31.8.15 - Ishita is pregnant! Par Ruhi ke liye?

Originally posted by: gravity23

Ishita is PREGNANT!

So...should I be happy about it or sad?

Technically, since we all as an audience have been ROOTING for IshRa baby since time immemorial, logic dictates we ought to be happy. But in reality, what do I feel?

I feel WEIRD. Kind of DISORIENTED. Like a bomb dropped on us. Word, Aka! I am flabbergasted for the most part.

Not in the FACT of pregnancy itself, but the way in which it was approached.

Why this was one of the CORNIEST episodes in YHM town, yes, people might not agree with me...but I'll tell you why

I, for one, whole-heartedly agree with you. We've seen WEIRD things in YHM, but every time accepted and moved on. I have never felt as disconnected with the plot as I did today. Usually I try to put myself in CVs shoes and try & understand why they did what they did. Today, can't find ANY logic whatsoever.

1. I am not a big fan of 7 yr olds like Ruhi being dragged into this pregnancy-and-baby mess and it was DOWNRIGHT ANNOYING to see Ruhi acting so immaturely!😡😡 How do such kids end up going to the hospital and creating a ruckus and demanding babies of the concerned doctors, nearly THREATENING them?? From crying, to intimidating, to positively yelling at Dr.Paul to stamping her foot on the ground saying, "Mujhe baby chahiye, mujhe baby chahiye" like it was the newest toy on the block was APPALLING It completely ruined the innocence of Ruhi's character for me...normally, seeing her cry would make my heart turn into jelly. Today, I was mildly annoyed and kept cringing throughout. I was so irritated with the way they made Ruhi behave today. It was so unlike the sweet little girl we've all come to love. And how in the world can a 7 year old travel to hospitals on her own, when she needs her grandfather to pick her up from school. And honestly, Ishita has taught her better manners than how she behaved today at the clinic. She's behaving like a brat, and she has no reason to! There has been no intense build-up as to why does she want a baby THIS bad! Yes, she Kshitija & Rohit's arrival bought on some longing, but she's usually happy with Adi, Shravu, Rohit & Kshitija. I love Ruhanika, but I could not connect with her at all.

2. Here we were, thinking Ishita wanted to have the baby coz she wanted to have THEIR CHILD, Raman's and HER child...she wanted to experience motherhood...but today she broke down mostly because Ruhi would be disappointed and heartbroken if she came to know of the same...Ruhi ka sapna and all...ufff...any outsider who prolly hasnt seen the show even once would deduce that the kid is a single child and is yearning for a sibling...the way Ruhi has been behaving as regards this baby thing smacks of wanting to have what Shravu has. A little kid to play with. No such emotional yearning for a younger sibling or anything, as far as I can see and gauge😕 I was MOST disappointed today coz it all boiled down to 'Ruhi ke liye' ONCE AGAIN, given the fact that the leads have discovered each other INDEPENDENT of the factors that united them more than a year ago...I have nothing against Ishita's fondness and immense love fr Ruhi...in fact, I TOTALLY DIG IT...but the constant harping on Ruhi...and taking such life-changing decisions solely for Ruhi and not because she honours and acknowledges Raman's words/feelings in any sense (Raman has time and again expressed his wish for HER to experience motherhood) makes Raman look like a second-class citizen here. I frankly, am not impressed with the same.😲 I know people will bash me for the same..but for the LOVE of God...Why cant Ishita wanna conceive a child for HERSELF? Or for HER mohabbatein with Raman?? I mean...if Ruhi ke liye keeps overpowering the minutest of their equations, then I dunno how far they've come in this journey😕 @underline - My sentiments exactly! I would have liked it had she said, Ruhi was one reason, Raman was another and her own desire a third. But she made it look like the ONLY reason she wanted a child was for 'Ruhi ke liye'. I absolutely LOVED Raman today. The words he said, the way he consoled her, and I felt sad for him because all she wants is for everything to be Ruhi ke liye, forgetting that Raman was the one who gave her the reports way before Ruhi asked for a baby 😭 I even liked how he categorically told Ruhi that he's upset with her behavior because she hurt Ishima, and that some things are not in our control. As a parent, it was the right thing to do, but IshRa should NOT have given in to her demands of a pregnancy test.

