one is to love someone for all the ages to come.. then what's wrong in getting married. Well on the flipside there's this argument saying do we need to marry jus because we need society's approval? two sides of a coin... depends on the situation or mindset of those persons I guess.

Me, Like many Indians go with the first thing I said.. I believe if you love someone there's nothing better than get married to him/her and have a family of your own

Totally agree with you... I live in a small town in India... Live in relationship toh chod hi do.. Divorce ki baat se hi yaha ke log touba touba Karte hai!... So I can't say anything about this relationship... But time is changing and we should change our way of thinking... And like you mentioned that "we have to marry because we need just society's approval"?... Then they should end their relationship or wait for that day when Dylan will be ready to get married!

Originally posted by: sompi123

Totally agree with you... I live in a small town in India... Live in relationship toh chod hi do.. Divorce ki baat se hi yaha ke log touba touba Karte hai!... So I can't say anything about this relationship... But time is changing and we should change our way of thinking... And like you mentioned that "we have to marry because we need just society's approval"?... Then they should end their relationship or wait for that day when Dylan will be ready to get married!

Originally posted by: -Pree.Jaani-

agree with u completely! I think its lovely to get married to the person u love. I mean you will have everything. If you truly love that person then what's the glitch in getting married? true said its not necessary to care for what others think but still, marriage defines commitment, like a promise for a life time. I'm totally in sync with all those Indians and also Dabbu in this matter.

jus my pov

Totally agree with you... Marriage is a very beautiful thing but when you get married to a wrong person then nothing is worst than this!... I can very much relate with Dylan's story because I've seen this in reality...maa bap hamesa jhagad te rehte hai aur apne so called izzat ke khatir divorce bhi nehi lete.. Yeh log bhul jaate hai isse bichare bachche par Kitna bura asar hota hai .. My cousin brother was so scared on that day and came to my house to stay with us.. Because his parents were fighting like... I can't explain it

Thanks PreeJani and Sompi.
i know lots of couple who stays together without marriage as I live and work in Italy.
The fact of being in such relationship it is an open relationship but on both of the two person...initially lots of love hugs and kisses...It is a relationship of the two having sex without marriage but still it is open if they want to continue staying with each other if it DOES NOT WORK the partner is changed overnight they are Europeans so it is very very normal if again the couple is not happy with each other the same will happen.
don't want to name anyone but I know ... who has a conceived a child with two different partners now staying with a third one...
Will Dabbu change Dylan if things does not work between them who'll marry her?? Oh !!! I forgot big society High society.
I'm not liking Juliet idea instead of explaining to her son she's taking help of Dabbu exposing her whole life...
May be for her it is so easy to be the second wife...

Originally posted by: ALUJNA21

Thanks PreeJani and Sompi.
i know lots of couple who stays together without marriage as I live and work in Italy.
The fact of being in such relationship it is an open relationship but on both of the two person...initially lots of love hugs and kisses...It is a relationship of the two having sex without marriage but still it is open if they want to continue staying with each other if it DOES NOT WORK the partner is changed overnight they are Europeans so it is very very normal if again the couple is not happy with each other the same will happen.
don't want to name anyone but I know ... who has a conceived a child with two different partners now staying with a third one...
Will Dabbu change Dylan if things does not work between them who'll marry her?? Oh !!! I forgot big society High society.
I'm not liking Juliet idea instead of explaining to her son she's taking help of Dabbu exposing her whole life...
May be for her it is so easy to be the second wife...

Same here.. I don't like her idea too.. Even it was unexpected for me... Maybe they were in us for a long time that's why it's not a big deal for them... But if you want to compare Indians with Europeans then please don't do that... Nothing like that going to happen...and I don't think live in relationship means two people having sex without marriage!... At least not for me...and I'm sure that dylan will be ready to get married,but it'll take time... Situation is totally different here, it's not like other normal people...

Originally posted by: sompi123

Same here.. I don't like her idea too.. Even it was unexpected for me... Maybe they were in us for a long time that's why it's not a big deal for them... But if you want to compare Indians with Europeans then please don't do that... Nothing like that going to happen...and I don't think live in relationship means two people having sex without marriage!... At least not for me...and I'm sure that dylan will be ready to get married,but it'll take time... Situation is totally different here, it's not like other normal people...

Originally posted by: -Pree.Jaani-

Agree I cant believe even juliet is suggesting the same. This is a huge issue for our indians.. yes living together doesn't mean getting over intimate, they can live like friends.. like in the movie wake up sid... but well will this live-in solve their problems? again there is no answer.. anyways I dont think such live-in things will be appreciated by Indians. I personally dont as well.

I know it's a little awkward for us to accept this kind of relationships ... But we can't stop western culture to enter in our society... And I've googled about live-in-relationships in India and if Supreme Court of India is giving approval to this kind of relationships then there must be some reason behind this.. And I think we should try to change our mind sets about this kind of relationships...Sorry but at least we should try to respect those people who are having live in relationships... It's their life and their own decision... And not use anti social and derogatory words for them... And please try to understand my point of view