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Posted: 10 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: RoshiniManeet

I am an occasional watcher of the series...all i can say is when a lamp is lit it ought to be on the lamp stand rather than underneath the bed. Love is like that ...if love is not expressed it is never love. When someone has hassles sharing emotions with a girl who is supposed to be wedded wife, it is better to go different ways. There may be a guy who would give her the love she deserves. Why the hell should Suhani take all the nonsense served to her in the form of a witch dadi and annoying in-laws when end of day she is not even being loved by the so called husband.

Yuvraj walked, ran and sprinted many an extra miles to take a soumya out of her "depression". Cannot he see his wife suffering. Is he partial blind or is he interested only in other people's wife. One who holds the audacity to disgrace a girl verbally in front of the world , that too pointing to her appearance of all others...can NEVER BE A LOVER...NOR A HUSBAND ...AND NEVER A HUMAN

For me Yuvani is over...a closed chapter.


@ bold black 👏

@ blue; It's been dead for a while for me, but this public shaming he's given her is like digging up the corpse to desecrate it some more!

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Well i highly disagree with the post!
Though cvs have not plot the proper base of he expressing out his feelings,but hav put up the feelings in line that one is able to understand that he is in love with her,though i would like now that cvs should show the pain were viewer like us would have a clear description about his feelings
well cvs are in the format to start the steps of love,where he is jealous of seeing suhanii with rohan secondly she giving him divorce which is not willingly accepted by him,hurting her by insulting her is his nature of stimuli to react wer you love some and the other person is painless and comfortable enough to leave you!last but nt the least what i have seen in todays epi, is he was waiting to have a converstation with her,though it b fight, bt she reacting so cooling to the fact giving no response astonishes him!
Feeling point of view you wanted her to atleast fight so that you can blurt out the anger
I as being the viewer and fan is really enjoying the show <3 no matter the revelation track is bit slow
but stay tuned i have a strong feeling after the fact that she nt responding to the insult of her,letting him to other thought as nt being ,much important to her now!he would desperately want hr to talk and fight


*********The Upcoming Pain track you will surely enjoy*********

AB TADAPNE KI BAARI HAI YUVRAAJ KI <3

BIn tere suhani koi kalish hai hawao me bin tere!!!!!!!!!!

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Posted: 10 years ago
#13
I agree with u but not so much for your reasons
quite frankly if I was Yuvraj Birla I would be
acting in the exact same way this duffer is
acting and I actually think some of us would
react like how he is doing(but most of us would
need a pep talk from a friend to direct us on
how great we are and how pathetic the other
person is but Yuvraj is his own true friend lol
he doesn't need any1 to tell him hw great he is)
. But Unfortunately the sort of scenes and then
non scenes we have gotten off the 2 have not
been impactful.
Quite frankly once he started
realizing that suhani is a nice person evrything
just went down hill from there. He stopped
seeing her as a woman and just placed her in a
box. He always put her in the bhenji corner and
he still does I think Apu always says this he de-
feminism her . But worse he also made her his
wayward child in the process where he was
superior to her. He likes rolling his eyes at her
and feeling bad about her when dadi scolds her
and he likes being the know it all in their
relationship and the perfect 1.

That's why he is so happy just being a dost to her, really
guys we can all see it that he is perfectly happy with
their non existed relationship, dadi is right ab him he
doesn't want to be with her neither does he want her
to go away from him, he justs wants her with him
like a doll he can control. Rohan
and her moments of defying him just mess
things up for him and his crazy world. That's
why in his drunk speech he asked her who are
u Suhani' coz the truth is he doesn't really know
who she is. Because he knows that he is boxing
her into a little corner trying to conform her
into what dadi has told him his world and the
ppl in it should be like but she isn't really like that.
That's why he finds the girl
puzzling.

I think that Yuvraj's truth and in his
mind he truly, truly thinks that he is not in love
with her because how can 1 be in love with
some1 u dnt know or who u trying to create
into some1 that they not. Those moments
where he feels that suhani is changing or is
changing into something that he thinks she is, is where
that mentality of his rears its head u are what u
look like. Yuvraj's instinctive reaction to su is
disgust, distrust and he still thinks in his head
that she is a bad person. U cnt be in love with
some1 who u think is a despicable person.
Quite frankly Yuvraj true love is actually truly
souyma and his love for suhani is probably
the same as his love for snaky.

Because they have never developed his
feelings and worse just like he fall for snaky
without knowing her he feels like he doesn't
know suhani either. There isn't much difference
in how they are showing the love that he had
for snaky and su if u ask me.

