He's still not in love with her...

Originally posted by: samcek

Hear me out before you all disagree...

So Yuvraj is going to go back to behaving like a knob because his "friend-wife" served him divorce papers (so he believes). But here's the problem. Love isn't a fickle emotion. And if you're in love with someone, and they don't love you back, it hurts like crazy. But you still love that person. Hurting them is the last thing on your mind. If anything, you rack your brain trying to figure out where you went wrong (we have a list Mr Birla!), or how you can make them see...

You DONT revert back to your original way of thinking OR spew hurtful crap. Now, before you guys make excuses for him, I know he's hurting. But he's not a kid to be throwing temper tantrums. I mean, publicly humiliating your wife?!! Seriously?!

So how can he realise he's in love, when i don't believe he is? Comfort, yes. Happy, sure. But love?

There's been no scenes showing his progression from a man in denial, to a man on the cusp of admittance. The closest we got was snoopy jumping on him. Really cvs? You're using a doc rather than character development?

Maybe it's why some of us are having trouble connecting with Yuvraj.

Originally posted by: anita_m

Pam, there is, to me, nothing definitive that says Yuvraj loves Suhani in the sense of a man being in love with a woman.

Even the drunk scene, where he came closest to portraying love, could be taken as a lonely guy who can't think of life without his great pal. Even the shower scene--physical need is natural, it doesn't prove love. His wanting to hold on to Suhani in spite of keeping her at arm's length is monumental selfishness. Apparently women in Indian serials have no needs unless they're vamps. BQ was actually right when she told Rohan that Yuvraj won't accept her, nor will he let her go.

His life is dominated by his love for dadi and his mother, not Suhani. And it's telling that of the 2, he's more careful of his grandmother's opinions and commands.

Originally posted by: samcek

Thank you for phrasing this! A man can show lust/desire for a woman and still not be in love with her.

I do agree that you hurt the one you love, but Yuvraj hasn't hurt her once. It's more like 3 times a week real world time, which works out to be about twice a day serial time!

His ego amazes me. He expects far too much from her, and does far too little for her. The guy has got selective memory or selective deafness - maybe both. How on earth can he believe his Dadi doesn't hate Suhani when she doesn't even use her name to call her! Thats kind of a sign of rudeness in every country in the world! Its like the universal sign of disrespect!

You can't love someone you don't respect. And he doesn't respect her.

Originally posted by: anita_m

Pam, there is, to me, nothing definitive that says Yuvraj loves Suhani in the sense of a man being in love with a woman.

Even the drunk scene, where he came closest to portraying love, could be taken as a lonely guy who can't think of life without his great pal. Even the shower scene--physical need is natural, it doesn't prove love. His wanting to hold on to Suhani in spite of keeping her at arm's length is monumental selfishness. Apparently women in Indian serials have no needs unless they're vamps. BQ was actually right when she told Rohan that Yuvraj won't accept her, nor will he let her go.

His life is dominated by his love for dadi and his mother, not Suhani. And it's telling that of the 2, he's more careful of his grandmother's opinions and commands.

Originally posted by: pam789

I don't blame u for disagreeing with me coz the CVS have time and again butchered his character. He was clearly falling for her in January but made a disastrous U-turn in feb to include that useless soumya forcefully in the track, after that his feelings have been inconsistent. The drunken scene got me excited coz that clearly showed that he is in love but that has yet again been put on the backburner. Hopefully the flashbacks will be shown soon with yuvraj's POV.
I feel this is the redemption track for yuvraj and hope the CVs don't fool me yet again. Suhani leaving is OK but with misunderstandings is not something I wanted coz this would mean less or no Yuvani and the marriage track looks forced just to keep Rohan in the picture considering the ideologies of suhani and her family, just hope there are strong, powerful and emotional scenes especially for yuvraj so that the doubt whether he loves her or not can finally go away..
PS: How did I forget pratima? Silly me...But I still feel suhani is definitely on that list.