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Posted: 10 years ago
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My God how much Abeer cared for Meher. And I liked the way Suman dealt with both of them. In a very nice way Suman told both of them they still care for each other.
And the fb I loved it so much yaar. The extend which Abeer goes to make Dal Makhani for Meher. it was so cute scene.
And miss Akudu was very happy seeing his concern and care for her when he bought dal makhani from outside for her. Abeer couldn't tell sorry even at that time. But he did everything that meant sorry.
And even in present he makes Dal Makhani for Akkudu to bring a smile on her face to erase the sadness his unintentional actions bought to her.
Abeer is careless and at times irresponsible. But when Meher is hurt he tries to make up. For a guy like Abeer it takes time to own up things. It has to done gently but it could be done. Patience was the essence with him. Instead of divorce if Meher could have asked him prove his loyalty to her not just by saying sorry, but by his actions. To prove to her he could be trusted once again. Instead of telling him useless if she had asked for proof she might have transformed him and their life for better. Yes if he had come to ask forgiveness to her, he would have gone all the way to prove to her infact he is ashamed of his actions. A second chance by Meher that day would have transformed Abeer than making him the bitter painful person he is.
But Meher's need to show her immediate anger and she will not forgive attitude have embittered both of them.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Perfect title shrurhi Wowww what a love Seriously abeer cooked dal makhni to cheer her up Sooo sweet Superb Abeer
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Actually fero the whole sat epi and after that " Ishq wala love" was playing in my lips. hence the title.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Agree with every word u said Shruthi. Just loved Saturday's episode.
Abeer is someone who will move mountains to set things right. He needs little attention and little more pampering . 😆

I so loved yesterday's episode , every frame was a treat to watch , except for Rati. I so want to see more Nissar , but cv's planned Nissar and Rati is package 😆 seems we cannot get Nissar without Rati except for FB scenes .
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Posted: 10 years ago
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yes madhu a little bit of pampering in the right direction, a little bit of appreciation can go a long with Abeer. The guy is starved for approval, something he has been denied from childhood from his father.
And poor Meher she is starved for security in relations which is denied to her also with her dad's wayward attitude.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Totally agree, Abeer's sucha a cutie though he can be rude at times his not bad at heart. I loved the flashback scene where he attempts to make the dal makhni 5 times just to make it up to Meher.

I'm so with you & Madhu on the last. A little more of affection towards Abeer can bring change.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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DALMAKHI FB SCENE WAS AWESOME. I WAS LAUGHING SO LOUD.. MY NEIGHBOUR KNOCKED AT THE DOOR. THEY SAID I AM SO LOUD AND DISTURBING. I WAS LIKE SORRY.
WHEN ABERR WAS MAKING DAL MAKHANI HIS EXPRESSIONS WAS MINDBLOWING!!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: shruthiravi

yes madhu a little bit of pampering in the right direction, a little bit of appreciation can go a long with Abeer. The guy is starved for approval, something he has been denied from childhood from his father.

And poor Meher she is starved for security in relations which is denied to her also with her dad's wayward attitude.


I thought of mentioning this point Shruthi , but I didn't bcz I know u will provoke it 😉😆


I totally understands about Meher's insecurities Shruthi , but dnt u feel it's unfair on part of abeer bringing her insecurities into her married life. I mean Abeer is completely different from Shyam .
Shyam never cared for anyone including his own sister . He is a self obsessed jerk who has the audacity to break strings not jus with his wife , with his children too just like animals . thing that strikes my mind when I see him is a male cat which kill baby kittens . He is even capable enough to leech out blood of theirs for money.

Where as Abeer is total different. Agree he was immatured , he might have sucked mehers patience . But he deafinetly is not a creep . Even Meher knows that , and that's why tattoo is still there on her .

If she let her insecurities to win over her love for him, trust was weakn . That might have hurt Abeer more. Love is nothing but trust.

There are always ways to renewate stuff if it's worthy.

I think I have jumped into conclusion. But this is bugging me. So just want to share it.

Who knows Abeer too might have done something , which broke her . But again he cannot be as jerk as her father. That's a point to be noted always. She might be fed up of drama running in her life since childhood. May be she doesn't want to mess her life even more. So that's y she didn't give Abeer second chance.

Her childhood is an uncurable bruise and it started to infect her married life too.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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@madhu whether we accept it or not it is a fact that the marriage templates of our parents affect our expectations on our partners post marriage. It might be subconscious we may not recognize it. But as time goes by you evolve your template. But it needs patience and understanding from both sides.
Expectation mismatch is the cause many breakdowns these years and also meddling by parents than the couple themselves.
Somewhere when he ran away( we don't know yet about it) Meher's insecurities might have come up like anything and she just wanted to get out of it once and for all than trying to see whether there was a way to correct it.
Shyam had left a very bad bruise on Meher, which needs a lot of love as a cure 😉. Abeer really has to be patient with her stub borness and her need to control as much as she with his sometimes childish and irresponsible ways. Only forgiving each other's faults and helping them overcome it you can win as a couple.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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@ Shruthi agree , patience might be their solution , only if they had realised . Abeer should have shown more patience instead of running , his return and seeking for second chance didn't find appealing to her , bcz of great runner Shyam 😡
And I agree with this too , love is the cure to that bad bruise . Even Meher should be patient to Abeer , bcz at the time of marriage itself , she might be knowing what she was getting into . " A childish
Abeer "

It seems both are impatient 😆

And now they need to let go their ego and sort out issues. Bcz like I said earlier there are always ways for renewating stuff which are worthy.

Mehbeer are 2 gems ,they just need little polishing to make them perfect. Unfortunately polishers are denying to do it , bcz They both are only polishers for each other. 😆

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