He is just a brat who once he gets rejected he
reacts badly. I think the cvs have over played their
hand they think just coz a pair is a lead fans would
take that its obvious that they in love with 1 another.
Big no coz I dnt see any love for suhani in Yuvraj's eyes.
It is just attraction and pity. And now he is looking like a
spoilt boy who lost his fav toy.

The cvs need to step up their game and truly spice up this
romance. Coz at the moment Yuvraj and yuvani takes the
love out of love, they about as passionless as a board and
as interest as a dead cat. This relationships need a change
suhani needs to get some hate in her heart for him and go to
Rohan even if it is to make him jealous. Bt their relationship
just needs a change and suhani needs to be a participate
in the relationship and not be a love sick puppy for him all
the time. Both sahil and rajshri could do a brilliant love hate
track as well as a love track. They just need to be given scenes.
And both must be in the mood to act. And I quite like that they making
him a creepy spoilt cow and not going the usual root of him admitting
his love for suhani or realising he is in love. Its a lot of fun to watch
Edited by sandiab - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
#14

Originally posted by: angel26714

Well i highly disagree with the post!
Though cvs have not plot the proper base of he expressing out his feelings,but hav put up the feelings in line that one is able to understand that he is in love with her,though i would like now that cvs should show the pain were viewer like us would have a clear description about his feelings
well cvs are in the format to start the steps of love,where he is jealous of seeing suhanii with rohan secondly she giving him divorce which is not willingly accepted by him,hurting her by insulting her is his nature of stimuli to react wer you love some and the other person is painless and comfortable enough to leave you!last but nt the least what i have seen in todays epi, is he was waiting to have a converstation with her,though it b fight, bt she reacting so cooling to the fact giving no response astonishes him!
Feeling point of view you wanted her to atleast fight so that you can blurt out the anger
I as being the viewer and fan is really enjoying the show <3 no matter the revelation track is bit slow
but stay tuned i have a strong feeling after the fact that she nt responding to the insult of her,letting him to other thought as nt being ,much important to her now!he would desperately want hr to talk and fight


*********The Upcoming Pain track you will surely enjoy*********

AB TADAPNE KI BAARI HAI YUVRAAJ KI <3

BIn tere suhani koi kalish hai hawao me bin tere!!!!!!!!!!


But jealousy isn't love? I'm not saying he shouldn't be hurt, or angry, but that doesn't equal love.They can all be symptoms of love, but there presence doesn't mean it is love.

When has love been shown?

Was it when he accepted her as his wife? That hasn't happened.
Was it when he corrected his Dadi's rudeness? That hasn't happened.
Was it when he had the realisation to himself? That hasn't happened.

So was it when someone else pointed out? No, he denies it.
Perhaps when he decided they should stay married? No, she's just a friend.
What about when she came back to help your family? No... That's her duty (obviously).
Does he dream about her? Nope (if the cvs wanted to show love, dream sequence would have at least helped).


Rohan is pushing him towards accepting she means something to him, but this guy is both fighting himself (denying he loves her) and getting angry when he thinks she wants to leave (behaving like a total jerk).
Think about all the effort he put into Soumya when she was living at BH. He hasn't given his own wife an ounce of that effort. He has done nothing but be disrespectful to her. From referring to her as his friend, to making her "pretend" to get a divorce so his stupid dadi wasn't hurt (W*F??), to breaking their marriage DVD cause she touched his games console, and insulting her in public...

He is behaving like Suhani is his toy, and Rohan is another kid trying to play with what belongs to him.

And the sad thing is Suhani has brought some of this on herself. How can you expect to be respected, when you have no respect for yourself?

I'm not saying he won't fall in love with her, i'm saying he's not in love with her yet.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Dear samcek
If he doesn't love her then y his sooo badly annoyed at divorce stuff ki he humiliated her in font of everyone if she's jus a friend then divorce thing might hvnt affected him but problem is after soumu left BH she left it was like he used to love her like casually but now he madly deeply loves her didn u see he was shocked ki su didn't even ask him anything neither she had an argument he did that to get er attention ki she will com to him n then he I'll confront her for the divorce stuff but she didn't how hurt e was
Second see the olv
2 scenes tumhe koi farq nhi pdta koikya chahta h kya feel krta h mehsoos krta h his expressions r pure in love he's talking about himself ki su dsnt care about his feelings
N when su defends rohan he says tumko itta psnd as gya yeh look at his face when he says that
N when she's leaving omg yuvi see him u will get ur answers ki he madly lives her😛
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Lavina1996

