Originally posted by: Missesha
Thanks for sharing the article.
None of the 5 points have reflected in Anandi's behaviour post Shiv's death.
If makers can show Anandi reflecting all of the 5 points it would be great. That's what we wish to see.
But how are they going to empower her? By making her take wrong decisions resulting into loss of her child, and then finally pushing her back into her Ex-hubby's home, where she comes across as living on people's mercy, instead of controlling her own life?
How else would they have bullied her into moving into Dsa's home?
They just wanted the great Kacchi umar ki pakki rishta between Anandi and Dsa and how will they make her go to BH on her own?
They have to blackmail bully her into doing it by the people whom she has great love affection respect and how else can she be bullied into a situation if they did not make her take that risk with Nandini and lose her in the bargain?
Anandi with all her three kids would she have cowered before Daddu and Dsa if she was not weakened by disappearance of Nandini?
The way to empoweing Anandi is to break her and re fix her and claim that they have empowered her.
She was shaken after Shiv's death but recovered enough to live for the sake of her kids. She was incredibly sad and she was strong enough to hand over Anop to gverment agencies a task which Daddu found it difficult.
Found enough strength to take on DB to tell her off.
Bringing up children taking care of family and her work and her commitment to all the social causes that she believes in would have gone on.She would ahve been sad but was still strong enough.
She wanted to go to Sinagpore with Daddu that was not because she was scared to live alone but she wanted her children to have the benefit of his loving care.That was decision she made on her won for the sake of her children..
This is how things would have gone on had Nandini not disappeared - a strong Anandi just gathering will to live for her children and her social commitments.
She was actually doing fine till Nandini disappeared and that too because she couldn't do balancing act - just one mistake and she was made to pay a huge price for that.
That one mistake and the price was big enough to devastate her and think less of her capabilities and makes susceptible to being bullied and manipulated.That's what happens to any person who faced set backs
I don't know whether it is realistic to expect her to stand tall and strong after receiving a blow like that it will take some time to gather herself and get one with life.
She was quite paralysed after J left her too but now the blow is much bigger and much more devastating and I think she should be given time before being written off.
I ahve seen people taking years to gather themselves up after receving huge knocks in life.In Anandi's case it 's only been a very short while and she received one blow after another.
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