How to deal with it? Confused! - Page 2

Originally posted by: devkidmd

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<font color="#3333ff">Why does Akbar have to spend time with other begums? Sorry if he really did thathe would be having a lot more progeny with a lot of the other wives than what history says. His time was limited and he would not have wasted it on spending with people/wives he is not close to. Yes, he did take care of their food, clothing, shelter needs but physical and emotional needs, I think very very few of his wives had that privilege.</font>

<font color="#3333ff">@bold 2: Which historical book says that Rukaiyya was an elegant Mughal lady?Just curious. I have nothing against Ruks darling. After all she makes things more interesting but wanted to know more about her because I really have not come across anything at allabout her in my meager readings.</font>

<font color="#3333ff">Devki</font>

as I said responsibility may b also need otherwise they wouldnt have kept kaneez...i feel so n obviously jalal has to attend diwan so he got time only night. n he got to see one begum at a time except special begums i thought so... cause only jo had right to visit his khwabgah...
abt wives getting pregnant i have heard jo is most them mother. i feel very happy abt it. but cant forget that at that time for protection purpose childrens mothers name remained under disguise.
abt ruk there is not much in history bt she was mughal princess, akbars first wife, she has to have modesty n elegancy. n she has ethics otherwise her husband getting married one aft another its too much to endure for a woman n she didnt have any child also. jealousy may be there bt i think at that time women used to be united otherwise staying in a protected palace was tough.
books r deceptive as jahangirnama has 3 part why 1 will write his bio differently so it means information has been changed while translating or by some other way. same case for akbarnama.

nice post