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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: maanluvsgeet

Hello my dear Maaneetian n MaNan shipper...

Missed ur post n was wondering y u didn't post anything in this imp track which is going on...loved ur posts always dear ... Be it in Ghsp forum or here... Hugsss.

Okay now coming to the post...absolutely agree with u.
Here Manik is exaggerating the whole situation...I knw he is hurt...bt he should understand tht Nandu was Unconcious n wht he expect her to say...to lie.
Nandu said she don't knw which is the truth...guess her saying I'm not sure has lead to the whole situation.
Manik didn't think n ponder abt the whole scenario...rather he being in his usual impulsive mode...raised the TRUST issue...
I knw a third person is required to make him understand...but he too needs to get tht in his mind tht a realationship works only when two individuals r given equal importance...but in MaNan relationship...Manik always wants to have the upper hand in taking dissisions ...
Phew...enough now...of my blabbering...lol

Bt how's gonna stop Nandu from being expelled?...let's c...


Thanks fellow Maaneetian and Mananian. I can understand Manik's disappointment and frustration with Nandu and can live with his anger for 3-4 episodes till he has time to cool down and think through but holding on to this for weeks seems lame. Lets see how this track pans out.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: -mehr-

First of all, where have you been hiding all this time, it's so good see you around! 😉

You have raised an intriguing question, but the most that caught my eye was your below response to I...'s post!

This is not about faith at all, as I see it. Nandu has faith in Manik and trusts him. If Manik had told her that he had nothing to do with Soha's death she would have believed it blindly, with or without the video footage but she never got around to asking him that, did she?.

As per Manik's perception it's all about trust and blind faith in him! His anger is justified from his own perceptive, cause he expected her to have blind trust and faith in him as he did in her.

Let's assume for a second if Manik would have told her that "Yes, I did kill Soha!", would he have still wanted her to believe "he could not have killed Soha" or she would have accepted that as his truth? It trust really based on circumstantial?

But to answer your question: Is this really a trust test? I don't think it's test, it's more like realization for Manik and Nandini to accept each other with their faults.




Manik wants people close to him to pick up non-verbal cues rather than rely on his spoken word. He needs to learn to communicate verbally too. Nandu should have known her man by now. Nothing he says can be taken at face value. So his 'hate' is not really his hate but his disappointment in her. Till they hold on to their respective perspectives and keep wanting their partners to behave the way they would, I guess this tug of war will continue. Still I am not too convinced with the trust issue here and think it is more about communication and understanding.

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