When exactly will Toshiji learn?

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What is it about Toshiji and her children's marriage ? Other than Raman and Ishita's one which was initiated by Bhallaji.. Every single one she landed her children into some mess in her rush to get them hitched. I can understand mistakes being mad once .. But repeatedly and that too when Bhallaji warned her about doing the wrong thing by trying to get Romi married hiding the fact about his physical issues...I just don't get it... Shouldn't as a mother she be more careful about ensuring that her children don't get hurt or marriage is all she cares about? I wish the Cvs have shown some character growth about Toshiji .. This is just rinse and repeat adding nothing interesting to the story.
Romi on the other hand was much more mature than the one who used to lech at Mihika's behind ( it used to bother me so much🤢) with his signature bg 'hey Romieee!"🤔

And Vinnie 😆... The more I see her the more I'm sure who's the next super bahu after the leap 🤣

ACP .. What the hell was that ? Reminded me of very poorly scripted BW C grade movies about police atrocities... Don't we have enough police on the wrong side of justice ... Why add another one, esp if he's poised to become a romantic interest. #fail

Ashok seems to be sitting in the invisible omnipresent seat in this track.. Jhakkar dancing to his tune and now seems like he's got his dirty hands in the orphanage too. At least Ashok is still in character...😆


And we have waves after waves of issues hitting Ishra and no bedroom scene... Lest Ishra act on their feelings of attraction😆.. 500th episode where art thou? YHM Cvs are testing laws of elasticity on viewer patience to seek their breaking point or Kya? 😡

I don't know I could relate to nothing in the episode unless you guys have not understood that 😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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This track would be more interesting had there been a balance by showing actual growth in Ishita-Raman's relationship, but right now it just looks like Ishita & Raman's lives revolve around cleaning up messes of others. Balance is important because I actually like this Romi track, but Ishita & Raman's maha-involvement & stagnant relationship throws me off a little.

It's seriously weird that they haven't done it yet despite all these opportunities. So in my mind...to make their relationship "normal"...they've already done it & we'll get to see the "2nd C" when they try for a baby or something like that.

Why think this way? Because it's unnatural, to me...unless one of the two characters have some other personal issues keeping them from coupling especially because they've been dangling this "2nd C" since last November. If it hadn't been brought up so often...this prolongation may not be as off.

I seriously wonder how long they are going to prolong the "2nd C" because it's becoming weird. I truthfully don't care for an episode about it but it's just very very odd to me what they are doing to Raman & Ishita for the sake of prolonging things. Just imply they've done it and move on at this point. (No jhootas please...)

It's stupid and almost perverse how the Indian telly industry has portrayed the "2nd C" on TV. Now viewers expect pomp and circumstance and makers apparently hold it out until desperate times?

#Soap-box over
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About Toshiji...she'll stop once her kids are settled down because apparently wedding drama = TV show drama. While I hate that Toshiji is on a constant circle...I do like the inclusion of today's scene to show some actual growth in Romi because if they are going to show him actually getting back with Sarika - there needs to be growth.
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I want to see Ashok ki band bajaoing. He's omnipresent but always failing. So RKB - crush Ashokwa! 😃
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I'm laughing.
Sorry, but that's my reaction. Expect no logic from this end. The show left that part of humanity behind ages ago and I refuse to attempt to bring it back.

Applaud all those who still tolerate this. Lord bless you. You are brave and very patient which I am not.


xx
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Gan-

What is it about Toshiji and her children's marriage ? Other than Raman and Ishita's one which was initiated by Bhallaji.. Every single one she landed her children into some mess in her rush to get them hitched. I can understand mistakes being mad once .. But repeatedly and that too when Bhallaji warned her about doing the wrong thing by trying to get Romi married hiding the fact about his physical issues...I just don't get it... Shouldn't as a mother she be more careful about ensuring that her children don't get hurt or marriage is all she cares about? I wish the Cvs have shown some character growth about Toshiji .. This is just rinse and repeat adding nothing interesting to the story.