Dear samcek

If he doesn't love her then y his sooo badly annoyed at divorce stuff ki he humiliated her in font of everyone if she's jus a friend then divorce thing might hvnt affected him but problem is after soumu left BH she left it was like he used to love her like casually but now he madly deeply loves her didn u see he was shocked ki su didn't even ask him anything neither she had an argument he did that to get er attention ki she will com to him n then he I'll confront her for the divorce stuff but she didn't how hurt e was
Second see the olv
2 scenes tumhe koi farq nhi pdta koikya chahta h kya feel krta h mehsoos krta h his expressions r pure in love he's talking about himself ki su dsnt care about his feelings
N when su defends rohan he says tumko itta psnd as gya yeh look at his face when he says that
N when she's leaving omg yuvi see him u will get ur answers ki he madly lives her😛



This is just a shitty reasoning that hindi tv serials force down our throat in the name of love ... they always show that dekho - all this anger must mean passionate love. hate is another form of love and all such nonsense

But in reality if you truly care about someone you would not do this to them ... you might get angry with them, be rude to them - but you will NEVER EVER degrade and humiliate them in public ...

If you love someone then you have a modicum of respect for them ... you don't attack them using their insecurities as a weapon ... short temper or hurt feelings is not an excuse for cruelty

THIS IS NOT LOVE ... and don't let any serial or a jerk tell you otherwise
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Hindi serials just give the crappy message that men are better than women. And unfortunately we buy into this rubbish by justifying hate = love (as bips pointed out - thank you).

Again, I'm not saying he's not fond of her. I'm not saying he doesn't like her. But love?

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: bips



This is just a shitty reasoning that hindi tv serials force down our throat in the name of love ... they always show that dekho - all this anger must mean passionate love. hate is another form of love and all such nonsense

But in reality if you truly care about someone you would not do this to them ... you might get angry with them, be rude to them - but you will NEVER EVER degrade and humiliate them in public ...

If you love someone then you have a modicum of respect for them ... you don't attack them using their insecurities as a weapon ... short temper or hurt feelings is not an excuse for cruelty

THIS IS NOT LOVE ... and don't let any serial or a jerk tell you otherwise


Actually guy's dis is hindi drama yr that drag unnecessary...

Hmmm ya actually yuvi should asked to itself why he is annoyed, hurt n feeling cheated whn he got divorce paper
So dere is reliasation yet that's why hus emotions are not comming as broken deeply love person have whn he reliase ofcourse his emotions were flooded.. no one cant control him
1) reliasation should be dere
2) misunderstanding that su us innocent its dadi n rohan who created miff bet dem

Den we see tere naam salman khan definitely..

Actually dis de. Characters of yuvi so we couldn't blame him
N rohan ki baat ki jyne to rohan may brings to reliase his lov towards su nt only lov took strong decision whn someone disrespect urs wife's.. Nt take him as granted

I know dis time rohan would be + ve becoj we already see him as many - ve role n same story like somya track didn't want to repeat yr..

Just releasation n misunderstanding. From yuvi side se clear ho should be clear soon soon
Plse donot drag it yr..
Nhi to bor ho jynge yr hum

Phir jo dhikana he dikhao seperation, eagerness, hating,

paining, remarriage,,

Hmm end yuvani only
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Posted: 10 years ago
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He is angry not because of the divorce paper but how he will tell his mum or face her ... Hence humiliation.

If he had really cared about Suhani and had accepted her in his life then he would have always stood by her when Rags n Menaka belittled her, ridiculed her, humiliated her n had never shown any degree of respect ...everything happens in front of him. Well he can't go against Dadi but at least he can shut these "chamchi witches" for once but no he will just seat/stand n smile...or is it he is deaf n blind at the same time.
Yuvraj never ever loved Suhani or even respect her...he thinks she is his personal property and he can do whatever he likes has apni maa me life gel rahi hai.

Yuvraj thinks money, status ,beauty and respect are all high class properties... But he forgets that the middle and low class people are the ones who contributed to the foundation of their growing wealth. If these people weren't there then they wouldn't have had that so called classy status.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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yuvi's character is like that.He grew up thinking that money, beauty and status are important(and may be circumstances proved him right, i dunno) but when he met suhani, something in her makes him smile.something went deep into his heart,😊😊 It may bcoz of her ideologies, her loving nature.He wanted her to be his beloved property. He is so much possessive about her.
He didn't do anything to stop ragmen bcoz he knew those morons would never change🤢(i presume)
He wanted his relationship with her to remain as it is.
He didn't want to take their relationship forward nor let her go from him.He feels his life happier when she's around.
He wanted to change his behaviour to make her happy yet he doesn't want others to comment about him (that he's changing and especially that old hag🤢)
Yuvi must realise that life can't be standstill . It needs to move on.

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