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Posted: 10 years ago
#81
@dolly as per some people Ganga was is criminal she was hiding truth from Mannu thats the reason of Mannu's behavior but Anandi was not hiding anything from Pooja 🤣She made Pooja understand so sweetly Anandi maasi who did so much for Pooja Pooja blackened Anandi's face and her shiv niketan in entire Jaitsar Now i wonder what image of other girls studying in Shiv Niketan will be for world ?what they will think what Anandi does there Anandi her entire shiv niketan Her efforts of 12 years in drain by this girl ?

For this girl Anandi 's daughter is suffering now and Pooja knows that
but she destroyed the name of Anandi and her shiv niketan in a moment
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Posted: 10 years ago
#82
Originally posted by Missesha

I am not sure why J or G are so much against Pooja. I understand seeing them as close as hugging, could be slightly daunting for Parents.

But Ganga was so much always against Pooja. Is it because Pooja is a girl or a girl of a lower cast?

Why does Ganga want to resrtict Mannu from having a female friend?

Jagya and Ganga both at one stage fell in love and looked out for nobody's emotions. They got married overlooking everyone's emotions and wishes, just because 'they thought it was right'. So how are the same parents failing to appreciate a friendship between children of next gen?



Now dadisa should remind Jagya of those incidents.
That wont happen. CVs do not like to highlight the wrong actions / perceptions of their leads.

Hence Anandi has always gone scott-free for all her mistakes. Neither has she ever self-interrogated herself (pre or post any disastrous situation), nor will the reformed J be made to realise his follies.

Otherwise, situations with respect to JagMag- Ratan, would not have reached here.

Niether DS nor J-G have any explanation as to why they kept Mannu away from his dying father even after he had personally requested to meet Mannu for one last time.

No explanation will ever be enough to justify, 'why Mannu was not allowed to meet with his dying father and revealed all facts, despite Ratan & Bimla's request.' Therefore to show J&G clean, they will turn Mannu from sane to insane and then J-G will get all the sympathies from audience and come out clean.

Earlier they have used these tactics to make Anandi come clean. Now it will be for J-G.



Lets hope that CVs will not follow that path and create more drama and damage, as it would not be logical and would not relay the social message. J and G are educated and should find a way to communicate with Mannu. So far all they did was restrict him and nobody really asked him how does he feel or offered to answer questions that Manu certainly has. Or they offered answers but in a wrong abrupt way. Agreed that J&G made a mistake not telling Mannu about his father earlier, but the mistake cannot be reversed. Their only option is Poja and her friendship with Mannu. Allowing this friendship to continue does not mean that J&G 'use' Poja for their benefit. allowing Poja's friendship would mean giving Mannu some space and time to understand the situation, Besides there must be police record of what Rathan did to Haveli people and that can maybe help Mannu, once he is ready to listen to reason, to understand that his mom only wanted to protect him and raise him properly with the man she loves and who loves Mannu like his own son. in short time Mannu will understand.That should be the outcome of this story line..
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Posted: 10 years ago
#83

Originally posted by: kikyo

@dolly as per some people Ganga was is criminal she was hiding truth from Mannu thats the reason of Mannu's behavior but Anandi was not hiding anything from Pooja 🤣She made Pooja understand so sweetly Anandi maasi who did so much for Pooja Pooja blackened Anandi's face and her shiv niketan in entire Jaitsar Now i wonder what image of other girls studying in Shiv Niketan will be for world ?what they will think what Anandi does there Anandi her entire shiv niketan Her efforts of 12 years in drain by this girl ?


For this girl Anandi 's daughter is suffering now and Pooja knows that
but she destroyed the name of Anandi and her shiv niketan in a moment

yup i know if ganga did a crime by hiding truth so mannu behaved like that but wat sarita & Aji hid from pooja that she eloped wid a boy and Aji was so luvingily telling her wats rite & wats wrong so why shud pooja do that??
@bold u know i don;t like nimboli as ckt or actress but i always felt that Aji lost her daughter's childhood due 2 her carelessness 4 pooja like a gal.her daughter is living that BV life
2day sarita was so ashamed that she said it wud'd been better if Aji'dn't saved u from BV. so true atleast nandini wud'd better life.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#84
Is there any common sense comparing Jagya Ganga and Mannu Pooja ? People are saying Jagya and Ganga got married without caring for anyone's else emotions over looking their emotions their wishes They fell in love and married First the so called great people whose emotions, wishes were suppose to be checked by them were they caring to Jagya Ganga;s emotions? Singhs were extreme selfish who wanted to dominate their son and force him into an alliance which would ruin his life and happiness and theirs too Who was caring to Jagya's emotions ? Singhs , Sanchi , Shekhars All were selfish and wanted to get from him what they wanted Jagya Ganga did what they thought is right for them It served good to everyone Jagya Sanchi's marriage would never have worked