3. Paul categorically stated that Ishita womb is WEAK and so, EVEN IF SHE BECAME PREGNANT she may not be able to carry the baby thruout the pregnancy term...IshRa broke down and found comfort in each other...and it was all overwhelming but I wished they'd give it a second chance, get a second opinion, try harder...since people married for 10 plus years too found luck with babies and all...and here, they looked shattered...now today on a test (which involved a PREGNANCY KIT, no less) Paul broke the news to Ishita that she is PREGNANT??? I'm like WHAT?? And he couldn't chance upon it two days back? Like, really? WHAT COURSE HAS HE STUDIED TO BECOME THE DOCTOR HE HAS BECOME?? or claims himself to be??!! @red - 😆 And it was not a medical blood test, which doctors usually do to confirm pregnancies, by checking hormone levels in the blood. Pregnancy sticks can give false positives, but for a doctor to consult a stick for a diagnosis 😆 😆

4. And the doctor was jubilating on the basis of the fact that Ishita is PREGNANT! Its a miracle and all! I mean, its like Ruhi praying in the lobby to Lord Ganesha miraculously planted Raman's sperms right in Ishita's womb and the foetus started developing! WHAT THE HELL!! I thought Ishita could conceive anyway, but the issue was her weak uterus which may not have allowed her to carry the baby for the whole term?? Or is it any different? Please clarify if its anything else..coz Dr. Paul's diagnosis and his medical knowledge is kinda MIND-BOGGLING @red = 🤣 🤣 You cracked me up there, Aka! 🤣 It was so unbelievable And by showing this, they have mocked all the women who follow YHM, who connect with Ishita because they, in real-life, cannot have a child. What message are they giving to such people in the audience? Get a kid to pray for your pregnancy and you'll conceive? 😡 😡

5. And so technically, the VERY FIRST TIME IshRa consummated, she conceived Raman's child...coz if the recent family dramas are to be recalled, then they havent had the time to do 'it' since that C day...that was like a ONE SHOW REEL😕 And so - the very same thing happened which we DID NOT WANT. Have Ishu impregnated the very first time they have sex..! Its like - consummate bhi usi intention se kiya... Why was she humiliated her whole life then? All she needed was to get cozy with someone and she would've gotten pregnant! 😳

I dont have the energy or inclination to discuss Romi and Sarika's first day of married life...so I'll skip that...am just FLUMMOXED as to WHY I cant feel those butterflies in my stomach...at the news of Ishita being pregnant...??😭

DT acted well...when Manoj broke the news to her, "Dr.Ishita aap pregnant hain"...she looked like she couldn't believe her ears...but somehow NOT EVEN ONE MOMENT in the episode today touched me...maybe because it all bordered on Ruhi ke liye and executed in a slipshod manner??Dunno...I am just so BLAH. And I feel sad coz technically, THIS was supposed to be a defining and exhilarating moment for us YHM fans... @underlined - Sailing in the same boat. I don't feel ANY excitement for IshRa's baby. The only saving grace was IshRa scene in the bedroom and Raman's consoling Ishita. And even for tomorrow, I'm only looking forward to his reaction and nothing else 😕

I didnt want Ishita to be pregnant IN THIS MANNER😕...I know it sounds crude, but yes...there it is...she is SUDDENLY pregnant coz CVs realised audience will boycott their show if Shagun stepped in as surrogate mother...because they decided to bring Ruhi ke liye angle and make the audience cry tears of overwhelming emotion...I am happy with the first...BLAH with the second. It didnt move me. Not the slightest bit. Instead, I was v v disappointed!😲

Guys...do let me know your thoughts on today's episode...coz somehow not even Raman's reaction to the news seems befitting to me! The whole Ruhi-praying-for-Ishima's-baby-and-Ishima-getting-pregnant-it-is-a-miracle angle looks so Bollywood-ish, TV soap opera-ish to me...wish the CVs hadnt resorted to such a lazy execution of this track which had SO much potential

P.S. Simmi and Ananya have SORT OF DISAPPEARED! Very uncharacteristic...and it looks like NOBODY in Bhalla House cares😆 Mihir and Amma too 😆 But thankfully they keep mentioning Mihir once in a while 😆

P.S. Loved DT's outfit today👏...navy blue blouse with full sleeves, turquoise green saree with embellishments adorning the body, hair let loose...she looked pretty...I'd have DIED of happiness had the pregnancy news greeted us in a diff manner😔 How color- coordinated they both were But I couldn't even focus on that 😭

P.S. This whole Ruhi-harping-on-the-baby-thing has left a bad taste in my mouth...to top it all, NO logical conclusion to Ishita's pregnancy...I mean a day and half ago she was too weak to even conceive, and now she's pregnant! Its like the foetus started developing an hour ago, when Ruhi appealed to lord Ganesha to 'give a baby to her Ishima' How can we even ENJOY the beauty of this news??I sure am unable to😭

Originally posted by: swatica.arora

Hey!!!guys i had just gone thru an article n i think dat surrogacy is considered when a lady is nt able to conceive n dn if she conceives dn surrogacy is nt d option... Have a look at d article... In case u ol get any further info frm ds do share here...

http://www.modernfamilysurrogacy.com/page/different_types_of_surrogacy

Originally posted by: DivianTanz_Divz

We now know many things about surrogacy.. thanks to YHM😆.

CVs also know it, but logic is alien to YHM. So, you never know!

BTW, thanks for the info😊.