Romi on the other hand was much more mature than the one who used to lech at Mihika's behind ( it used to bother me so much🤢) with his signature bg 'hey Romieee!"🤔

And Vinnie 😆... The more I see her the more I'm sure who's the next super bahu after the leap 🤣

ACP .. What the hell was that ? Reminded me of very poorly scripted BW C grade movies about police atrocities... Don't we have enough police on the wrong side of justice ... Why add another one, esp if he's poised to become a romantic interest. #fail

Ashok seems to be sitting in the invisible omnipresent seat in this track.. Jhakkar dancing to his tune and now seems like he's got his dirty hands in the orphanage too. At least Ashok is still in character...😆


And we have waves after waves of issues hitting Ishra and no bedroom scene... Lest Ishra act on their feelings of attraction😆.. 500th episode where art thou? YHM Cvs are testing laws of elasticity on viewer patience to seek their breaking point or Kya? 😡

I don't know I could relate to nothing in the episode unless you guys have not understood that 😆

Well said😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I have been avoiding coming here as I didn't want to dampen anyone's spirits with my rants. But seeing your posts, Gan and Krishy, I am relieved that I am not the only one who couldn't connect to today's episode or the characters, in spite of everything going in continuity of the previous episodes.

Frankly speaking, I am tired of seeing Ishu in the sanskari serial bahu avatar. As much as I dread those, I know this is how the format is going to be and we will continue hearing lectures and preachings from her. Maybe this is my IshRa deprivation talking, but I really want to see some IshRa scenes. I am feeling this HUGE disconnect between IshRa. I mean, as a couple, sooo much in love, what do they do with the rest of their time? After dinner..their alone time..in their room..what do they talk about? Romi, Sarika, Adi, Vinni, Jhakkar? Then goodnight?

I understand the need to balance the tracks of the supporting cast and believe me, I am enjoying each one of those-Mihika-Abhishek, Romi-Sarika, Bala-Vandu.. I even accept Jhakkar as Ashok's partner in crime, against Raman. But there needs to be some continuity in the IshRa movement. I feel such a disconnect! Yeah I know I am repeating myself 😔

Now once again Toshi's tantrums have begun. We somehow went through the "ghar ka chirag" and "Rinki ki shaadi" and "Bechari akeli Simmi" emotional circus of hers, and each time she has ended up ruining the situation further..now its Romi's turn..Bhagwan bhala kare!

To add to the misery, a police officer torturing someone for his own personal vendetta, and a school principal and the whole Board of Trustees deciding to punish a kid for an innocent act of impulse he committed along with his friend, as small as trying to watch an action movie..the same folks who let go of the same kid who had almost killed a woman while driving a car? So are they trying to say that the evil people like Ashok-Jhakkar-Shagun have more power to convince/buy the Board, whereas the honest folks like Raman-Ishita have got no chance??

I'm sorry for the incoherent ramblings, Gan. But hey, thanks so much for the thread and a space to rant, once again. This is one place where I am able to connect to the thoughts and posts of you all every single time..
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Posted: 10 years ago
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They are seriously testing my patience by not showing any cute ishra scene...trying hard to wait till 500 happens...they better not disappoint me!!

The way that vinnie says aaah-di in her unique voice makes me super mad as it is...their scenes makes me want to send them to 2025.

Romi bhi baap ban Gaya ab kuch toh dikha do aur jaldi

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Toshi is never gonna learn but shaadi is of the utmost importance! Logic, independence and women empowerment be damned! Just marry and make babies!
Nayi soch indeed!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: -K.13-

It's seriously weird that they haven't done it yet despite all these opportunities. So in my mind...to make their relationship "normal"...they've already done it & we'll get to see the "2nd C" when they try for a baby or something like that.

Why think this way? Because it's unnatural, to me...unless one of the two characters have some other personal issues keeping them from coupling especially because they've been dangling this "2nd C" since last November. If it hadn't been brought up so often...this prolongation may not be as off.

