Originally posted by: leavesandwaves
I am enjoying the kids fight. I dont care who their parents are. I just watch them as kids. If kids dont fight, who will fight? when elders fight, it becomes ugly.
As for apologies, it should come from the kid himself. Otherwise it has no value and no heart. Sorry bolo, sorry bolo will become rhetoric and for the sake of it.
Both the kids are not bad basically. As their personalities develop, we can see who they are really.
Exactly.Apology should come from the kid himself and he shouldn't be made to aplogise.He should do so on his own.
When parents forced their kids to say sorry even when they don't feel any regrets - Children grow up thinking that the word sorry is enough to cover all damages their behaviour has caused.
He and Abhi are just kids and they are made to realise the error of their ways by Mannu and Anandi.
Both of them saw merit in what Anandi and Mannu said.
Other day Abhi was forced to say sorry to Shivam by Mannu and it idn't change things between th kids.
Mannu could be excused for making Abhi say sorry because Mannu even if he is mature for his age he is still a kid.
Parents can only teach them the right way of doing things thye cannot force them.
The other day Mannu made Abhimanyu realise that Shivam is not that bad nor is he his enemy and Anandi was teaching Shivam not to keep grudges but neither the kids listened
The second lesson came again from Mannu and Anandi - this seems to have worked for the time being.
Thye are just kids and they need to be made to learn from experiences at every stage,Hope Anandi and Mannu continue this way with Abhi and Shivam.
But still the much needed communication between J and Abhi is still pending.J doesn't need to tell Abhi why he feels compelled to go soft on Shivam but he needs to tell Abhi that he has his own place in his heart. Nobody can take Abhi's place. Abhi needs that assurance from J.