Dadisa and her double standards

Ganga seems to be the kind who knows not to forgive people. She uses them full fledgedly but when it comes to forgive them... She thinks they are dead long back. Eeks what selfishness. Imagine what she'd have done if she was in anandi 's place once upon a time. She would have taken all help from the BH folks and still would have thrown them out mercilessly. But what's wrong with ds? After herself going through all this and after she is shown redeemed, why would she not let others have the same treatment? She could have just shut up at least. I won't blame jagya here. He's done bad, but redeemed and still stands by the same morals and logics with no double standards. But what's wrong with dadisa?

Coming to anandi. Anandi made a huge mistake in making a promise that was never her 's to fulfill. She could have said "I'll let them know and we'll try my best". That should've been the end. She should've understood by now that she will be allowed to interfere in peoples lives only when it suits them and it doesn't depend on what it's right or wrong like she thinks. Know the world better anandi. Don't be so naive.

She just gave a diplomatic answer that looked apt for the situation.

Shinya I just read in the written update that ds supported Ganga. Here is the statement from written update "Dadisaa gets up now and supports Ganga saying this is it I also told Anandi same why you gave promise to that man". So I thought ds supported Ganga in all what she said and Ganga did say that ratan was dead to Her long ago

Alchemist, in yesterday's episode, ganga was lashing out at anandi, rather foolishly, without understanding the seriousness of the situation. Jagya too was quiet.

Someone had to stop ganga's mouth somehow. So dadisa butted in and gave a diplomatic answer.

Yes, she did say looking at ganga "I told the same thing to anandi" but she said this when ganga was going on and on and looked like she would never stop. The situation was getting quiet tense.

So, Dadisa intervened. It was rather to stop ganga than to blame anandi.

Ganga reminded anandi how bad ratan was to her.

I was waiting for anandi to remind her that her mannu is alive only because of that bad person.

She dared to ask anandi what right she had to give such a promise to ratan. As a doctor, ganga should have known that to make a dying person feel better, you dont need "rights".

She is clueless herself how she is going to keep her promise... I dont feel anandi did anything wrong. She just wanted to be kind to a dying person.

Totally agree with you that Ganga is an unforgiving and merciless woman.

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In my opinion, as far as Ganga is concerned, the years she spent with Ratan hardened her as a person and raised her self preservation threshold while lowering her trust level in people. Moreover as a mother, she instinctly tends to protect her child.

Ds wants to enjoy goodies of both world ganga will be her bindni and jagya anandi with her though anandi is not physical with jagya but they have a life together and part of same family.