To All the Ragya fans...

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Before i start this topic i would like to state that i am not a swaraya shipper and its mainly coz i could never connect with swara...i don't dislike swara but neither do i feel any kind of sentimental connection with her character..
Anyway my question to all the ragya fans is what makes ragini love for lakshya so EPIC? i have seen many posts stating the both swaraya and ragya r one sided which is true, i agree. i have also seen posts stating that lakshya love for swara is just a fling while what ragya have between them is a cosmic connection ...now if we just ignore that unjustified dramatic whipping scene what else makes u guys think so? i m not mocking u i just want an answer coz i just fail to see how this love became so DEEP! probably my bias towards sangini is making me blind towards her love and thats y i made this topic...

what i know of swaraya is that they both disliked each other at the start but soon developed a gd friendship..lakshya feels at ease discussing his problems with swara and vice versa. lakshya can't stand swara being upset and neither can he tolerate her hatred. lakshya has selflessly helped swara's family just so swara can have her ideal family. he loves teasing her and they have shared many awkward glances and intimate moments.

lets talk about Ragya now...lakshya was bought in front of ragini as her prospective husband...they got engaged on the day they first met...with little knowledge of his personalty or his deeds she made him a very special part of her life...lakshya came to meet her once or twice and she kept his bracelet in admiration. after all the scheming done by lakshya to break his engagement with her finally DP broke off their rista... ragini was initially hurt but than she reconciled with the circumstances.Than laksya came to stay with them and with little interactions they developed a mild friendship. After a lot of rejections and misunderstanding she became aware that he does not love her. yet she was hoping that one day she will b able to make him love her...than came lakshya begging dadi to let her go so she could help him but she just stood there like a statue taking no steps to help him...so plzzz tell me what make her love epic and pure coz i just can't see it.As of now swara does not love lakshya but in future if she does fall for him i think swarya is a more logical relationship than ragya.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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😆i am not at all good in expressing my views and all that ...so hope what all i say will make some sense...😊
before i start telling the connection and all btw couple...first i want to tell all that i am a ragya shipper😳 and at first i like swarya😊 ...but can never relate to them ...

ragini is someone who has no opinion of hers till now...
she wants to study her dadimaa told her to get engage...she does ...she start seeing laksh as her future husband ...she accept him as her destiny...she starts liking him and fall in love with him but she fall in love with laksh not lucky ...as she do not know till now who lucky really is...

then comes to lucky he thinks he and ragini and never compatible for each other ...he thinks he loves swara she is just perfect for him ...she has evrything which he wants in his life partner...

but now we are soon going to see a change lucky who will try to become laksh for swara ...
he will try to change him for swara ...he will try to become responsible...handle buisness and all...
so its ofcourse when swara will see him changing just for her she will later on fall for him...

the way ragini is behaving it looks like soon she will try to unite swara and laksh ...but since swara does not love laksh till now so it will not be easy and i think in this process laksh and ragini will become friends and get to know each other well and that is when laksh will start falling in true love with ragini but since ragini is trying again to move on ...she will try to distance her from laksh after knowing that swara still loves laksh and she will think laksh also loves swara...

and the connection is of pain of love btw ragya ...😊⭐️
they both can understand each other pain very well ...ragini is helping sanskaar to recover only for laksh as she loves him a lot and cannot see him sad... wo apna ghar chhodke sanskaar ki help karne sirf laksh ke liye aa rahi hai ...therefore her love is true and for sure she will try to unite swarya ...
maybe ragini will feel angry from swara for sometime ...but this time we will see a strong ragini ...not the weak one...

earlier when laksh plead to dadi...pls...ragini ko mere ghar bhej do to take care of sanskaar she do not agree and dadi says main apni ladki ko ek jawaan ladke ke ghar kaise bhej doon ?
also ragini is confused at that time she has never questioned her elders like laksh ...she has spoked to dp only when situation out of control...ragini is a girl who is always bound over rules and regulations so she never try to break them ...
also how can ragini say i will go ...?i mean from starting she is an introvert ...has never went against her family or her daadi maa... also laksh and ragini has no relation like that of fiancee so how can she go with him when there is no relation till now btw them ...engagemen was broken in front of the whole baadi...
what will people say ...?how can she go to the home of her earlier fiancee ...whome she has no relation with him now...

basically i just want to say that ragini is an introvert and things are too complicated for her at that time to take a stand against her daadi maa...even when her daadi maa tell him that she will let ragini go with him only when dp will ask forgiveness to her ...


