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Gems.musingsRN

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Posted: 10 years ago

#11

It was a total dal makhani episode!the fb scene was cute,it'd have been nice of meher to atleast taste the dal makhani abeer brought,but ofc she thanked him.

Agree with all the points u said above.

And also on Friday,made a post on a peculiar thing in the episode, would love to read it view about it:

Here's the link:http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=4441122

Edited by ratna.nanda - 10 years ago

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malikakas

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Posted: 10 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: madhufx9...

I totally understands about Meher's insecurities Shruthi , but dnt u feel it's unfair on part of abeer bringing her insecurities into her married life. I mean Abeer is completely different from Shyam .

Who knows Abeer too might have done something , which broke her . But again he cannot be as jerk as her father. That's a point to be noted always. She might be fed up of drama running in her life since childhood. May be she doesn't want to mess her life even more. So that's y she didn't give Abeer second chance.

Her childhood is an uncurable bruise and it started to infect her married life too.

It is a little unfair on Abeer... but I like it because I find it very realistic. Most people carry their childhood insecurities into their relationships. People learn to trust from their parents but in this case Meher learned to not trust and that's a hard instinct to overcome when it comes to other relationships. That's why often times children from dysfunctional families unknowingly sabotage their relationships. For e.g., if I am afraid that you are going to leave me then maybe I will leave you first because if I keep control then I don't have to feel vulnerable. That's why Meher is so adamant that she had learned to live life without Abeer-- she is afraid of being dependent on him. Now I think she did trust him to some degree-- that's why whatever happened has scarred her so much.

It will be really interesting to find out what happened between the two of them.

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