Traditional household Vs Modern household

Traditional household - Hubby works hard, all responsibility of finances adn world, less interaction at home. Women at home manages home and guy manages outside.

Modern Household - both balance life devote same time and energy at work and home.

Pros of traditional household -

1. Assumed to be equality for women.

2. Less or no frustration for women counter part.

3. Well defined toles for both.

4. Children are least impacted and can mentally make big, per scientific study.

5. Historically sucessfull setup.

Pros of modern household-

1. Equal responsibility..

2. No frustration or no scope for dominanace.

3. Ambitions can be acheieved.

4. No insecurity.

There are so many cons in both setup, lols will leave you guys to think and point it out.

Debate - Traditional way of living or modern way of living? why and additional inputs appreciated.

Think about it. Expecting sensible responses here.Thanks!

Isn't this similar to the various debates we had on working mom vs stay-at-home moms? Because in traditional and modern households dads are expected to work outside and it is only moms who gets oppurtunity to choose.

Originally posted by: Maya_M

Isn't this similar to the various debates we had on working mom vs stay-at-home moms? Because in traditional and modern households dads are expected to work outside and it is only moms who gets oppurtunity to choose.

I agree its kind of sum up, there are various aspect such as impact of kids in day care who are more viable to going the negative route in life as compared to kids staying with mom, etc. Its a proven fact, BTW.

Will be adding more if this debate takes off.

Originally posted by: raj5000

I agree its kind of sum up, there are various aspect such as impact of kids in day care who are more viable to going the negative route in life as compared to kids staying with mom, etc. Its a proven fact, BTW.

Will be adding more if this debate takes off.

https://india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=716073 😛

I have posted my views on various related threads but would love to add if anything new is added here.

Originally posted by: Believe

All Modern indian house hold want to be traditional.....people talk about big things..the fact is that...after marriage every indian women/men think 60% traditionaly. I think every modern person have a traditional views n expectations. 😊

Originally posted by: mermaid_QT

Vinu, are you talking about traditions here? I think we keep tradition in all place,even household life also..😊

The debate topic poster has divided houses with working women as modern household, while houses with stay-at-home moms as traditional household. It is hence impossible for modern household in this context to be 60% traditional!

Supporting modern household doesn;t mean throwing away traditional values.-well said 👏 It just means women not sitting at home, and working outside as well as providing quality time and care to their kids during after-work hours instead of just cleaning after kids and playing with them / taking care of them all day by themselves.

In fact, even stay-at-home moms should send their kids to daycare for a much better exposure to environment, social growth, adjustment skills, co-operative qualities and discipline 😊.

Yes i agree with your views..and the good point is ppls understanding the various consequences of social change at different stages of a person's life..and i think household is not a monolithic unit..and sometime showing the actual complexity of interacting human lives that lies behind the misleading unity of the household and i know that roles in a society differ by age...and society has its own cultural timetable for the appropriate progress of the individual life cycle.😊

Originally posted by: Believe

Yes i agree with your views..and the good point is ppls understanding the various consequences of social change at different stages of a person's life..and i think household is not a monolithic unit..and sometime showing the actual complexity of interacting human lives that lies behind the misleading unity of the household and i know that roles in a society differ by age...and society has its own cultural timetable for the appropriate progress of the individual life cycle.😊