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Posted: 10 years ago
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frankly speaking none of d couple in serial can come together in real life . swarya is only possible if ragini factor is not there & swara herself want 2 be in relation with laksh.[DIV]well coming 2 the topic well I never myself said ragini is in luv with laksh yet but it is not delusion or obsession, I can say it is a strong crush or initial phase of luv, coz i know luv at first does happen in real life but i will say it is astrong crush that too bcoz laksh was her to be husband & girls does fascinate by this thought, ragini also start 2 like laksh or acc to serial start 2 luv laksh , thou the relation could not develop coz laksh was from d very starting finding d ways 2 end this relation coz of his pre decided beliefs but being a traditional girl ragini wanted this relation 2 be worked out, thats why she never gave up , when dp break d relation somewhere ragini accepted her fate but then laksh revolted his family & came 2 stay in ragini's house, then dadi & swara both gave her a false hope for d relation which increased her hopes again. a mild friendship formed b/w ragya but still they both dont know about each other , then laksh cleared himself before ragini that he is not in luv with her but dadi misguide her , but after sometime again laksh clear himself but then ragini for the first time decide to give a second chance 2 her luv ( after seeing the story of her parents ) but after this once again swara gave a false hope 2 her & laksh himself declared her his fiance then again her hopes rised. now comin 2 main point that why she did not voice out infromt of dadi when laksh was begging as ragini had being brought up in such environment where they dont question their elders as they dont considered them wrong but as i have watched the scene many times ragini wants 2 go with laksh as expression says but she did took sanskaar very gud care & that too bcoz of laksh coz this will make him happy. well this was brief story what actual happened 2 ragini.
I know u will not believe by I believe whenever ragini tries 2 move away from laksh , d very next moment laksh comes in front of her. yes laksh rejected her thrice but want 2 stay connected 2 her . acc 2 fans she don't about lucky but vice versa.
as matreyee u too suggested in one of ur post that CV might bring ragya closer with this new track , what problem in that if with this new track ragya relation gets developed , I know he rejected her but swara 2 rejected him , both of them know what u go through after rejection, if ragya become frnds , get along well , then why they can't start with mutual consent, currently laksh luv swara but their is no guarantee she will definitely fall 4 him anytime soon , coz I think currently she may be busy with sanskaar.


Edited by deepikagupta9 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Hi maitreyee...first of all i am not a fanatic shipper...but yes i would love to see ragya...in India and especially in arrange marriages it is very common that the couple falls in love after marriage. ..so is the feelings they harbour towards each other before marriage delusion. ...no...arrange marriages in India is a norm...for Ragini to fall for lakshya is so normal as he was her would be husband...agree that lakshya on two occasions told her point blank no..but then he also declared her his fiancee so...it is natural for ragini to keep falling for lakshya. ...another thing i don't feel people having arrange marriage are delusion fools...and for swara ...lucky was and is never an option as he was her sister's fiance. ..tell me which sister would fall for her sisters fiance...the very thought is creepy...that's how swara feels right now creepy about lakshya...as for lakshya he himself agreed for arrange marriage and then wanted to wriggle out and in that process fell for swara as according to him she is an ideal life partner without even taking into consideration swaras pov ..i think any sane boy would know that even when his engagement to one sister is broken, the other sister will never fall for him...but they say love is blind...so..maybe lakshya just lost his reasonableness of common sense...in fact ragini to fall for lakshya is very normal in the Indian society. ..whereas lakshya falling for his fiancee sister is questionable...so i root for ragya...
Another thing i don't like here is that swarya fans say very demeaning things about ragya and their fans which i find highly ojectionable...and these very fans get hurt if someone criticise swarya...no offense but i just want to tell all that keep loving your couple but don't be nasty and rude to other people who do not subscribe to your views...i know my this point will ruffle quite a feathers but still it is polite request to maintain decency..and that cannot be achieved by not demeaning ragya and their fans...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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hello.. 😊

first n foremost thing i relate to u in one thing here mats n thats swara..m not a swarya fan..nor swara..i dont hate her nor i like her,,i cannot relate to the character as well..thats one things in common between us😛

