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Posted: 10 years ago
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Harki and Ganga both thought they were doing the best for their kids Kamli and Mannu. Yesterday both saw rejection in the eyes of their kids for what they thought was right for them.

Harki did nothing to assuage the pain in her daughter's eyes and could not empathise with her. She gave in to her helplessness in doing anything, even in understanding her daughter. Mangala at least tried to make Kamli understand. On pretext of Nimboli, she blackmailed Kamli into marriage and way out of this hellhole. Today Kamli just shrugged off her relationship with all of them in a second and went away. The only kinship she felt was with Nimboli.


Ganga, enough has been said about her and her decisions. Yesterday she too had to face some harsh questions from her son to which she had no answers.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Everyone faces the consequences of their actions.
Anandi lost her daughter due to a decision she took 11 years ago.


Ganga took some unilateral decisions and is seeing the results. She is seeing Mannu distancing himself from her.

Harki sided with her husband's decisions and was a mute spectator to Kamli's cries. She watched her daughter sever all ties wth her and walk away.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Harki Ganga Anandi all three lost their children due to various reasons.
Ganga's son was lost to her because he distanced himself from his mother in the emotional sense.Ganga can't reach to him despite him being physically present next to her.

Harki's daughter lost to her because she wanted to put a physical distance between her and her daughter in the process she lost her daughter who not only is seperated from her physically but emotionally too.

Well Anandi's case is yet to be revealed. She lost her daughter because she failed strike a balance between her commitment to fight against social injustice and social evils and her responsibility as a mother. Her daughter is physically seperated from her though emotionally her daughter is not yet eperated from her because the little girl searches for her mother keeps thinking about her mother.Don't know what will happen when this mother daughter duo is brought together into one place.

Well for all three of them there is hope.

Ganga if she gives her son some space and yet makes sure that he is well cared for
Harki if she stands up for herself and her daughter even if it is too late she may get her daughter back again. Ganga lost her battle to Ratan. Ratan managed to reach Mannu before Ganga could.Now Mannu thinks his father was a great human being and blames his mother for his parents seperation. How can she tell him the horrible truth that he is a product of forced physical relationship?Since she can't tell what all things Ratan did to her the best thing is to let him build relationships in his own way.

Anandi the mother has failed but if she gets her daughter back through her social work or if her daughter reaches out to the social worker in Anandi the social worker in Anandi may help win the trust love and respect of her daughter. If Nimboli reaches out to SN it is a moment success for Anandi because that her good work is gaining fame and the word has spread.
The best way for the mother daughter coming to gether is the very same fight against social evils which seperated them physically.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Well Harki is only follows her husband wish ... Up most she is good mother for Kundan male child of hers otherwise she is as bad as her hubby for Kamli
Harki does not have Mind of her own , no voice she only know obey her husband
Harki knew Akhi did not kill Ksmli due to Devi act but Akhi already clear he won't continue to obey Devi so she knew sooner or later Akhi will surely kill Kamli
I am sure in future when Anandi file case against Akhi , Kamli too join her Harki try to blackmail Kamli for saving her hubby
Ganga well she has done so many things for Mannu she took risk ran away get educated then after getting married in reputed educated family she wanted Mannu had same name behind him not his real identity feeling scared of loosing all which she got after so much hardship
Ganga saw two extreme world one is way too dark other is like fairy tale ... From nothing to everything makes her weak, scared, insecure in process.
well I think she never saw balance in life either her life was too dark later on its fairy tale ... Extreme negative too extreme positive which shd herself never imagine
Till she overcome with her inner insecure, fear of loosing all , she won't find peace.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Anandi though get all in platter but she also lost many things its fact
Just because she had emotional support time to time that does not mean she suffer less or it impact less
Each time Anandi face hurdle she raise herself try overcome at end she is sucessful
Each tragedy made her strong & strong ... Of course support was there but you yourself also needs to try be strong ... Other person can guide you show you path but journey is yours only
With all tragedy Anandi did not ended up being bitter or weak ... This us exactly Shiv saw in her ... He himself said all bitter experience makes person bitter but Anandi is different... No wonder while parting away from her he said Anandi you are always been strong just don't loose yourself I am always there for you ... Somewhere Shiv is Anandi's weak & strong point ...hence at last Shiv made her strong from his side too
Anandi Nimboli/Nandini equation as mothef daughter yet to be seen ...right now two person who lost someone close to them searching for them find some peace with each other unknowningly ...
CV Writers showing Nimboli has same zeal of gelping others like Anandi... Lets see how both eventually develop their relation after truth revealed
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Posted: 10 years ago
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i don't know how can any1 say ganga took unilateral decision & can compare her situtn 2 harki or harki's prsnlty?she was averse 2 tell the truth but she never took it unilateral?? all i/c J,DS & Aji hid the truth epsly J & DS also gave support 2 her. oderwise she wud'd never told J abt ratan & shifted ratan 2 sum oder hospi widout getting him knowing abt him nor she'd told J abt bimla's request 2 J.
she nevr took unilateral decision on it. she only told J that she dint want & J respected that & supported her. and ganga also knows that J cud forcibly ask her 2 tell the truth but she never tried 2 EBM J that she doesn't want 2 tell truth.thatshwy bimla also asked J 2 ask ganga 2 fulfill ratan's wish of meeting mannu.

