Marriage or Further study??Which is IMP??

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Hi all🤗

I was thinking this topic over and over

For a girl What is more important???
Marriage??
or
Her further studies??

In Sangam we have seen Ganga's friend (sorry 4got her name) she isnt allowed to study further but has to marry n settle in life.

Should a girl always need an husband or male to be with her???

Cant she persume her studies and make a position of her's alone in world??

Marriage is needed we all knoww it!!!!😳But what i feel is women should have their own status!!!😳They shouldnt be bound down!!

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-Jwalamukhi- thumbnail
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Posted: 18 years ago
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I think that girls should stydy further but still get married be4 the age of 30. Thats my opinion.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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In today's world, women should study further to have a status of her own and be respected. But afterwards, I think, she must settle down because she will surely need someone's support. 😳 Not that she cannot be alone or live on her own, but I think she will need the love of a family, her own...
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Posted: 18 years ago
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i ageee wid both pooja & shefaali!! 😊
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Posted: 18 years ago
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FURTHER STUDIES MUST B THE FIRST PREFERENCE AND THEN MARRIAGE. 😊 😆
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Posted: 18 years ago
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first studies then marriage bcuz if u become something n go somewhere then people will respect.
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in my opinion i say u should not pay attention on marriage n gold stuff first , no prob if u dont have gold but remember u have the most precious gold n that is your education bcuz if u have education than u can become something good on your own n when your salary comes if u want u can buy gold with your own money your SO first education first

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its wrong abt boy n girl both should get equal knowledge
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Posted: 18 years ago
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I think that education is extremely important for a woman because it is her most effective weapon in a society that is male dominated. This is not to say that a woman should not get married, but by being educated, she carves an identity for herself that is separate from her family and her husband. She learns to be independent, strong, and be an equal partner in a marriage, rather than a slave. Basically, education first, and marry when you find someone right for you!
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Education and Marriage both are necessitites of life.

One is not complete without either. Marriage is a social norm and education is the key which guides us how to handle that norm.

Having said that, i think we all have focused a lot on the importance of education and how it can give us an identity and make us worthy of equal treatment in society. Education surely is a must. It brings with it sense and sensibility and helps us flourish as an individual.

But i also have to say, marriage is an institution which is the real test of life and our educated mind. and it is marriage which brings real happiness and peace in life, provided, it is happy and full of love.

So first we should get education and then we must not ignore love and companionship, which becomes our support in times when we really need someone.

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Posted: 18 years ago
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i think girls should definitely study further...marriage is not the only destinations in a girls life. yes, it is indeed needed but to that is to a limit...studies are too important whethere it be male or female. gender doesnt change the importance of studies or marriage...both have their own neccessities. its different if someone doesnt want to study further but im my view, studies are very important.

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Posted: 18 years ago
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An education is very important, you need it. because even if you get married you never know wen u'll need a job for finacial reasons, or maybe you'll end up having to support yourself. And for everyone, if your atleast a college graduate, you get respect you, even for the village girls, ur in laws treat u better if ur some what educated. ur education is like ur savings in a bank, its always there wen u need it.

I think both are very important, just like education is, if you wait until u get ur PHD, then in our culture its rly hard to get married wen ur like 32. But with marriage see, its a person thing, if you u dont want to get married then you dont.

For me, i know i'll get married while im in collge cuz im goin to med school inshallah n i wanna b married by like 23 or 24. i think for me, both are very important aspects of life.

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