Dadisa and her double standards

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I am baffled to see ds agreeing with Ganga that ratan is a dead man since long and does not deserve to see his son even on his death bed. This old woman committed numerous crimes, spoiled lives and killed people and she is still forgiven and is able to live with her children, grandchildren etc. Her grandson who is a Dr plus politician now has also done crimes, tortured his ex emotionally in the most brutal ways and is still forgiven and given character certificates too by the same wife. All because they redeemed .

Ganga seems to be the kind who knows not to forgive people. She uses them full fledgedly but when it comes to forgive them... She thinks they are dead long back. Eeks what selfishness. Imagine what she'd have done if she was in anandi 's place once upon a time. She would have taken all help from the BH folks and still would have thrown them out mercilessly. But what's wrong with ds? After herself going through all this and after she is shown redeemed, why would she not let others have the same treatment? She could have just shut up at least. I won't blame jagya here. He's done bad, but redeemed and still stands by the same morals and logics with no double standards. But what's wrong with dadisa?

Coming to anandi. Anandi made a huge mistake in making a promise that was never her 's to fulfill. She could have said "I'll let them know and we'll try my best". That should've been the end. She should've understood by now that she will be allowed to interfere in peoples lives only when it suits them and it doesn't depend on what it's right or wrong like she thinks. Know the world better anandi. Don't be so naive.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Wow Alchemist.. Nice post👏
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Posted: 10 years ago
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But Alchemist, what I feel is that... DS did not actually support Ganga.
She just gave a diplomatic answer that looked apt for the situation.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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This thought crossed me. Dadisa is enjoying life with her ladesar always with her and she becomes stone faced when another dadi wants a glimpse of her pots.

Let us wait. Dadisa might have said these words just to wakeup some feelings.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shinya

But Alchemist, what I feel is that... DS did not actually support Ganga.

She just gave a diplomatic answer that looked apt for the situation.


Shinya I just read in the written update that ds supported Ganga. Here is the statement from written update "Dadisaa gets up now and supports Ganga saying this is it I also told Anandi same why you gave promise to that man". So I thought ds supported Ganga in all what she said and Ganga did say that ratan was dead to Her long ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: The_Alchemist.


Shinya I just read in the written update that ds supported Ganga. Here is the statement from written update "Dadisaa gets up now and supports Ganga saying this is it I also told Anandi same why you gave promise to that man". So I thought ds supported Ganga in all what she said and Ganga did say that ratan was dead to Her long ago


Alchemist, in yesterday's episode, ganga was lashing out at anandi, rather foolishly, without understanding the seriousness of the situation. Jagya too was quiet.

Someone had to stop ganga's mouth somehow. So dadisa butted in and gave a diplomatic answer.

Yes, she did say looking at ganga "I told the same thing to anandi" but she said this when ganga was going on and on and looked like she would never stop. The situation was getting quiet tense.
So, Dadisa intervened. It was rather to stop ganga than to blame anandi.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Dsa may have disagreed with Anandi but don't really know whether she agreed with Ganga.


But yes Dsa does have double standards.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Ganga reminded anandi how bad ratan was to her.

I was waiting for anandi to remind her that her mannu is alive only because of that bad person.

She dared to ask anandi what right she had to give such a promise to ratan. As a doctor, ganga should have known that to make a dying person feel better, you dont need "rights".

She is clueless herself how she is going to keep her promise... I dont feel anandi did anything wrong. She just wanted to be kind to a dying person.

Totally agree with you that Ganga is an unforgiving and merciless woman.


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Posted: 10 years ago
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DadiSa always had double standards. She had to be manipulative and street smart to survive with two kids. So even now she is palying both sides while not revealing her own hand.
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In my opinion, as far as Ganga is concerned, the years she spent with Ratan hardened her as a person and raised her self preservation threshold while lowering her trust level in people. Moreover as a mother, she instinctly tends to protect her child.

Though she promised Ratan that he could meet Mannu, I think it was just out of gratitude and a spur of the moment thing. She felt that she owed him that much for returning her son. Not much different from what Anandi did, except that Ganga has the power to fulfil her promise.

Her years at Badi Haveli among decent folk softened her and lowered her guard. She felt safe and was busy trying to become another Anandi all these years.

Now that the time has come to deliver on her promise, all of Ganga's old fears are towering over her. In her fear of losing Mannu, she will lash out at anyone. She did it at Jagya few years earlier and yesterday at Anandi.

She was street smart and a fighter. Qualities that she lost after coming to BH. Hopefully with this incident, her possessiveness to hold on to her new life will break her out of the Anandi mould into her own person. We should get to see a spark or two flying around.

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DadiSa and Jagya too should realise that just because Ganga has learnt to make Adrak ki chai like Anandi, it does not make her Anandi.

Time DadiSa lets go of Anandi and accepts Ganga for the person she is.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Dadisa double standards is nothing new. She praises ganga for her adrak ki chai but tells anandi to be honest I praise ganga but she is not as good as you in making chai.
Ds wants to enjoy goodies of both world ganga will be her bindni and jagya anandi with her though anandi is not physical with jagya but they have a life together and part of same family.

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