ganga will find peace once mannu will cum 2 terms.even if she'd seen 2 extremes doesn't mean shes insecure or has fears bcoz of this.

she never wanted mannu 2 tell the truth bcoz she wanted him not get depressed after learning that hes son of a criminal who tortured & raped his mother constantly & in this process she"ll loose her son.so the fera of loosing her son is not wat ppl r saying that mannu will think ratan as gud & JaGan as bad but reason is this wat i posted esply after watching the recent epis & her FB shown wen she came 2 know abt ratan.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Aji din't turn bitter bcoz she got emotinal & financial supports .she saw that life of care & luv from singhs alongwid bitter & harsh side of life.so shes not bitter.
she cudn't b compared 2 ganga's situtn.ganga saw extreme harsh widout any mental, financial ,emotional support & she saw only bitter side but she still din't turn bitter.

shes not bitter but just hav sum fears. if she'd been bitter then she wud'd rude 2 all & din't help any1. she went 2 cover up Aji on akhateej on her one call even tho she din't like Aji's interference in mannu's matter.
she gave all possible treatment 2 ratan & even tried hard 2 keep him alive & also fulfill his only wish( i won't call last wish bcoz ganga never thot ratan will die)
oderwise she wud' made sum excuse 2 Aji at that time & also shifted ratan 2 sum oder hospi widout telling any1 i/c J

i'd also faced so many hardship but i got emotional & financial support from my family & luv & care so i m not bitter bcoz i know life is like that. but still i've also my fears.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: blushing

Anandi though get all in platter but she also lost many things its fact

Just because she had emotional support time to time that does not mean she suffer less or it impact less
Each time Anandi face hurdle she raise herself try overcome at end she is sucessful
Each tragedy made her strong & strong ... Of course support was there but you yourself also needs to try be strong ... Other person can guide you show you path but journey is yours only
With all tragedy Anandi did not ended up being bitter or weak ... This us exactly Shiv saw in her ... He himself said all bitter experience makes person bitter but Anandi is different... No wonder while parting away from her he said Anandi you are always been strong just don't loose yourself I am always there for you ... Somewhere Shiv is Anandi's weak & strong point ...hence at last Shiv made her strong from his side too
Anandi Nimboli/Nandini equation as mothef daughter yet to be seen ...right now two person who lost someone close to them searching for them find some peace with each other unknowningly ...
CV Writers showing Nimboli has same zeal of gelping others like Anandi... Lets see how both eventually develop their relation after truth revealed

Don't think Anandi got everything on a platter. She has earned them.
She did have very loving parents but in their ignorance they caused a lot of damage to her life by not listening to Sandhya teacherjee
Then little Anandi when she was given an opportunity to save herself from child marriage in front of the police out of fear for her parents safety she lied - but we can't blame her because she is just a child then.
Then she was sent off to BH.Sumi and Bhairon did love her very much but would they have cared for the way they did if she behaved like a spoilt brat the only child of much loving parents?No.
Her relationship with Sumi and Bhairon was a two way street
Then came Jagya - Even his friendship she has earned it.She was told by Sumi that J is her husband and looking after him taking care of her needs is her duty and that's how she earned his friendship and trust.

Coming to the support Singhs gave her in her fight against social evils - They did not support her because she was their Beendini but they supported her because of the good deeds she has been doing. Even if Singhs didn't support her she would have continued to do them and some likeminded villagers would have supported her even if Singhs didn't.

Dsa supported her simply because she realised that she had been wrong and Anandi had been right all along

Then Shiv came into her life. It was not just luck but it was mostly the good work that brought the attention to her. It is her good work which made him take notice of her even before he met her. After he met her what he did is another story altogether 😛 😉 😆 😳❤️

The support didn't come to her because of her it came because Sumi Bhairon later on Dsa then villagers and of course Shiv all supported her because they all wanted to be part of the good work she had been doing. Without their support she would have found it difficult but the fact is lack of support would not have stopped her opposition to her work would not have stopped her.

She was not handed all these things on a platter.

She lost a few things too
Education - because she was too scared of Dsa
Career took a back seat because she was too busy taking care of her husband's family
She lost her baby because she couldn't strike a proper balance between a mother and social activist.
But for all the things that she lost she never blamed anybody but blamed only herself and that's the reason why she was able to gather herself and come back much stronger.


Edited by aparnauma - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: blushing

Anandi though get all in platter but she also lost many things its fact


Anandi got all on platter 😆... I liked the pun 😆
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Ganga saw harsh side but after that its fairy tale life ... After age of 17/18 she does not face anything like tragedy as per serial shown. I guess when she meet Jagya she was 18 something or may be more . Ganga's role begin after three four years serial airs ...
While Anandi had her tragedies in life more than fairy tale ... Since BV serial begin with Anandi we saw her story from childhood age of 11 till now
How much time Anandi was happy in all these years face extreme tragedies
Ganga's tragedies ends after she came in contact with Singh esp after getting married with Jagya
while Anandi share of tragedies continue after her being overcome with all hurdle she face last
Ganga had fear thanks two extreme world she saw one is black other one white ... Jump from black to white
@aparna I wrote that since its popular believe... Anandi got support is fact but that does not she done nothing ... She herself keep on trying ... Hence she got support without she would achieve all ...
Edited by blushing - 10 years ago

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