The family - Page 3

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Also I wonder how Ratan's son is such an understanding guy while Jagya's son has turned out to be an insecure kid trying to find fault in others instead of trying to love them.

This proves that a criminal's son need not be a criminal and a mahatma's son wont become mahatma automatically.

Originally posted by: aparnauma

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J trying to engage Abhi in a conversation when he clearly is not in a mood for it.Then why not take him out and play basket ball with him? What stopped from doing that?

Did Anandi and Shivam stop him from doing that?

amazing Is this even a valid point ?Jagya had come home from office all tired up How he could take abhi out to play basket ball ?He tried to engage him in conversation but criticizing him to take son to play basket ball at that time Is this some joke ?
and he will surely explain every thing to his wife and kid not that he is giving preference to any tom dick and harry over them After all he is a human being too Needs some to see things as well

Originally posted by: Missesha

At that time personally I felt Sumitra was right because Ganga, who was no one to them was directly / indirectly the reason of threat imposed on Singhs. Initially Sumitra voiced her concerns about Ganga lightly and later it turned into couple fight (Bhairon Sumi) including whether Sumi should serve breakky/ lunch to Bhairon or not.

However, I don't think Ganga or anyone realised Sumitra's plight at that point. Niether did Ganga realise how she was a reason for the rift between Sumi and her loved ones (hubby & son). She happily took everything that came her way without being sensitive to others (saanchi or Sumi).

Things turned ugly beyond a point, when Sumi's character changed overnight and when her insecurities had turned into a rage. After that point the problem was with all characters: bhairon, sumi, jagya, and Ganga with DS unable to decide whether to side with Sumi or with Ganga.

I am anticipating something similar here. Back then J was right in G's eyes, because she was thinking only from her perspective and not Sumi's, and today also when she is in Sumi's place she is only seeing how she ( &her son) are being disadvantaged.

Time will come, when CVs will make sure that all are at fault: Jagya, Ganga, Anandi, Abhi and Shivam. Ganga might go bonkers suddenly and DS once again in a position where she is unable to decide between Anandi and Ganga.

Let's see what unfolds.

I think it was ds and sumitra who brought Ganga in home and gave her shelter there Jagya did not bring her himself Neither she came herself Dadisaa asked Jagya you can bring her home and Sumitra was lecturing her consider this as her home and later involving her in house affairs Sending her with milk for Jagya Was Sumitra blind ? Didnt she saw Ratan then and he is a goon who tried to take life of his own wife twice ? At that time she was involving Ganga in her family later kicking her out and Ganga is to be blamed she posed threat for the family and Sumitra is justified because of her concerns ? Why she did not foresee this before and stopped DS No Ganga will come here She will be danger for us ?Did Ganga even come to this house on her own Did Jagya bring her on his own ? It was DS and Singhs including Sumitra

Why a husband is suppose to deliver lecture to wife and kid over his each action ? The people who are here blaming Jagya like always , his way of dealing with the relationship is actual problem here Which way of his wrong ? His second son is perfectly fine Only Abhi is facing problem and his problem is simple he is having tiff with shivam and does not like the fact his dad always scold him when he and shivam have fight and does not do same with shivam Now here I feel Ganga is acting weird she knows the reason why not explain to him ? Same Ganga was the one who before leap asked Abhi to give his toy to shivam when shivam wanted that toy At that time did she think she is unfair with abhi so why not now see same for Jagya ? Although yet Jagya has not given anything of abhi to shivam at all That's why I am upset with cvs they twisted Ganga's character Otherwise its not difficult for her to understand

Yesterday why to blame Jagya what stopped him to take son to play for basket ball when he came home all tired up from work he should take son to play basketball ? Think for yourself Was that possible for him at that moment? Is he a man or machine ? He did the right thing tried to engage him in conversation about school but Abhi's mood was spoiled thanks to his stupid great granny Who really acted stupid What was point of hurting the child asking him to listen the remaining half story with shivam when she did not tell first half story to him and only told shivam ? Now these acts of people like Dadisaa are causing frustration in that child

and not to worry Ganga is not insecure of Anandi neither Jagya has made her insecure of Anandi People are forgetting Its Ganga who kept Anandi at home assuring Jagya she has no problem Jagya did not keep her there so she has enough trust on her husband which no tom dick and harry can shake She never said to Jagya not to love shivam she only thinks he has grown too strict on Abhi and her son Mannu can see that which she is not seeing He only scolds Abhi when he does not listen politely Just like yesterday Jagya first said to abhi politely not to play inside but he did not listen and thrown away the ball which could hurt Ganga then he scolded him but Ganga did not see he first did politely made abhi understand but he did not listen

and JaGan will solve their problem after all they are one strong couple with Jagya's balika vadhu staying for 11 years with them still they have not broken apart or fight like cats and dogs over it because they have strong trust on each other

@well said Jia and those who are blaming Jagya he is going against his family to support the one who needed? Gimme a break when he did that? what wrong he has done ? where he went against his family Its not even he who kept Anandi and shivam at home He was like she stays here or goes its her wish None of my business but he did confirmed from his wife in anyway she should not be the one who is hurt so when where he has gone against his family ?Not even one seen where he has preferred shivam over abhi Didn;t even know his son wanted to eat ice cream Didn't bring for him ? so why blaming him ?

