Dear All,😊
Personally as an open minded, senstitive, mature, amiable, adult, I dont think I need to be apologetic about my comments on a public forum😊....but since this is the norm here, apologies in advance if this post offends anyone...Its meant to voice my opinion, and I don't claim to be the authority on this subject. So hopefully my views will be respected as my own and not a comment on anybody here or on the actors of this serial.😊
Am back on the forum after a week and much has been said about Robbie .....Thus felt the need to comment on it......As the title suggest "haan ji maaf karo Robbie galat hain"........khush.......ya phir use phaansi de.....
My personal admiration and affection for Karan Patel actink and looks notwithstanding, I say this with complete conviction and belief that based on the story line up until now.......Robbie Sabharwal is this show's victim and the most underrated, abused and mis-understood character.😭😭
I am not part of the creative team and frankly i dont care how this serial goes....coz i watch TV serials for amusement and relief and not for linking my life and emotions to it😊....but to call Robbie immature or evil or a villian is incomprehensible to me.😭
Forget the gender and forget the fiction.........
As adult, sensitive indivividuals, I request you to close your eyes and put yourself in the shoes of a person who since his childhood has only been abused and influenced to think in a particular way......by everyone, ...yes everyone in his life......
a) by a mother whose only agenda in life seems to score wealth at the cost of turning her talented son into her pawn, and to hell with the sons happiness. Paise aaye, rutbaa aaye, Robbie ki life gayi bhaad mein😡
b) by a father whose only agenda in life seems to take care of his friends family, insult his wife and son at every given opportunity, despise his son 😭and just comment, not act. jab tak Robbie barbaad ho raha tha, I am Ok, mera dost aur uske bete ki baari aayi to main duniya se lad padunga
c) by sisters (apart from Shivani, whom we dont know as yet) whose only agenda in life is to run to everyone apart from a caring brother, in times of need and then expect trust from the very same brother. Jab tak mera kaam nikalna hain jhoot bolo, Robbie ki life us jhoot se baraad hoti hain to hone do😭
d) by a sister whose only agenda in life seems to enjoy the brother's well earned money for herself and her workless husband, jab tak saris aa rahi hain, main khush hun, Robbie barbaad hoke slog kar raha hain karne do
e) by a brother, whose only agenda in life is to think about his own call centre, who only thought of Robbie when he himself was a victim of someone elses mistake, otherwise Robbie apni life aur career barbaad kare, sannu ki
f) by a friend whose only agenda in life seems to give selective information and conveniently keep quiet. Robbie ne Shivani mujhe chod gayi us waqt 5 years mera saath diya, apni behen ke aage mujh par yakeen kiya ye uski galti hain uska badhappan nahi . haan meri biwi ke peeche bhaagna uski neech harkat hain, and yes we forgot woh to insaan hi nahi hain....insaan to main aur meri patni hi hain.....
Raunak ji, aap to mahaan aur bahut hi sharif hain. Aur aap ki understanding ke to kya kehne........wah wah .....Kripaya batayie, ye understanding kahaan chali gayi thi , when the friend obviously needed support and someone to put sense into him…….friendship comes with ever lasting loyalty, patience and responsibility, a friend is a mirror who reflects your thought and actions, not someone who just flashes rays of understanding per individual preferences and timings……where was this understanding when the Divya abortion incident happened, didnt Robbie deserve this trust, when the paise chori incident happened, didnt Robbie deserve to be told what had happened, when you decided to save this garib middleclass balika and woman KC by marrying her, sure she would have died right had it not been for you......when you told her that this is how the stalker Robbie is during your honeymoon, yes never mind that you were present everytime KC was in the picture before, and tried to be her confidant when actually she ought to have had all the above discussions only with Robbie….and more importantly when you called Robbie, ye insaan……….haan woh insaan hain.....Robbie insaan hain....
Robbie isliye insaan ki tarah behave karta hain......almighty ki tarah nahin....
you did not see anything wrong in beeing freed out of jail by this man and watching him tie a necklace around your churidar clad wife........kamaal hain
and last but not the least, by a woman
by a woman, whose only agenda in life seems to be "Hamara khoon khoon, tumhara khoon paani"......pyaar, ha ha ha, kya hota hain....vishwas, woh kis chidiya ka naam hain.....
Kasturi, Robbie ne tumhe takleef di, thik hain.......why dont you spend a minute on what he could have done, rather than what he did, what if he really abused and discarded you, .....he certainly has the power and clout to do so....did he do that, no he didnt.....even when you were courting him, his physical actions with you have always been shown aesthetically and the only feeling one gets is happiness not any physical insinuation.😊
This is the same guy, who
saved your father from the fire without caring about his own life,,,,,,,,,when your to be husband and middle class sanskari helpful family was just gaping
without any explanation, freed you and your to be husband from jail, when you and your to be husband we just trying to hide facts from him
saved from thugs and did not think of his own image or health, when your to be husband was nowhere in sight, who only then reappeared to create another yarn along with you
who believed you did not steal the money even though everyone including your to be husband momentarily thought so
who saved you from Girish, when your to be husband was in his brahmachari mode
This is the same guy who blindly, selflessly loved you and yes.........still loves you......God alone knows why😭
This is the same guy who not only to you but has been good to his employees, to an unknown victim in an ambulance, to just about everyone.......
This is the same guy who you said at one time, you fell in love with.........
We say this woman understands love and emotions...........God, I accept I am from Mars
Friends, I request you to think of all the above, and then to take a minute, reflect, close your eyes and think of yourselves.....just how many times in life have we made only sensible, rational, sanskari, supposed middle class and mature acts and decisions. Are we always so perfect and samajhdhar and doing only the right thing. Are we always so right in our actions nad thoughts. Have we ner thought ill of anyone?........
Are we always the way Raunak and Kasturi are .....or are we like Robbie......that is we falter like him, make mistakes, realise them, and then beg forgiveness and when forgiveness is not granted we break down and are susceptible to negative thoughts and actions....but somewhere deep inside, we are simple people, who are only craving for love, craving for a helpful hand, craving for an understanding shoulder to lean on, craving for someone to trust and believe
I had read somewhere a line spoken by Jesus Christ, "He who has never sinned should throw the first stone".....Agar Robbie galat hain to hain......lekin kya sirf wohi galat hain..........sirf wohi?😭😭
Friends, as sensible adults if the answer to above when you open your eyes is that we have never been like Robbie, then yes........maybe we should all attain sainthood.
If you have read all the above, thanks so much for the patience
Lots of love 😃😊
JWMRK
Anupamaa
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