Bhabo Is sandhya really selfish or u?

Meena, bhabo nd Mohit the great legends of rati family judging sandhya and saying that she is selfish and left family for her duty. Then what about them?
living in one family they are selfish for just themselves and just think about them and sandhya who whole heartedly served that cunning family and left to die to save her country became selfish.

True.
Bhabo is a big hypocrite. She keeps saying she is doing everything for her son & is angry on Sandhya for leaving her son like this but in reality only God knows that she is angry & taking revenge on Sandhya as she feels Sandhya choose country over family ( which is unacceptable in her eyes).
Didn't she say Sandhya is like her daughter now what ? a mother forgot her daughter so easily???!
And she is partial too as when it is her son who show more selfishness that a whole village put together she forgives them but Sandhya does her duty towards nation & even her memory is kicked out of the family.