now coming to ragya...i will as of now never would say ragini love fr laksh is epic..its nt..even in ma old posts i always told that nor rags love is epic nor laksh's love fr swara is epic..its just the budding stage of feelings..i pity rags cz she is always hurt repeatedly by ppl and she just keeps quite which m hoping would change after teh accident drama..agree to the fact that wen laksh literally begged dadi to send rags with him..rags just stood still..yes she did..but she wasnt a statue..she was hurt..n they did show her hurt expressions..now rags is one such introvert who would never ever spk out her heart and go against anyone fr tat matter...she dint say a word to laksh wen he hurted her..frgt laksh ..her own dadi gave her false hopes abt laksh and did till date rags ever ask dadi fr a justification..ahhaa..she dint..y?? coz thats wat ragini is..she cannot stand fr herself..she does not share her opinions with others n i really hate cvs fr doing so fr her character,..i really do!

now just coz rags does not open her heart..doesnt mean that she can like a person with true heart..just coz laksh opens up his feelings with swara makes his love ohh so great and real..n just coz rags never expresses doesnt mean her feelings fr him her are false...her feelings are nt baseless..she liked him coz she met him as a person she would marry...she eventually developed her liking to him..agree she hardly knows teh real him..but she also has seen laksh being thr fr her family and helping them wen he was staying with them..same way laksh at the time of being with thsi family developed a liking fr swara coz he gotta know her better..so if laksh feelings can be true coz he knows swara so well how can rags feelings be false??

its just a matter of feelings...laksh feels it fr swara and ragini feels it fr laksh..its teh same..there is no difference..

p.s i would not like to comment on swara !😛

ok its just ma pov...every individual has their own of seeing a jodi..n like it fr various reasons..i love ragya and started the show coz of them..may eb coz i love tejaswi😳 but i hated them fr a while coz of laksh immatured behaviours..but i love them as a couple..they are pleasant to eyes😉
Edited by neetha - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I would like to thank all the the ragya fans who replied. i just needed to see a different perspective to this whole situation so thank you for helping me out. being the minority group is not easy and i know sometimes few swaraya fans get swayed by their emotions but thanks for maintaining peace and diversity on this forum . a lot of you have predicted the way in which ragya can develop in future though right now i not really in support of this ship but in future if the writers can justify their story line..i 'might' reconsider. my problem with ragya is that it will reduce ragini into a love interest..it will always b about her crying and thinking about lakshya which will do little to make her story line interesting. as of now all the plotting and planning has been done by swara and i firmly believe sangini can give ragini the chance to b a stronger character. sanskaar and ragini won't fall in love so easily . she can play a pivotal role in teaching him a lesson for playing with their lives and secondly by being a living example of how to deal with a heart break in an appropriate manner. sum of u have justified ragini's reaction to lakshya's pleads by stating that she rarely ever speaks against dadi but i don't agree with this statement coz we did see ragini protest against dadi when it came to helping sanskaar. the thing which annoyed me was that not once did she even interrupt dadi i don't think what she feels for lakshya is deep love. she is in love with the idea of love. i really liked the point joyntic made about indian girls falling in love with their to b husband quite naturally even if they have little knowledge of their personality. i guess that can justify her love for lakshya to sum extent but the scenario is changing now. Even in arrange marriages ppl now a days want to spend time knowing their prospective life partner and prefer being with individuals they r compatible with. So being a show which depicts the situation of the 21st century if the writers do portray that Lakshya prefers being with sum1 he believes he is more comfortable with it, won't b considered wrong.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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matreyee ragini's biggest victory will be winning laksh & trust me our biggest victory will be winning u back.
if ragya become frnds & end up getting married, to I don't think their luvstory will start immediately coz laksh will not so easily jump from swara 2 ragini it will take time. I only said that if this time ragya get started then it should be in mutual consent not any force or sacrifice, then only this story will proceed in a right direction that is arrange cum luv marriage, coz then only laksh will give a genuine try. believe me this phase of luv after marriage is very beautiful thing coz during this phase everyday a new thing u get 2 know about each other, learn things from each other & do make adjustments for each other, ragya don't know each other well . I think when CVS have introduced ragya as couple then they would have kept the concept of arrange marriage in their minds. ragya will be a slow burner where I see development of both characters & indian viewers will definately like this story line if cvs present it beautifully & ragya can manage each other well &sorry makers have already given d challenging story line 2 swara only coz whichever brother swara marries she is bound 2 face rejections & has 2 go through different trials & with sanskaar it will be interesting.

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