I seriously wonder how long they are going to prolong the "2nd C" because it's becoming weird. I truthfully don't care for an episode about it but it's just very very odd to me what they are doing to Raman & Ishita for the sake of prolonging things. Just imply they've done it and move on at this point. (No jhootas please...)

It's stupid and almost perverse how the Indian telly industry has portrayed the "2nd C" on TV. Now viewers expect pomp and circumstance and makers apparently hold it out until desperate times?



I swear, Krishy! How is it remotely possible, for two people who love each other to this extent, to stay physically apart from each other for so long? Its just so unrealistic. Are they from the Rishi-Muni times? I always believe that there is a right time for everything. And that ship has sailed long ago for IshRa. I could still understand if they had misunderstandings or some kind of a physical, emotional or psychological distance keeping them apart..but there is absolutely nothing! I know, I know... I sound like a broken record, but...how?!😕

Didn't mean to deviate from the topic, Gan. In fact more than Toshi, I am annoyed at the rest of the clan for entertaining and encouraging her school of thoughts about marriage and baby-making. I mean, Bhallaji is tho useless, but Raman who roars like a lion for everything else, why can't he try to put some sense into his mom and change her regressive thinking? Or any of her kids who have experienced some unfortunate problems due to this haste?
Edited by -II- - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: -K.13-

This track would be more interesting had there been a balance by showing actual growth in Ishita-Raman's relationship, but right now it just looks like Ishita & Raman's lives revolve around cleaning up messes of others. Balance is important because I actually like this Romi track, but Ishita & Raman's maha-involvement & stagnant relationship throws me off a little.


It's seriously weird that they haven't done it yet despite all these opportunities. So in my mind...to make their relationship "normal"...they've already done it & we'll get to see the "2nd C" when they try for a baby or something like that.

Why think this way? Because it's unnatural, to me...unless one of the two characters have some other personal issues keeping them from coupling especially because they've been dangling this "2nd C" since last November. If it hadn't been brought up so often...this prolongation may not be as off.

I seriously wonder how long they are going to prolong the "2nd C" because it's becoming weird. I truthfully don't care for an episode about it but it's just very very odd to me what they are doing to Raman & Ishita for the sake of prolonging things. Just imply they've done it and move on at this point. (No jhootas please...)

It's stupid and almost perverse how the Indian telly industry has portrayed the "2nd C" on TV. Now viewers expect pomp and circumstance and makers apparently hold it out until desperate times?

#Soap-box over
---

About Toshiji...she'll stop once her kids are settled down because apparently wedding drama = TV show drama. While I hate that Toshiji is on a constant circle...I do like the inclusion of today's scene to show some actual growth in Romi because if they are going to show him actually getting back with Sarika - there needs to be growth.
---

I want to see Ashok ki band bajaoing. He's omnipresent but always failing. So RKB - crush Ashokwa! 😃


@bold exactly my issue with the tract.. The Cvs feel that so long as they avoid the elephant in the room, it doesn't exist... Kuch bhi 😆

Krishy I would have also been fine with them hinting and moving on because frankly they are like a vintage couple now... Managing teen age kids issues while their own thing is buried somewhere ...my biggest issue is that they relate intimacy between a couple as just a process of making babies... That's regressive ... If Indian Telly works that way.. It's about time they walk into realistic one, where its a beautiful point in a couple's relationship .. That's it.. Not all consummations require a drum roll followed by a baby wailing in a few months/years ( you never know 😆)

I don't mind ashok as omnipresent.. Just wish he was more prakat than our jhakkar j.. Who is annoying ( as an actor😡)



Edited by -Gan- - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: AraBearxx

I'm laughing.

Sorry, but that's my reaction. Expect no logic from this end. The show left that part of humanity behind ages ago and I refuse to attempt to bring it back.

Applaud all those who still tolerate this. Lord bless you. You are brave and very patient which I am not.


xx


Kiara.. Yep I'm hanging there still now .. For how long I don't know 😳

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