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Sad how Tanu Weds Manu Returns too reduces women to eye candy
It is no different from the Salman-Shah Rukh starrers, where women work hard through song and dance to convince their 'mard' that they belong to their man.
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| 3-minute read | 29-05-2015
Kishwar Desai



There is absolutely no surprise in the fact that Tanu Weds Manu Returns (TWMR) is doing so well and has raced beyond Rs 100 crores in revenue. And the success is not just owing to the strong performance given by "queen" Kangana Ranaut. But also because the film reinforces the overarching narrative of hackneyed misogyny that Indian cinema thrives on, and one that we the audience, are ever so comfortable with. It informs us, amusingly, of course, that men are nice, caring, and reliable while women are unpredictable, unreasonable and puzzlingly turn into harridans post marriage. This narrative then leads us in the film, amusingly of course, to the cruel victory of the sexy siren Tanu over "plain Jane" Datto, confirming the triumph of chauvinism. Ha ha ha.

Kangana Ranaut might be a great actress, and yes, she has played both characters, of Tanu and Datto, superbly. But the film is no trendsetter. It still does not wake you up to the changing norms in Indian marriages, where men are (hopefully) looking beyond the stereotype of marrying, and sticking to, that awfully superficial pretty girl.

Conditioned as we are, we still laugh at the plight of the poor men who are caught up in a mad, bad, sad marriage syndrome, and undergo stoically, all the trials and tribulations laid at their doorstep. Tanu of course, is ghastly enough to have her husband sectioned in the United Kingdom (UK). Let me also stress that while the scene was put there for a laugh, it is far, far more removed from any reality. As someone who had to actually visit one of these mental health hospitals in London to help release someone who had been unfairly put there by their family, the situation is far from simple. And there is a very long procedure before anyone is either sectioned, or released from these centres. Mental health has often being stigmatised, and it is regretful that even a country (in this case, the UK) which has a far superior, though sometimes case-blind, system of mental health has been shown to be arbitrary.

But my real outrage is over the ghastly fashion in which the film-makers treat the one decent human in the film, Datto, in the end. She is the quintessential tomboy character, involved in her sports and her athletics. By allowing Madhavan to dump her at the last minute, despite all that she had done for him, the makers made the film unwatchable and mean.

Another low point was the long-drawn-out, unnecessary, and quite demeaning section, when Tanu stalks her husband in the run up to his proposed second marriage to Datto, till he succumbs. She even does a Meena Kumari number a la Pakeezah, and I almost expected her to dance through the broken glass on the ground with bleeding feet. All to win back her man of course. Ha ha ha.

I am not at all surprised, therefore, that the film has become a box office hit. It is no different from the Salman-Shah Rukh starrers, where women must look like eye candy, and must work hard through song and dance to convince their "mard" that their svelte bodies and perfectly made up faces belong to their man. All the real Indian "mards" must love watching these Kanganas, Katrinas, Kareenas writhe and beg and plead.

For once, the directors of TWMR had a chance to really break out of the traditional mould. They could have taken a reality check on women's aspirations and a changing India. But they chose not to.


For me, therefore, this is not a subversive film, or even a "funny" film. It is a nasty piece of work, using humour to pass on a stale message.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I havent seen this one... but watched the fist one few days ago..
A typical middle class punjabi girl... taking her vodka, cheap daroo, ciggy and bfs changing cloths... was way too much for a character relatable to me. And this idiot NRI who falls for her with his head hijacked by tannu... as if he never met any of that type of girl in London and he went all the way to India to find one.

Crap! I watched it till interval.. on net of course.. and me n wifey were 🥱 so thats there.

If the characters r so f**ked up.. comedy doesnt come to me... but its just me. 😛


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Woah..I haven't seen the film yet but such a drastically different take on the film while everyone else is gushing..I still find it a lil hard to believe cos of how well Anand Rai dealt with the female protagonist ( Zoya ) in Ranjhanna..The climax is the best part of the film IMO & i couldn't ever get why many felt that the film glorifies stalking..Cos it does not..There is so much more to Zoya & Kundan in the film..So i guess i'l have to watch TWMR myself to judge whether this writer has legitimate concerns 😆
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SPOILERS.
I don't think Tanu was dancing to win her husband back. Manu from the start wasn't in love with Datto, it was just an infatuation over what Manu would expect Tanu to be. But at the end, he couldn't marry Datto because he wanted to live with his old crazy Tanu and not a sane Datto, that's why he said mujhse nahi ho raha hai. The desperation of Manu trying to speak to Tanu was shown in many places. I think the Ghani Bawri dance was just Tanu's kanpuriya andaaz of showing she doesn't care by dancing at her husband's baraat.

The only complain that i have is Rai showing Pappi kidnapping the girl without her consent for marriage and Datto being a part of the plan.

The beauty of the film are the flawed realistic characters in an unrealistic story.

Btw interesting title BTEX 😆
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Originally posted by: rogerrocks

Woah..I haven't seen the film yet but such a drastically different take on the film while everyone else is gushing..I still find it a lil hard to believe cos of how well Anand Rai dealt with the female protagonist ( Zoya ) in Ranjhanna..The climax is the best part of the film IMO & i couldn't ever get why many felt that the film glorifies stalking..Cos it does not..There is so much more to Zoya & Kundan in the film..So i guess i'l have to watch TWMR myself to judge whether this writer has legitimate concerns 😆


Whats ur take on first one? Does tanu and manu come across as bvlble? 😆
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Originally posted by: AllBlacks1


Whats ur take on first one? Does tanu and manu come across as bvlble? 😆


No idea..Haven't watched that one either 😆
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I don't care about praise or criticism on TWMR... sanu yeh kehni hai ke woh Khaini Bavari gaana.. woh music channels pe ban karwa do. 😵 What a sh*tty song to watch every 20th minute.


And that dialogue, "Hum thoda badchalan kya hue..." What the... 🤢 Kangu se toh Deepu 10X behtar hai.

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I dont get what the writer wants to say. She is contradicting herself in the article and criticising for the sake of it, or perhaps just to be different and grab attention. Tanu was unreasonable and unpredictable from scene 1, while Manu was nice and reliable. That was their basic character sketch, not something they turned into post marriage, as article is suggesting. Article is begrudging the fact that Manu stuck to shallow and sexy Tanu and dumped the plain-jane Datto. Isnt this viewpoint chauvinist too? That the women should be proper, naive, innocent, pure. She can be a tomboy, but she cant be moody or mean or unreasonable or selfish or aware of her own sexuality, leave alone using it. And Tanu is all that and makes no apology about it. Datto is unconventional on outside but inside she meets all the standards of a good Indian girl : selfless, naive,innocent, devoted... Tanu is unconventional inside and out, and thats why writer finds her superficial, because she has none of the qualities of aforementioned innocent girl. Manu marrying Datto wouldnt have broke any stereotypes,it would have just reaffirmed that the good and selfless girl would get the guy, while the mean and sexy girl would end up alone until she subverts herself to the traditional standards.

Frankly Tanu and Datto are too unique to be slotted as stereotypical bad girl and good girl. Esp Tanu has lot of layers and complications and she may not be the easiest to connect with. But that is her essence. And besides why do we forget that its not a standalone movie, its a sequel to Tanu Weds Manu. The love story was always of Tanu and Manu, and they had to end up together, no matter how mean and selfish Tanu is, or how boring and predictable Manu is. The movie was just a journey to show how they overcome their differences and stick to each other in the end.

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