who is Dadisaa to remind Jagya of those incidents when she played with his emotions and she was never happy with Sanchi she knew this marriage will not work yet she bullied Jagya for it and planned and plotted so he marries Sanchi only so that it will save Anandi's skin in her sasra Wow what great Dadisaa She is not concerned for her grandson but sacrificing his life to keep Anandi happy?what a shame She said something on his face and did something else behind his back Why not Jagya remind Dadisaa of that She got away from saying chora manie maaf kar de Bhool ho gaye wow she was doing a bhool My foot she did everything intentionally despite she knew its consequences will not be good

and Jagya and Ganga were mature adults What was the loss to them in loving and marrying each other Mannu and Pooja distracted from studies, Mannu is bunking school and going hugging Pooja and people are asking what problem Jagya and Ganga have from it ?Hadh ho gaye People i guess to criticize Jagya and Ganga have thrown even common sense too out of window If parents did love marriage does not mean they should allow their under age children to have affairs leaving their studies and Mannu is doing exactly that He is bunking his school and people see nothing wrong in that ?if Jagya and Ganga will be against Mannu and Pooja's love story as adults then criticize them but now ? and those who are defending the great Singhs , Shekhars Sanchi , were they caring to Jagya's emotions? For shekhars he was toy to be bought and given to their bachi , For Singhs he should make his life a mat for Anandi and fulfill their wishes only no matters it ruins his own life and people are busy criticizing Jagya and Ganga and defending these so called poor victims of them ? ha

Ratan lol when he was denied of his fatherly rights He himself gave them up he at first never wanted to meet with Mannu no matter what then himself took a 360 degree turn at his death bed ?12 years approx he must have stayed in jail He was given life imprisonment when he came out he was on death bed If he was so dying to meet with Mannu why he did not send his mother to BH before ? Why his all requests came seeing Anandi only and within a week the great Ratan himself landed in Jaitsar hospital and his last wish was met Now he died like that it was God who killed him or Jagya and Ganga did? so how they can be blamed they did not fulfill his wish when his mother requested ?They fulfille Ganga did She took some time to think on it when they begged to her she fulfilled so ? why Ganga Jagya are still wrong ?How they could immediately drag Mannu to ratan when Anandi came up with news even then even if Mannu knew about it they need some time to make Mannu ready for it Mannu is not some toy they can pick up and give to Ratan now fulfill your selfish desires?

Jagya was in favor of telling Mannu about Ratan because he did not want some outsider to tell Mannu this Ganga she was an emotional mother who thought this news will be very disturbing for her son and in the end she herself told Mannu about this but why she is such a big sinner if she took time to tell this ? Its unfortunate this all came in front of her like this that she has to tell him like this
Edited by kikyo - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
#85
I dont understand what people want to prove comparing Jagya Ganga and Mannu Pooja ?Where Jagya and Ganga have forced Mannu to follow their wishes ? but if they are seeing under age Mannu bunkig classes and going to romance Pooja Ever since he has fallen for Pooja he is not studying at all when parents question him why not He lies on their face and now when Jagya asked him why he is bunking school Mannu insults him who are you to ask me Does this look perfectly fine to people ? Mannu not studying sacrificing his own dreams for his teenage affection and Jagya and Ganga should not be against it since they did love marriage I wonder what kind of argument is this ?
Regarding Jagya and Ganga they married on their wish yes but i don't understand this over looking others feelings , emotions and wishes logic ? Jagya is human being not some toy that singhs thought him to be to give to Anandi's sasra and let their daughter play with him Were Singhs even iota of caring to Jagya's emotions ? For them he was a toy to fulfill their wishes and toy has no feelings and emotions of himself He does not have any desires They over looked his emotions They took him for granted , over looked his feelings and emotions and he was suppose to be door mat for Anandi to keep her sasra happy? and people here were expecting him to do otherwise they will blame him Jagya Ganga over looked everyone's feelings emotions and wishes?

Jagya and Ganga are not forcing Mannu to follow their wishes They are only want him not to destroy his life which he is doing in his so called love for Pooja 🥱
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Posted: 10 years ago
#86

Originally posted by: tiny15

so true saba

and ppl r now again putting blame on ganga.
i think better sarita & Aji shud pour black ink on their faces & hide in the hole.bcoz Aji the great was saying let mannu stay here & try 2 pacify both wid luv & care.😆😆

tch tch so much hurt that blaming ganag by twisting facts. aww.so much mirchi .😆😆

now same people have started hating Pooja who were defending her to put Ganga down😉 because she blackened Anandi's face like this 🤣and Anandi so politely made Pooja understand still tch tch Anandi take black ink bath You deserve it and paste shoe polish on your face too

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