With Anjali, it's all about superficial compatibility ( as you rightly call i surface chemistry) and physical attraction....which usually happens between two attractive people on ths same plane...With Riddz, it's a subconscious deep bond that makes him act and raect , look at her even when he doesn't want to, search for her when she is not around, bond at an emotional level with her without knowing that it's happening....Riddz has touched him as a fellow human while Anjali interests him as an attractive woman... Riddhima is a beautiful graceful woman but even before Armaan got a chance to view her as a woman, they boh got into bull-fights...and now it's ego first, love later.
Advice for Armaan: Wait for the one you love, don't go with someone just because she found your first.Anjali may be your interest or your girlfriend tomorrow but you and your heart will always lie with Riddz.
Examples : In Pride and Prejudice, Elizabeth was charmed by Wickham but the one she truly loved was Darcy. Sabrina was attracted to David, he was her childhood crush but she found her true love in Linus...
....This is how Cupid works sometimes. The one you love is right there standing by your side and yet your eyes are lost in the colours of the giant wheel. Human nature, sigh.
Edited by nitica_82 - 18 years ago