Sorry for making the early post. 😆
So hey guys, it's me Tanya!
Back with my mindless banters!
Today my topic is based on some great people whom are in my lives and make it more... happening. So picture this :
It was yesterday. I was at a restraunt having dinner with my friends. That were two boys and a girl. Now one of the boys and the other girl (than me) were .. how do i say this.. doing that. And then one of my relatives seemed to pass by me. They looked at me, looking at the boy sitting right next to me (the one who wasn't doing 'that') and then to someone whom I don't know.
"What are you doing here? Cover yourself."
That was my Aunt. Dear Aunty is very cute in front of my parents. Always being the perfect Aunt and trying to persuade me to get married as soon as possible. You see, I turn 19 next month (yayy!) and she got married when she was 18. So she tells me that in her time, they used to see off their daughters when they were no more than 15 or 16. But she said, that she was, miraculously, "modern".
And I was like, "SHUT UP!"
Not that I said that. But hey, people can even say the worst accusings they know!
So back to the story. I was wearing a reasonably acceptable deep neck shirt. With a scarf and a shrug, to add to it. And my Aunt was wearing her over-sized salwar kameez and her tooo-geeky-sunglasses.
Hey, I love my Aunt alright? But sometimes she acts so.. So.. orthodox. You must have seen in my previous posts that I often accuse my Aunts and Uncles. I'll explain why. You see, my parents know me. They know how I like to dress. They know how whom I like to be friends with, and they don't have a problem with that. They know! They trust me! They know that I won't run off with some guy, and later discover he's GAY!
Woop, that turned our something. 😆
So back to the point is that, my Aunt is a complete orthodox. She always thinks that if she gets it her way, then it's mindblowing, while my Uncle, my Aunt's poor husband, never gets his own way. You see, in my world, or in my family for that case, men don't have that much power.
My Aunt's Commments : See! That's why I was excited to get married! You should, too! 😆
When you're in public, you feel uncomfortable, pull on a scarf, a chunni, dupatta, whatever you may have. You know what I'm talking about. The actually thing what happened was that there was a guy who was staring at me, my Aunty was passing by and she helped me. She helped me get away with akwardness.
I tell you a real story. Back in hostel, I had a friend. Her name was Gayatri. She was beautiful. Brilliant. But one day, she fell in love with a guy. That guy acted at first that he loves her, will always be by her side, and will marry her. Gayatri was a year younger than me, which means 17. And her parents did NOT support child marriges. Gayatri needed to make a future for herself first, was their reply when I talked to them after the incident.
Gayatri, she was tormented one day. I asked her what had happened. She said that she had went to the guy's house and he had literally kicked her out. He had a new girlfriend now. Gayatri sat that day, looking through her contact list, contacting everyone she could. Him, his girlfriend, his mother, his father, everyone. She fought for her.
Some guy, he treats you like he's never seen anyone like you before. He helps you, talks to you, and then one day the three magical words, "I LOVE YOU"
Eventually, she grew out of it. She was in a strict, "NO MEN" policy in her room. Which is partially why I changed my room and stayed with Shilpa. Wait, you don't remember Shilpa? She used to make posts for me? Back when Beintehaa Forum actually had LIFE?
And also, point to be said, is that I DID NOT change my room because guys weren't allowed. I still don't have a boyfriend. Cases I've seen, I don't mean to make one, either.
So stay safe. Luv you all 😳
-Tani.
Edited by harshadcrazyfan - 10 years ago