Confused with Sandhya's decision

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HalleNJ

@HalleNJ

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Posted: 10 years ago

#11

It's fine with me if sandy chooses country over Suraj, but why make the family suffer for country too?

When she returns back, should Suraj accept her with open hearted? No...see, I would have accepted this duty above family concept if sandy was wrongly presumed dead by RP while sandy really went missing after being captured by terrorists, but here she is a part of the drama enacted by the police...that's where it goes wrong...very wrong...she is indirectly playing with veraj's emotions. Good that Suraj is still alive after hearing the news...

Good post king, bang on reply shruthi... Glad to see you here!

once again trp defeated logic and the diya baati concept

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JaZzs

@JaZzs

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Posted: 10 years ago

#12

a very good post king 👏

when lot of members were sympathising with sandhya i don't have an ounce of sympathy for sandhya coz she is the one who wanted to be in the mission but was and still behaving like a bechari as if she was forced to go to that mission 🤢 ... moreover this woman never thought of how suraj will be shattered and how ved as a child will take his mother's death till she went for the mission , the only thing she did was self pitying and fear of will suraj give her place to other woman ... ok had she thought of suraj and ved would she have accepted that mission first of all coz BK said there are lot more soldiers who are ready for the mission .. but for suraj and ved sandhya is the only one ,there cannot be a replacement ..

this mission has turned sandhya to a martyr but cruel to her family ... but does sandhya ever wanted a family ,is it not a forced one on her ...her dream was to become a ips officer and serve the nation... suraj should have let her freed of this relationship once she became ips officer but he did not coz he loves her and sandhya also reciprocated due to the gratitude she had on surajji and still when her conscience was talking with her she can't think anything beyond saath vachans and how she has to support vedvansh since suraj supported her ips dream (but never thought of suraj's feelings due to her departure) ... so suraj can't really blame her for preferring duty over family ,sandhya atleast feeling obliged to do her wife's and dil's duty is itsellf a big ehsaan on him...,sandhya is living her life and suraj wants sandhya in his life ,...actually if not suraj's love there is nothing left in this relationship ... he can better marry another woman and have a peaceful life but since he loves her he will accept her back knowing very well her preference will always be her ips duty ... ved and bb are the scapegoats in this diya baati relationship ... vansh is the lucky one who escaped from this mess...

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Incense

@Incense

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Posted: 10 years ago

#13

^ sorry i disagree... tht sandhya shouldnt have opted for the mission !

I m appalled to see how they are protraying sooraj love as weaker one !

first they did in Hijack totally ruining him when sooraj was running stupidly on the tracks behind his wife and than ditched her for emm still unclear reasons...the concept was ruined than and there 😕

now the same message is being sent to the audience tht Indian family is too weak to send their DILS SONS on mission thts why a soldier has to hide her mission with her family and elope in darkness

i wanted them to show SOORAJ LOVE AS STEADY AS ROCK ! there is no glory in becoming devdaas after baati separates 🥱 that holds good for lovelorn college buddies 🥱 not here... the true love trust u and is ready willing to let u go ! if sooraj is diya as being said by cv ... he would have asked sandhya to go for mission and return victorious doing the vijay tilak as the ppl use to do in olden times wen they use to send warriors in battlefield !

his love cant be tht weak tht he cant be informed

i don't buy this secrecy of mission... meh if sandhya cant believe in sooraj than who else ?😕

for once didnt she questioned bharat tht why cant inform my soulmate tht i wouldnt be around here for some time ? why on earth my hubby will blurt out the secret tht i m not dead ? wat abt ved why so much pain to him !

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Paridhi_Sharma

@Paridhi_Sharma

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Posted: 10 years ago

#14

king..u're truly a king..great post! 👏 totally agree with u..& also with shruthi di,nj,jas,jsingh,nep3,jhema,suryalover & arti..👍🏼

@arti..it's actly cv who has not let sandhya inform sooraj abt it atleast a bit..othrws,if she had told him,he wud hv proudly allowed him to go for the mission..which u r saying..😊 bcz till now,it was only sooraj who supported sandhya in every step of her lyf,but he supported her extra when the question came to her ips duty..so no doubt in it that he wud hv sent her proudly to the mission,if he'd knwn whatever little abt the mission.. yes,deep down inside,he wud hv bn worried & tensed abt her safety & also abt the family,but for his fear,he wudn't have ever stopped her from performing his ips duty..😊 this is y he's called the perfect HUSBAND & a saccha jeevansaathi! 😊 evn during the separation track(which butchered sooraj & then somehow rectified it with the public apology),sooraj never ever asked sandhya to leave her ips duty..rather even at that time,he made sure that she doesn't leave her job & serve the nation..so it can't be said that sandhya didn't inform sooraj,fearing he will stop her from the mission..bcz he alwz encouraged her to perform her ips duties FIRST!😳

but the problem is..sandhya,till now,after 9 years of their Marriage,doesn't trust sooraj..& she has NEVER EVER given sooraj the topmost priority which he deserves after all the sacrifices he's done for her..though he never demands anything from her..she has always put sooraj,her HUSBAND,below "someone" or "something"..for a change,she even realized during sooraj's Dream track that,she's always used sooraj for her own benefits in all her lyf..but still,she failed to give him a deserving priority even aftr that realization of hers! that is y,we all say she's a perfect DIL👍🏼,but not at all a good wife! 👎🏼

i agree she was asked to NOT share ANYTHING abt the mission,but evn if she had trusted sooraj & told him something like this,"sooraj ji..i have bn assigned a vry important task by the police dept,& for that i might have to go outside & stay away from u guys..for don't know how much span of time/days/months/years..but plz don't uttr abt this to anyone in & out of the family..hope u undrstand the importance of it!",thn sooraj,being the kind of a guy he is,wud hv accepted her deal & let her go..though he wud hv felt bad from inside for the unsafe situations she might be in..so i wud say it's all bharat & sandhya's fault to make RPs suffer through this much trauma which cud hv bn easily avoided!

aur arti..chill maar..sooraj has not become devdas..he's all right..fit & fine..with his memory fully loaded & with his same husky voice..watched in today's epi! 😆 & wt i felt was,rp is hiding something from sooraj..dnt knw wt..😕 & also it clearly seemed that he's still into that trauma but somehow he STRONGLY believes sandhya will return back to him..it felt so! 😊 so he's all okay! 😃 spoilers gaye bhaad mein! 😆 i knew it..😆 so arti,sooraj is being shown..his love is being shown the way u wanted it to be shown..👍🏼

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