Important: What is More Hurting? - Page 2

Originally posted by: mariee

Obviously option 2 !

Especially after a tiring day where u r trying to ratofy those stupid codes & then as a stress buster u think "Chalon forums dekhe !"

& then u encounter an even more stressful thing of some loved members of forums saying that they are leaving !

Trust me guys ...tum log karte honge posts thinking that ull are the only ones who are getting hurt

But no ...a big fat NO ! Along with ull its every single forum member that is getting hurt by such posts... making us feel guilty that our absence due to unavoidable personal reasons (like exams & family) is causing such unwanted chaos in the forum !

My words are not meant to hurt anyone ...If it does I'm sorry ! But I had to vocalize my thoughts somewhere... 😊

Originally posted by: Jaz_

Repeated posts on leaving. It's frowned upon and sets a sad mood among members. Rather I would have them take a break and come back refreshed. 😊

Originally posted by: premap

Posts on leaving creates a 'Negative' atmosphere in the Forum. If they want to leave , go quietly, without creating 'unhappiness' in the Forum ! I would PREFER if NOONE leaves but more join it !

Originally posted by: _TheBlackRose_

Option two

When ppl just give up n say 'I'm leaving' or 'I'm going silent'... It creates a negativity and hopelessness... We all united to save the forum, then why do we decide to leave due to matters like low activity? If the activity is low, u're lowering it further by leaving, as the forum is losing members...

If the activity is low, we shud raise it instead of lowering it further...