Originally posted by: chicksoup
If it was lack of choice, she should have shown less apnapan while she hugged him...
Instead she allowed him all freedom- encouraged him more and more...Agreed she thought this was her husband...which is why Ahil asked her over and over to RETHINK- CONNECT THE THINGS THAT WERE ONLY TOO CLEAR...To an extent, Sanam is at fault here...and more than the fact that she allowed Shaad to touch her, what irks Ahil is the fact that she turned a blind eye to things that were only too obvious.
It is not Shaad's fault that Sanam lost her memory. He took advantage of her- BECAUSE SHE LET HIM. She turned deaf to her INTUITION.
There is no point arguing this...we all know how stupid this whole premise was...the intention was to make no one look at fault...it was a pathetic storyline and bad execution too...
Let us not look back. If Sanam wants to, we will look back with her.đ
"It is not Shaad's fault that Sanam lost her memory. He took advantage of her- BECAUSE SHE LET HIM. She turned deaf to her INTUITION."
This is quite a statement and I must admit one I would have never expected from you...
I think we all get the fact that Sanam's character was reset to that of an airhead who can't put two and two together and figure out Shaads lie for exactly this reason...
And mind you at the initial crucial days when she questioned her BFs and dejavus about her past, her parents, her feeling that her husband is in danger etc...Shaad kept on feeding lie after lie and actively discouraging her until it became a burden for her to even share her dejavu feelings with him frankly...
She didn't just turn a deaf ear to her intuition, but she simply was shown not to even use her own brains...
But one thing that does not change is the fact that being dimwitted does not take make Sanam ANY LESS a victim of Shaad manipulations and exploitation just as her being dimwitted does not make Shaad any less a sociopathic criminal...
This is exactly why delusional criminals like Shaad get away with such disgusting behavior with both physically and mentally challenged girls more often than the average girl.
But I agree 100% that there is no use in arguing this any further...I think except for me maybe most who consider Shaad a sociopath despite Sanam being an airhead will be too willing to let all this remain in the past...but cvs still insist on keeping Sanam a prisoner of that past lie which is STILL shaping the present and near future.
Anyways, I'm done with this, just was a bit blind sighted seeing this from you as I have seen numerous times you yourselves talking about how wrong it is to play with a woman's honor with regards to Shaad and how wrong is for him to keep couping her face, holding her hands, drawing hearts on her hand, announcing their walima and parading her as his wife in front of family and society back even in Pakistan...
I don't see anything has changed with regards to what Sanam is led to believe by Shaad the one person she trusts now and holds on to as security as you yourselves has said countless times.
Oh and btw, I don't belive Sanam has anything to be ashamed of under the circumstances except for her rude behavior and hypocrisy with Ahil...
What Ahil is doing to her is far worse in my eyes and I have always maintained that...and my mind has not changed...
Its a different thing that we all ignore certain things regarding the story line because that's how it is presented and we can't do anything about it if we are to keep watching or following the story...
But that does not mean our POV has changed as long the the situation and the execution remains the same, at least not for me..
And the same goes for Sahil forgiving each other or Shaad for all that has happened...
Edited by SheAish - 10 years ago
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