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Posted: 10 years ago
#51
This all started because people saying how strong and brave Mangala is for putting up with those conditions and spending her life in that hell hole and how her great strength and perseverance should be appreciated

That is when it was said by me if she is such role model and so strong she should teach the same way of living to Nandini too and how to put up with Kundan's lust Harki and Akheraj's inhuman treatment and Urmi 's jealousy and teach her to settle in Akharaj Kundan household for the rest of her life since she loves and cares for that girl so much.

Every time when some one attempts to say something about what it takes to get out of that hell hole for those women of his house and how each and every woman is coping with it what were their survival tactics how successful or how big a failure in trying to taking on this man discussion always gets diverted how much she has done for that little girl.

CVs wanted to show life under the rule of Akheraj and they knew people won't be interested in watching that story just for those characters so they put in Anandi's daughter in the midst of them through the most illogical twist just to get people to watch the story.
Looks like people are not interested in what makes these women tick and what factors make them weak. since they don't seem to be willing to look beyond how the lady keeps the girl out of trouble and how Anandi should worship this woman out of gratitude.

Don't see any point in continuing with this discussion here.


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: anshurg5


In this show where if an educated redeemed person like J contacted his second wife only once after dumping her that too on the behest of Ganga and when returned back without meeting her , did not made any second attempt to contact with her to conclude their relationship respectfully before going for his third marriage then it is also possible that a person who tried to marry off his kid daughter without informing his wife might not have contacted his wife who became only a thorn in his feet by spoiling his and his family's attempt to wash of their hand from that daughter and secondly made them run from their home .
Btw it amazes me also that Sarita did not know any of the link who could have help her to contact her husband. Seems she was content with her life at SN so did not make repeated attempts to reach her estranged family.
As for Pooja , she perhaps knows that his father has abandoned her and her mother. 🤔 This is only an assumption.

As for Nandini throwing stone I have already written that I neither blame Mangla nor Nandini for it.

Mangla is in the habit of submission and was also pre occupied in her mission of taking Nandini away in hurry so she did not reacted as she should.

Nandini is a spirited child who wanted to oppose the injustice meted out by that man , she did not has much options , that man would not have listen her lecture so she did what she has seen other children doing . Her action may be wrong but her logic was correct that she has thrown the stone straight but the man came in btw. She has send her message across.

Sarita must have thought good riddance. She has no reason to contact her husband and I doubt if she would do it for the sake of Anandi. She is not selfish but self centred.
Sarita knew that Anandi's daughter is un-well and still forced her to take her to that venue of the wedding even when Anandi wanted to drop her child back at home.

Didn't think it was wrong on Nandini to throw stones at that man to make a point since her intention was good and she only wanted to make a point.

The issue of bringing up child and teaching was brought up only because that little girl was criticised for that act but when other kids did same kind of things parents get blamed.
When it was said that girl had no one to guide her or tell her what is wrong
The TM brought out the issue that Mangala was uneducated and yet didn't throw stones.
Then all that was said then she should have atught the girl what is right and wrong.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: aparnauma

Sarita must have thought good riddance. She has no reason to contact her husband and I doubt if she would do it for the sake of Anandi. She is not selfish but self centred.
Sarita knew that Anandi's daughter is un-well and still forced her to take her to that venue of the wedding even when Anandi wanted to drop her child back at home.

Didn't think it was wrong on Nandini to throw stones at that man to make a point since her intention was good and she only wanted to make a point.

The issue of bringing up child and teaching was brought up only because that little girl was criticised for that act but when other kids did same kind of things parents get blamed.
When it was said that girl had no one to guide her or tell her what is wrong
The TM brought out the issue that Mangala was uneducated and yet didn't throw stones.
Then all that was said then she should have atught the girl what is right and wrong.


Sarita owed it to Anandi that every link she could have about her in laws should have been explored sincerely. It could have led them directly to Akhiraj. She and daughter might have settled happily getting riddance from their past but there is some one else who is paying the price for no fault of her.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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"Sarita owed it to Anandi that every link she could have about her in laws should have been explored sincerely. It could have led them directly to Akhiraj. She and daughter might have settled happily getting riddance from their past but there is some one else who is paying the price for no fault of her".

Very true: I don't know why we are expending so much sympathy on the woman -- when it is obvious she was selfish.

The other point about nandinin throwing the stone is that the child only attacks people she sees as bad. She has always helped those she sees as good.


Edited by rohini55 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Nice discussions. A very good point is Pooja and her father - I never thought about this. But yes, when Pooja heard about Mannu's real bapusa and how Mannu was feeling - why not Pooja thought about her own father - and wonder where he is now?
I also mentioned earlier that if not Akhera, police can find Sarita's in-laws and through him can get Akhera. I re watched the episode - Anandi did tell it was a tall man , perhaps mentioned beard also by action - police perhaps said not possible to trace and asked for nandini's photo. It is clear that no sketch was got made - Anandi or Shakhers could have asked police to get the sketch of the kidnapper got made. OK, perhaps they thought that her daughter can be traced.

