Sandhya's kidney donation, wrong?

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Why so many of us are frustrated here is not because Sandhya donated her kidney to Bhabo - it is not the act that we are against , we are against the CVs for showing this KD at time of separation

it this KD is a separate track by itself, like suppose in future Suraj/Sandhya living happy life, Bhabo got sick and needed a kidney, they tried their best to have donor and did not succeed and doctors said no other option except kidney transplant, like always Sandhya was the only one(still could not understand how she can be the only match but take it since it is drama), then no one would feel bad about KD because anyone will do that to save their loved ones - no need of secret

here it is the circumstances that CVs created and showing Sandhya sacrifice - writers can write any emotional dialogues for Sandhya to justify her act but the timing in the show is wrong -

immediately after HJ, Suraj separation from her - lot of us will look at this as why KD? for what purpose does it serve in the show? to show Sandhya is selfless person? who do not agree to that? why keeping this secret? which is wrong no matter what? if not telling Surj in the park, she could have told when they were in the resort?

that is why this KD is not very well thought - All I care Sandhya can give her kidney to Daisa since she is so selfless - why stop at giving to Bhabo

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Loveleen Brar

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Posted: 11 years ago

#12

@GovindaGovinda

I understand and all I am saying and have been saying is in defense of the act itself as I have been reading posts that are against the act itself.

I get that it was just a jumble in the show with so much being piled onto SurYa, but I am just saying that if the CVS decided to introduce this track then Sandhya being the donor is not wrong.

What I am against is the posts that are saying that Sandhya didn't trust Suraj by donating her kidney or that Sandhya doesn't love Suraj. Bhabho doesn't deserve to live, Sandhya shouldn't have ruined her career for Bhabho, and these types of things that are so selfish and harsh just made me confused as to how someone can think like this.

Besides this, sure Sandhya shouldn't have been placed in this situation by the creatives in which she had to spoil all the hard work Suraj and she had put into her dream.

My post is aimed at helping everyone consider that if everything that is happening was essential (as is being projected) then Sandhya is not wrong.

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HalleNJ

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: loveleen12
@GovindaGovinda
I understand and all I am saying and have been saying is in defense of the act itself as I have been reading posts that are against the act itself.

I get that it was just a jumble in the show with so much being piled onto SurYa, but I am just saying that if the CVS decided to introduce this track then Sandhya being the donor is not wrong.

What I am against is the posts that are saying that Sandhya didn't trust Suraj by donating her kidney or that Sandhya doesn't love Suraj. Bhabho doesn't deserve to live, Sandhya shouldn't have ruined her career for Bhabho, and these types of things that are so selfish and harsh just made me confused as to how someone can think like this.

Besides this, sure Sandhya shouldn't have been placed in this situation by the creatives in which she had to spoil all the hard work Suraj and she had put into her dream.

My post is aimed at helping everyone consider that if everything that is happening was essential (as is being projected) then Sandhya is not wrong.

@bold: loveleen, you are talking from human emotion pov, i really appreciate that...

but what i feel is, Sandy didnt trust suraj, she is hiding KD from him that too in a very bad way...yes she loves him, but she loves bhabo more...yes, there is no rule that a dil should not love mil more than hubby...but maybe it's me who dont like it...

bhabo deserves to live, but is this appropriate in this context, in the expense of sandy losing her career, her future and with suraj feeling guilty. She could have survived with dialysis till a donor is found...also suraj can constantly speak to her soul...so she wont die easily 😆

organ donation is not an obligation, it's a choice. If we disagree to it, that doesnt make one a selfish person...I would have appreciated sandy donating her heart or kidney to a child who is not related to her, but not bhabo...coz the Cvs has spoiled the concept of the show where an own family becoming hindrance to career of a woman and husband feeling guilty rest of his life...

Edited by niruba - 11 years ago

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Loveleen Brar

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Posted: 11 years ago

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@Niruba

Thanks for understanding:) It is hard, I guess to find a balance between the two ideas when neither one is completely right or wrong. See maybe it is just me who doesn't see that Sandhya loves Bhabho more and so I don't get what everyone is saying. In a way by loving Bhabho this much, Sandhya is loving Suraj.

And also just because it is a loved one, it still can be a very hard decision to make to sacrifice your career. And it shows that Sandhya doesn't consider her family a hindrance.

Not saying that the person who chooses not to be a donor is selfish, but the person who does become a donor when it could alter their life greatly is definitely selfless and that is what God wants us to be.

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kavmuks

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Posted: 11 years ago

#15

I think they can't keep going showing Sandhya doing heroic acts and want to keep it only within the home Devrani - Jethani show.. so they did this. :)

Once Sandhya became IPS .. the very idea of show was over.. so now they have feed something crap to the audience..