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chahat4u

@chahat4u

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Posted: 10 years ago

#1

So, A weird poll maybe befitting the sad atmosphere of forum. Most of the choices are weird in this poll, especially third. 😛 But could not help it? Just thought how do other members feel in such times, which feeling is stronger? Do post your opinion and add other reasons too. Sorry for this weird poll and options. 😳

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Katty

@Cute_Kate

Dazzler

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Posted: 10 years ago

#2

8charu.. Repeated Posts hurt but then now I do feel.bad for anyone who isnmaking posts and not receiving response from other member...hardly 2 or 3... for all the time they invest in making posts

..and what makes matter worse is.. I see Ema as forum has more than 50 members who can contribute in activities but are only seen on stories thread... that too mostly liking and few commenting.

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Aria

@Cinnamonn

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Posted: 10 years ago

#3

second one by let's be active🤗

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maarushkaa

@maarushkaa

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Posted: 10 years ago

#4

Obviously option 2 !

Especially after a tiring day where u r trying to ratofy those stupid codes & then as a stress buster u think "Chalon forums dekhe !"

& then u encounter an even more stressful thing of some loved members of forums saying that they are leaving !

Trust me guys ...tum log karte honge posts thinking that ull are the only ones who are getting hurt

But no ...a big fat NO ! Along with ull its every single forum member that is getting hurt by such posts... making us feel guilty that our absence due to unavoidable personal reasons (like exams & family) is causing such unwanted chaos in the forum !

My words are not meant to hurt anyone ...If it does I'm sorry ! But I had to vocalize my thoughts somewhere... 😊

Edited by mariee - 10 years ago

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zindgidilse

@zindgidilse

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Originally posted by: mariee
Obviously option 2 !
Especially after a tiring day where u r trying to ratofy those stupid codes & then as a stress buster u think "Chalon forums dekhe !"

& then u encounter an even more stressful thing of some loved members of forums saying that they are leaving !

Trust me guys ...tum log karte honge posts thinking that ull are the only ones who are getting hurt

But no ...a big fat NO ! Along with ull its every single forum member that is getting hurt by such posts... making us feel guilty that our absence due to unavoidable personal reasons (like exams & family) is causing such unwanted chaos in the forum !

My words are not meant to hurt anyone ...If it does I'm sorry ! But I had to vocalize my thoughts somewhere... 😊

@bold Exactly👏, u said my words marsh that somewhere i didn't able to express in words but really wanted to say.

agree with ur each word in this comment.

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Jaz

@Jaz_

Voyager

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Posted: 10 years ago

#6

Repeated posts on leaving. It's frowned upon and sets a sad mood among members. Rather I would have them take a break and come back refreshed. 😊

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premap

@premap

Dazzler

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Posted: 10 years ago

#7

Posts on leaving creates a 'Negative' atmosphere in the Forum. If they want to leave , go quietly, without creating 'unhappiness' in the Forum ! I would PREFER if NOONE leaves but more join it !

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swati

@Ragna1302

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Originally posted by: zindgidilse
@bold Exactly👏, u said my words marsh that somewhere i didn't able to express in words but really wanted to say.
agree with ur each word in this comment.

U r correct dear...I m with u. ...I want to say same word...

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Ushoshi

@_TheBlackRose_

Rocker

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Option two

When ppl just give up n say 'I'm leaving' or 'I'm going silent'... It creates a negativity and hopelessness... We all united to save the forum, then why do we decide to leave due to matters like low activity? If the activity is low, u're lowering it further by leaving, as the forum is losing members...

If the activity is low, we shud raise it instead of lowering it further...

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chahat4u

@chahat4u

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Originally posted by: Cute_Kate
8charu.. Repeated Posts hurt but then now I do feel.bad for anyone who isnmaking posts and not receiving response from other member...hardly 2 or 3... for all the time they invest in making posts
..and what makes matter worse is.. I see Ema as forum has more than 50 members who can contribute in activities but are only seen on stories thread... that too mostly liking and few commenting.

Its like you want to stop them from leaving, you understand their hurt and their reasons. But not their actions. It hurts either way and it hurts to read such posts again and again. Plus make others who cannot be that active guilty. yes u r right, most comments are in stories threads,but in past weeks I noticed even some stories were getting less comments due to less activity.

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