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*king*

@*king*

Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

Well the king is unsure whether the current track requires the royal support or not.

Keeping all the logic aside if we compare the Hijack track with the present track, during hijack Sandhya first saved her family therby fulfilling her responsibilities as a bahu and wife. After which she also fulfilled her duty as a police officer/soldier.

But in this current scenario she has scored 100% as a police officer and 0 as a DIL, Wife and especially as a mother. She should have atleast informed Suraj about her mission and have trust in him that he wouldn't let anybody else know and also take care of the family in her absence. Where is the DABh concept here? But alas now that it hasn't happned Suraj is under huge emotional stress and also the child.

Now if Sandhya comes back after the successful mission she can get all the medals, rewards and credit for it but does she really deserve a place in the family. Would she really not repeat this in the future? next time this happens should the family shed a drop of tear and just wait for eternity for her to come back. How can the CV's justify that Sandhya's sacrifice was in the greater interest of the country.

Just a few months back Sandhya said 'Suraj ji ek din aapne mere sapne ko apne aankhon mein basaya. ab mein aap ki sapne ko apne aankhon mein aur dil mein basaoongi'. No what happened to that support. Suraj was ready to sacrifice anything to fulfil her dream. But what has Sandhya done will now to extend her complete support. Does winning a stupid kabaddi competition mark the achievement of building a hotel.

Vansh is really lucky to have a normal father and mother. ved is actually the unlucky kid. He has a father who doesn't take a second to give away his child and a mother who doesn't mind the emotional trauma her 'only' child goes through.

Can we really blame Bhabho if she decides to get Suraj married to another woman. What justification can sandhya give? sandhya had complete support when she was thrown out after hijack track as it wasn't her mistake. But can we really support her if she is not allowed back into the family. What if BK comes back and gives another secret mission?

*king*

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nep3

@nep3

Sparkler

Posted: 10 years ago

very nice post King !!
that's what we were thinking about ...it's heartbreaking for Suraj,Ved and whole RPs ..they can't trust her and police anymore ..they are simple family they don't know anything about secret mission and it's secrecy...bb blamed zak for lying but poor guy doesn't know anything beyond that tragic accident and it's hard for him to believe sandy would be trapped there ..
I said it before and want to say again ..instead of killing her they (BK/CVs) would have said she is missing ..and we couldn't find her body ..so at least they had some hopes ..
their mission had failed so many time before so may be there are some black sheep in police department so may be that's why BK kept it secret ..even with zak ..
I think CVs wants to blackmail with RPs and suraj ved's emotion ..the more they cry they will get more TRPs ...

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shruthiravi

@shruthiravi

Stunner

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Posted: 10 years ago

@king many a times I had put in the forum when I was an active member here the fact that in Sandhya's life everyone got priority over and above Sooraj. She wanted to become an IPS officer to fulfill her father's dream. She agreed to be in marriage without accepting Sooraj as husband for the so called sanskaars of her parents in the earlier days. Sooraj gave up his marital life for her dream. She was willing to throw it away twice for Bhabo. Even after her husband gave 3rd matka as a guarantee to Bhabo as a symbol of his trust Bhabo mattered to her more than her husband's trust. She won BCT for Bhabo. As a police officer she had no qualms hiding the crimes of Meena and Bhabo in BS and BCT.

But when Sooraj threw her out her self respect came to picture. To show her as mahaan, CVs butchered Sooraj's character beyond repair post IPS( That was when I stopped watching DABH).

Now she is doing all this for country. CVs new idea of showing an empowered woman. In a nutshell Sandhya the woman was nothing without the man Sooraj. She couldn't take one independent decision on her own. She will fall at Bhabo's feet to protect her sanskaars, but will not think twice to hurt her husband who is willing to go any extend for her dream.

Now again CVs will show Bhabo and Sandhya, with Sooraj to forgive everything and allow her back in his life. Script never concentrated on Sandhya the wife. Her responsibility was over once she made Sooraj win WTC and now Kabbadi. She was never shown having any real interest in her husband's progress, never shown giving encouragement for him to study further, expand his business etc...

So there is no point in arguing the logic of this track. And I still remember some old members asking why would Bhabo tolerate Sandhya. Yes it is true. Sandhya has not done anything much for Bhabo's son, Bhabo is not even sure Sandhya will be there for her son when he needs her the most. Now she has not only left Sooraj in dark, but has given unnecessary pain to the little child also.

