Please be sensitive Dear Writers.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Cv's this is an ardent request. PLEASE PLEASE do not make a joke out of a sensitive issues like infertility for the sake of drama. There are various women who have no hope of being mothers or cannot conceive for more than 10 years of marriage. But they make efforts, get themselves treated and get pregnant. And YES there are families who are disgruntled and orthodox in situations like these. But there are husbands and families who stand by the women and help them go through this ordeal and accept them with or without a child.

This infertility track is the damn base of the show. By involving Shagun there you're only making it a joke out of it. Ishita's pregnancy or child should be hers and her own experience. She already shares two kids with Shagun in a way. But just because you all have to involve Miss Arora into a track some way or the other, we should see her be the mother to Ishita's third child too?

What kind of a message are you trying to give? That it's so important to be a mother that you opt for surrogacy even when you already have two kids? 😳

Ishita's fertility treatment is the talk of the town. Bala's mom sees her at the clinic. Some boutique owner sees her file with the doctors? Does this happen for real? This is taking fictional liberties to another level.

We've seen a lot of tracks being played with and destroyed too, but please don't insult and dirty a track that could give the viewers a wonderful message. A woman who can't conceive is no less a woman than who can. You could very well show her being accepted whole heartedly even in spite of the fact that she cannot be pregnant. A wonderful soulful track of Raman and Ishita coming even more close emotionally during this ordeal could be shown. Because that is what the world wants to see. They don't want to see the ex- sautan be an angel in disguise to help Ishita in becoming a mother. It's just disgusting and puke-worthy.


ONCE AGAIN I'd like to add. YHM was and is supposed to be OR at least promised to be a mature show. A show that was about remarriages, infidelity, second chances, infertility and a mature progressive aspect on it is now insulting and degrading the same. Please save the ship before it sinks.. it's almost there
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Posted: 10 years ago
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You said it all Anku. Ishita facing disappointment on the first try is not new but jumping for surrogacy...disaster. People have already shown their dislike. I really hope cv's show something sensible. Remaining infertile is better than making mockery of their own show.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Beautiful post Anku. Nothing more to add..
Just to CVs :please, if you have got this success of your show , that's hugely cos of IshRa and their love story, IshRu bonding, IshRaRu nice family. There was no place of Shagun in their life. Even Adi Ruhi also don't consider Shagun as their mom, so why are you yourselves spoiling the things you have shown till now? You kept saying that the pregnancy of Ishita is just to experience the pregnancy and real motherhood for Ishita (through Raman). Now, you yourselves want to revert from your own story? If you are a lil bit sane still, don't think of surrogacy for IshRa kid even in your dreams. Keep surrogacy drama for any other couple if you are so keen for Shagu, the surrogate mother😡.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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If ishita can't cincieve we don't want any baby
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Perfectly put
Facing rejection for the first time is ok but what I don't get is why would a couple who has just taken that step in their relation jump to the hospital so soon.
Why can't we have just one good ishra centred track? Why would they be visiting the doctor in the midst of a wedding at home? Why is Shagun sooo bloody important to this show? Ishra love each other n that's what it should be about. Shagun being dragged into every track n especially this one is just disgusting. I'm just sooo upset 😭

PS can u plz tweet this to every possible person
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Posted: 10 years ago
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You taking to whom dear yhm cvs they don't care about audiences they want to make drama and more dRama thinking they will get trp my foot stupid cvs and their sick story they spoiled whole show only for shagun I hate her
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Well said, Anku.

Idk what they are planning on doing bc wasn't Shagun sent to break some surrogacy ring...maybe this has to do with that if they haven't forgetten like many other things?

I would hope they handle this carefully because getting a surrogate for a 3rd child some how even undermines one of the core relationships of the show - Ishita/Ruhi, who represent that blood isn't needed to form a parent/child relationship.

If this doesn't lead to surrogacy, then it's a thoughtful way to include the struggles a woman faces bouncing between doctors & treatments.

But I now have incredibly little expectations for the show & more watch/keep up out of habit, which is so sad bc the show has such great potential that they keep throwing away. Khair chodo...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Word Anku.. you said it all.. surrogacy track will be the last nail in coffin... just for the sake of one character CV 's should not ruin the entire show and concept.. CV 's already sacrificed with many logical things after slot change.. but if they show shagun as surrogate mother then it will definitely end of YHM for me... CV 's obsession for shagun will doom the show.. my mood is already off after SBS/sbb segment.. i don't think i will be able to enjoy watching show.. till i hear confirm news about "NO surrogacy track" being ishra fan i can't watch mockery of there relation by making shagun surrogate mother of there child... Just hope and pray CV 's don't take route of surrogacy track...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: -kri-

You said it all Anku. Ishita facing disappointment on the first try is not new but jumping for surrogacy...disaster. People have already shown their dislike. I really hope cv's show something sensible. Remaining infertile is better than making mockery of their own show.


Whenever I imagined a pregnancy track for Ishita. I imagined emotional bonding for the couple and not inclusion of Shagun. I expect at least one track to NOT be used for drama. At least not something as sensitive as this 😕
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Anku-


Whenever I imagined a pregnancy track for Ishita. I imagined emotional bonding for the couple and not inclusion of Shagun. I expect at least one track to NOT be used for drama. At least not something as sensitive as this 😕


When it come to shagun yhm cvs become blind so guys just few days diffently surrogacy track will come shagun will come baby making mechanics ones again 😡

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