Arre Umeirah, dear, don't quite ekdum se. I won't advice you not to quite at all, cos I too did the same. This forum showed me the truth of virtual community forums, truth of IF itself. I have never had this bitter, dirty and tasteless experience in any other forum till now. Even , when I go to other forums, I don't see even 30% level of such negativity on screen and off screen. The way you are hurt, I too am hurt being in this forum .. the worst experience of my life.
But, having felt and experienced all these, I am still very much here. I don't comment in most threads. Wherever I comment now , just do the thank you posts, nothing more than that. Mostly, I am active in AT. The thing I want to say that I can't quit it cos I get updates of my fav and DivAn from this forum. For the sake of those good moments, I am ignoring bullshits. And, I am damn sure many sane members here are applying this approach.
And, as everyone else is saying, people have different opinions. But, to be frank, sometimes these differences are taken to 'too much' level , and the next is bashing level. That is when the negativity and difference affect.
I saw in Anku's signature "Ignorance is a Bliss"... rightly said and she rightly used, applies best with YHM forum😆. I am recently going in that phase... believe me it gives immense peace. Now, most controversy and negativity don't affect me that much😆. Trying to be dumb and deaf😆.
Anyways, I should have said only positive things to let you not quite forum, but the truth you too should know and how we , those who really love this show are still here ignoring the negativity, that you too know right!
I am no one to suggest you, but for the love of the show and DivAn, you can still be in forum being in the ATs .. esp. DivAn AT. You will know, what you need to , but you won't have to see what you don't feel as of good taste😳.
Urre baap re, huge lecture de diya after a long time .. My Ishu affect, but I love her lectures, no matter what other say😉.