if communication is not happening thats because couple's one hectic life It can happen in any working couple and they will get time for it but this going against his family is totally out of serial blame

and that once upon a time he went against his family to support Ganga then his so called poor family cheated that woman First they brought her home Sidra is right It was Dadisaa's idea to bring her home if she would not have said it Jagya would have not brought her in BH , second sumitra involved her family matters , showed her dreams she is like a family member she wanted to leave DS along with sumi there stopped her and later this sumitra was kicking her out and people i guess were expecting Jagya to support his mother Nice work First make promises to a person we will help you knowing everything about her then kicking her out she has become danger for our family and that i fear my son has got too attached with this woman and her son . Thankfully Jagya was not like sumitra forgetting Ganga risked her own life to save Gehna Ganga has done enough for Singhs if she is indebted to them are they less indebted to her She was ready to give her life for them Gehna owes her life to her

Someday Ganga will be criticized for why exactly she is using Haveli's oxygen to breathe she came there as refugee and became queen as Haveli's ladesar married her Biggest sin of his life and Ganga's biggest sin dare to love him as she had no right for that She was a poor woman and became haveli's beendini and right now she is using Haveli's oxygen to breathe Wah a refugee now great queen using palace 's oxygen to breathe😛i won't be surprised if next this will be blame on her

For those who are calling queen sitting in car waiting for Jagya to open the car door for her perhaps did not hear the background song as what exactly was going on in her head then The lines that were playing behind her were

Kyun aise gumsum ho

English Translation why are you so sad , so upset , so serious . He got down from car and tried to go in kind of in rush and she felt he is ignoring her He is upset with her


Kitni Baatein Kahane Ki Hain
Hothon Par Jo Sahmi Si Hain
Ek Roz Inhein Sun Lo, Kyun Aise Gumsum Ho

i wish to say a lot to you
That are on my lips
Listen to them once , why are you sad

These lines were playing behind her her feelings at that time she thought he is upset with her and is ignoring her therefore tried to go inside in rush without waiting for her but he when felt she is not coming with him he realized probably she is thinking i am angry or upset with her thats why he opened the door and went with her inside because he wanted to tell her i am not upset with you Seeing her upset he tried to talk her but her attention got diverted to Abhi

This was what the actual scene was but obviously twisted to suit criticism on Ganga I am not surprised if scene is twisted to suit criticism of Ganga thats why said next will be queen using haveli's oxygen 😆

I think Ganga also ignored him when Jagya tried to make peace with her.

They say thali do haathse bajte hain.

A man cant express pain the way a woman can express.

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

I think Ganga also ignored him when Jagya tried to make peace with her.

They say thali do haathse bajte hain.

A man cant express pain the way a woman can express.

i dont think she ignored him when he was about to say she saw abhi back from school her attention was on him therefore could not listen
Even Jagya was not ignoring her where he was ignoring her? i said she thought he is ignoring her with his rush to go inside but he was not exactly ignoring her if he would be ignoring he won't have stopped and took her with him side by side Even opened car door for her Thats not called ignoring in any way 😊

This track between jagiya and ganga is really good need to see how they are going to take it further...
regarding Jagiya and abhi rlation jagiya, jagiya did not had any answer when ganga said then abhi is he not your responsibility...jagiya has to spend lot of time and have bit patience when dealing with abhi, he does not have anything to do with your past, abhi tried to impress his dad on holi making mustach it was jagiya who said twith a bright face what anandi did when he was a child , he had time to recollect what anadi did, but no patience to tolerate what abhi did that is too much,,,,,,,everyone in the family could sense what abhi is going through but cheating each other he needs lots of love and assurance from jagiya and gain love and respect for him.

even shivam was jelous of abhi though not in bad sense as he said abhi ki pass ethne ache papa hai...shivam is not getting insecure when jagiya does good to abhi he thinks it is his dad, but when jagiya be good to shivam abhi thinks why is my dad being good to him...Abhi loves his dad a lot and wants his attention.

jagiya and ganga relation is having some gap which is common between parents when there are so many changes in busy life and kids many reasons behind it.Here gana is not insecure or angry, but just concerned and wants everything to be normal.

Once there was life in Badi haveli now even with modern look no real happiness everyone are busy and concerned with their problems, Anandi is not happy she is trying to keep herself busy and occupied, but when relaxed she is crying for nandini and shiv and all so amol..

it just looks like due to anandi and shivam presence though it is not real, just like when saachi was in trouble shiv and Anandi could not be happy...just like on holi jagiya first put color on Anandi just because he cannot ignore her when she is just next to dadisa...and even shivam presence is making it look like that things can happen even between own brothers...jagiya has lot of responsibilities so might be he is not able to balance relations. though in joint families these things are common, but they need to balance equally.

as jagiya said before the leap to ganga Anandis problems are at its place and nothing can stop ...Jagiya has to listen to ganga and try to spend more time with them first try to solve the distance between abhi and him and than ganga...ganga did not start samaj seva by making her doctor to serve patients would fullfill her life...she needs jagiyas attention if not what is the difference between anandi and shivam who lost shiv and ganga and her kids who still has jagiya...