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Priyanka Agrawal

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Posted: 10 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: Opti

Nandu has never exhibited any violent streak, so Manik's reaction to the situation being reversed is not comparable with this one.

I think Nandini ki indifference should do the needful. She will make him walk on coals not literary to gain her trust in the word called love

Saying I hate you without knowing your own or your partners feelings is different as she did in the Episode 98 when Manik Kidnapped her.

But after acknowledging their feelings for each other hearing an I hate you can scarr for life and that for an innocent and Naive girl like Nandini. We should not forget she takes everything on the face value when it comes to Manik.

So she believes that Manik hates her and accepts it as her guilt and today I think she will accept the Expulsion letter because of that as she will feel that When Manik doesn't love her and is not going to forgive what for she should stay here.

Till the time Manik doesn't take an initiative she will not fight for her love. You cannot fight an already lost battle.

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maanluvsgeet

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Posted: 10 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: priyanka3677

I think Nandini ki indifference should do the needful. She will make him walk on coals not literary to gain her trust in the word called love

Saying I hate you without knowing your own or your partners feelings is different as she did in the Episode 98 when Manik Kidnapped her.

But after acknowledging their feelings for each other hearing an I hate you can scarr for life and that for an innocent and Naive girl like Nandini. We should not forget she takes everything on the face value when it comes to Manik.

So she believes that Manik hates her and accepts it as her guilt and today I think she will accept the Expulsion letter because of that as she will feel that When Manik doesn't love her and is not going to forgive what for she should stay here.

Till the time Manik doesn't take an initiative she will not fight for her love. You cannot fight an already lost battle.

Even I was laughing literally ...when he said tht I would not have believed tht Nandu can do such a thing ...even if he sees any video...he would have plainly ignored...

I was like...dude Nandu is an open book n she is very innocent n naive to do such a blunder...it's simply not in her traits...

But u were a hulk n monster earlier ... Though Manik always kept backup while doing such crime...but tht was well planned...but here the situation is different...it came all of a sudden n people can get impulsive in these situations...n Manik ... He can defo be impulsive...

So being unconscious n seeing video n getting confused is bound to happen ...

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sonia_1

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Posted: 10 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: Opti

Nandu has never exhibited any violent streak, so Manik's reaction to the situation being reversed is not comparable with this one.

On my mobile so excuse any error 😊
Any if's, and's & but's ...external influences , manipulations are all justifications. What is inherent is the lack of trust...which needs to be established for a meaningful relationship. And this track is to do just that.

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I...

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Posted: 10 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: Opti

all i wish to say is nandu is wrong here but so is manick
being truthful is good but at what cost?what was at stake?manick.what was more important?
manick or her confusing truth?between nyon manick and soha who she should have
shown more loyalty?the unknown or the known?

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Priyanka Agrawal

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Posted: 10 years ago

#15

Everything is coming back to no communication😡

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-mehr-

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Posted: 10 years ago

#16

First of all, where have you been hiding all this time, it's so good see you around! 😉

You have raised an intriguing question, but the most that caught my eye was your below response to I...'s post!

This is not about faith at all, as I see it. Nandu has faith in Manik and trusts him. If Manik had told her that he had nothing to do with Soha's death she would have believed it blindly, with or without the video footage but she never got around to asking him that, did she?.

As per Manik's perception it's all about trust and blind faith in him! His anger is justified from his own perceptive, cause he expected her to have blind trust and faith in him as he did in her.

Let's assume for a second if Manik would have told her that "Yes, I did kill Soha!", would he have still wanted her to believe "he could not have killed Soha" or she would have accepted that as his truth? It trust really based on circumstantial?

But to answer your question: Is this really a trust test? I don't think it's test, it's more like realization for Manik and Nandini to accept each other with their faults.

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Priyanka Agrawal

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Posted: 10 years ago

#17

this track is for Manik to realise that there is a very thin line between blind faith and Complete Trust.

Complete Trust is proven and Blind Faith is worship. They have not reached that stage of worship

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Opti

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Posted: 10 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: sonia_1

On my mobile so excuse any error 😊
Any if's, and's & but's ...external influences , manipulations are all justifications. What is inherent is the lack of trust...which needs to be established for a meaningful relationship. And this track is to do just that.

I do not accept that this is a issue of trust or the lack of it. Did Manik say that he did not do it and Nandu refused to believe it? Did the magistrate ask if Manik murder Soha and Nandu claimed she did not know? All the magistrate asked was 'Is Manik involved in Soha's death?' and the truthful answer to that is 'I don't know' because if he had pushed Soha into the fire, he could well be involved in her death although it was not intentional. It is not about whether he is capable of murdering someone but whether he could have accidentally pushed that person hard enough into the fire. Since he was keen to save Nandu's life he could have left the scene in a hurry and not really known what became of that person. If anything the issue is one of lack of communciation. Unless Manan acknowledge that this is the real problem in their relationship, such flimsy reasons for fights will always crop up. If Nandu really did not trust Manik would she have done that free fall thing during their date? She knew he will always stay ready to catch her when she falls. So I don;t think this is an issue of trust at all.

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Opti

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Posted: 10 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: abzy.
All the problems in their relationship including the whole Dhruv situation is due to a lack of communication between them when necessary. Manik should have atleast told her about what happened in the store him instead of Nandini having to reconstruct the event herself without relying on Neyonika's video. Maybe then doubts wouldn't have arrived.
I do believe that Manik is being unreasonable with Nandini, to give her the cold shoulder for a few days is understandable but to jump to the conclusion that you hate her is very unreasonable to me. Nandini simply stated the truth, she was unconscious so she doesn't know if he killed Soha or not. I agree with you, that Manik had too much of a high expectation that Nandini protect him by stating that he didn't kill her hence he felt betrayed even further when that expectation wasn't met. He needs to understand that complete blind trust is not healthy for any relationship. Trust can be relative to a situation. He also needs to understand, that Nandini raising her doubts was not because she thought the Monster within him returned and reacted impulsively towards Soha but that she knows how much goodness and love he has for her which maybe drove him to unintentionally kill her in order to protect his shining star

I fully agree with you here. This is the basic issue - lack of communication, especially about important issues which involve both of them. Had both of them communicated whag they knew about Soha to each other this situation would not have arisen. In their enthusiasm to protect each other they have inadvertently hurt each other badly.

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Opti

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Posted: 10 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: priyanka3677

I think Nandini ki indifference should do the needful. She will make him walk on coals not literary to gain her trust in the word called love

Saying I hate you without knowing your own or your partners feelings is different as she did in the Episode 98 when Manik Kidnapped her.

But after acknowledging their feelings for each other hearing an I hate you can scarr for life and that for an innocent and Naive girl like Nandini. We should not forget she takes everything on the face value when it comes to Manik.

So she believes that Manik hates her and accepts it as her guilt and today I think she will accept the Expulsion letter because of that as she will feel that When Manik doesn't love her and is not going to forgive what for she should stay here.

Till the time Manik doesn't take an initiative she will not fight for her love. You cannot fight an already lost battle.

Hope both Manik and Nandini have a proper communication, willing to listen to the other's perspective and resolve their issues rather than hold on to their respective stance.

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