However, Anandi again met the kidnapper in mandir and this time - she got additional information - that the kidnapper has married his son with her daughter - that means, her daughter is still with the kidnapper. She did not inform the hulia of kidnapper to DS/Jagya and consequently, police was still searching Nandini with a photo of an infant, and since it is easy to hide an infant, Akhera got away. One distinct feature that separates Akhera with other villagers is - he wears angarkha , while others wear simple kurta. At least after a few months - emphasis should have been on finding the kidnapper, because it is not easy to find a child with an old photo. Wonder how Aanandi thought that a girl in orphanage could be her daughter when she knew very well that she is a balika vadhu now - living with the kidnapper.

Coming to Sarita - yes Sarita owes it to Anandi to do whatever she can to trace her in-laws - it is not possible that the whole family can vanish into thin air. Akhera in fact lived very near to Jaitsar all along - he did not hide, did not change his home or even appearance!! Wonder what Sarita had informed Pooja about her father. She informed the story of her rescue by Anandi only recently - why all these years Pooja did not know/did not ask about her father? Creatives always leave too many loopholes in the story...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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It is impossible that sarita did not know anything about the child-groom and his family. If she did not know anything, then how did she know the exact venue of the marriage?

And I think when sarita met anandi, she said marriage is happening in jhala village, to that anandi replied it is 300 km from here... so Anandi should have assumed that the groom's family must be living in jhalra. She could have easily traced akhiraj with MLA's help.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: SPuja

Nice discussions. A very good point is Pooja and her father - I never thought about this. But yes, when Pooja heard about Mannu's real bapusa and how Mannu was feeling - why not Pooja thought about her own father - and wonder where he is now?

I also mentioned earlier that if not Akhera, police can find Sarita's in-laws and through him can get Akhera. I re watched the episode - Anandi did tell it was a tall man , perhaps mentioned beard also by action - police perhaps said not possible to trace and asked for nandini's photo. It is clear that no sketch was got made - Anandi or Shakhers could have asked police to get the sketch of the kidnapper got made. OK, perhaps they thought that her daughter can be traced.

However, Anandi again met the kidnapper in mandir and this time - she got additional information - that the kidnapper has married his son with her daughter - that means, her daughter is still with the kidnapper. She did not inform the hulia of kidnapper to DS/Jagya and consequently, police was still searching Nandini with a photo of an infant, and since it is easy to hide an infant, Akhera got away. One distinct feature that separates Akhera with other villagers is - he wears angarkha , while others wear simple kurta. At least after a few months - emphasis should have been on finding the kidnapper, because it is not easy to find a child with an old photo. Wonder how Aanandi thought that a girl in orphanage could be her daughter when she knew very well that she is a balika vadhu now - living with the kidnapper.

Coming to Sarita - yes Sarita owes it to Anandi to do whatever she can to trace her in-laws - it is not possible that the whole family can vanish into thin air. Akhera in fact lived very near to Jaitsar all along - he did not hide, did not change his home or even appearance!! Wonder what Sarita had informed Pooja about her father. She informed the story of her rescue by Anandi only recently - why all these years Pooja did not know/did not ask about her father? Creatives always leave too many loopholes in the story...


bold - Even I was wondering how anandi could ever believe her daughter could be in an orphanage when she knew the kidnapper had married her to his son ?

Neither did she ask the warden how and where the girl was found? She just accepted she was her daughter?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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aww Jagya's poor second wife was dumped by her husband but poor noble saint second wife did not do any wrong 🤪she did not rejected her so called true love even when she was approached by Lal Singh when true love is sick she says i don't care The educated redemeed J did not approach the saint wife second time after first time he approached her she shouts at nurse i don't want to see him He writes a letter for her she throws in waste bin but still he should have approached her second time and fall on her feet Mata ji please listen to me I want to end relation with you respectfully He should gone to Gauri mata again and fall at her feet Get her married to someone then married Ganga otherwise blame will be on him
Hilarious biased logics to blame Jagya 👎🏼

Jagya approached Gauri but she shamelessly rejects to see him so is it his fault ?He wrote a letter to her she throws in waste bin but here on the name of feminism some want him to again and again visit goddess and close relation with her respectfully 🤢Its he who closed the relation respectfully but she only did wrong and rejected him so why he would gone to her second time Are her legs broken Why she could not come to him and apologize for her misdeeds and save her relation He went to her she refused Thrown his letter but still as per some he should have gone to her again and close the relation respectfully 🤢relation is respectfully closed from both sides if Jagya's shameless second wife was sitting in his ego , did wrong and refuse to accept her misdeeds and keeps on rejecting her husband Its her fault not Jagya's The educated J went to meet her , but she was not interested so its her fault not his neither i will blame cvs for it The way they have shown Gauri it was expected from her she will do same and she did

Jagya gave the respectful closer to relation despite he was one who was wronged by his wife like she accepted later It was her mistake she could have saved her relation Had she accepted her misdeeds The educated successful Gauri if cannot save her relation accepting her misdeeds Then its her fault

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