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Incense

@Incense

Sparkler

Posted: 10 years ago

Yaa I agree to it...bhhabho is right to get sooraj married and yes sandhya at this stage cant justify how can she inflict pain on ved and sooraj?
I don't understand cv wen i want sandy yo prioritize nation she gives importance to family like the meds she won in ta it should be for her country shouldn't care where she is posted
And wen i wanted sandhya to consider her family's emotion she betrayed them going missing was much better than fake deadth. At least there was a. Hope for her family to return here 3 months have passed imagine how a child would be. Feeling in this. 3 month eeks i hate Bharat for this stupidity...hope he turns out to be traitor 😡

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hema latha

@jhema

Sparkler

Posted: 10 years ago

well said shruthi..

suraj is never once her priority ...

Now they proved bhabho was right in her decision for not allowing IPS...

though sandhya return back sucessfully after the mission , though suraj and bhabho accept her reluctantly ..

what is the answer for their trauma they underwent..

can she make it false.. how the kid is being tortured for a mission . 🤢

didn't she broke their trust ..

is this the trust she had on her husband.. then whr is diya baati concept 🥱

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Sonali_11

@Sonali_11

Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

Bharat keeps on stressing all this is being done for the secrecy of mission.

If Sandhya woud have shared it with Suraj Im sure he would have allowed her to go , but then again...he woud have followed her to know where and why she is missing...This coud have been a problem for sandhya.

Keeping this aside, I feel Bhabo and Suraj are paying the price of not believing in Sandya's point of view during hijack..

Now she has officially chosen country over family 😆

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*king*

@*king*

Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Sonali_11
Bharat keeps on stressing all this is being done for the secrecy of mission.
If Sandhya woud have shared it with Suraj Im sure he would have allowed her to go , but then again...he woud have followed her to know where and why she is missing...This coud have been a problem for sandhya.

Keeping this aside, I feel Bhabo and Suraj are paying the price by not believing in Sandya's point of view during hijack.. Now she has officially chosen country over family 😆

Yep. But what price is Ved paying? Now that they have shown her choosing country over family can she ever fight to regain her place in the family. The essence of DABH is being ruined.

*king*

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Anju_

@Anju_

Sparkler

Posted: 10 years ago

nice post king

i really wanted sandhya to give a hint to sooraj not about the mission

the shock now affect on RP is intolerable sooraj nd ved r surely going to affect this

soorajs state is yet to be known

even if bb take decision on soorajs second marriage whom should we blame?

@ shruthi completely agree with u

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shruthiravi

@shruthiravi

Stunner

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Posted: 10 years ago

yes Hemaji. I remember those days when I had defended Sandhya's ambition expecting the story line to show moral conflicts and how with Sooraj's support she managing those conflicts. There were many ways to show her duty taking toll on her family life in a much realistic manner. Somehow I am unable to imagine the trauma of the 5 year old for whatever reason it might. As many members said they could have kept it Sandhya missing so that atleast the child wont be traumatized this much.

@Sonali the concept is diya-baati. So the CVs should know that Sooraj should not go searching for Sandhya if she informs him about secret mission. Yes he will be in pain unable to explain anything to his family, but that should have been the beauty of that relationship also. That he trusts and waits for his wife to come back to him and he has absolute trust she will come back. Running around they need to give to Zak only who also believes Sandhya is not dead and unwilling to sit quiet. It is acceptable as a police officer and as Sandhya's best friend he can run around right. Somehow I cant read about the little child's trauma.

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@jsingh12

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

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King nice post.

I agree practically after all the trauma RP underwent Sandy will not be in a position to walk back into her place in her family. We can't blame bhabho also if she wants Suraj to move on in his life and after her return also it will be huge task for her to gain their trust back. We shouldn't search for Diya Baati concept anymore last time they made Suraj public apology and restored somewhat this time maybe After mission Sandy will do something else.

From the past year or so CvS are unable to move a track without butchering either Suraj/Sandhya or both. Post hijack Suraj throwed Sandy, KD, BD, Suraj sold his Mkd in a jiffy, and now in this track it is Sandy. Every track they are only the bad people.

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