Pritam is delusional... - Page 7

Originally posted by: Sanguinesal

<font size="3" face="Calibri">@Born2read Pritam comes across as most opportunist and detached contestant. I am not convinced that he is the "feeling guy." For all it was seen he very easily severed his association with Puneet after his wife's feedback. Moreover in depth psychoanalysis based on 45 mins edit is bound to be flawed. You say he does not think of the consequences but as a viewer I always felt he showed signs of a schemer and he takes planned decision. Moreover u are again making a judgment that he may have faced a rough patch in adulthood. Just like in ur other thread where u claimed Gautam shows extreme narcissism and may have traumatic childhood. Even when narcissism is not related to traumatic childhood. Its cause is unknown and may result from over pampering than any neglect. Btw more confusing was ur claim that Gautam should not win as it may precipitate crisis. That just negates any unbiased opinion from u. Which is not a problem as most of us are biased here. But using psychology to claim that some of the contestants should not participate or win ( u have mentioned this before) sounds disconcerting.</font>

Yeah, I also felt BornToRead was very slyly trying to exonerate Paltimans Behavior of Palti Maaroing and murky stand taking. He denied it of course, touting academics. 😆

Let's see what results my other questions bring forth. 😉

Dear Picasso and Sanguinesal,

Ill try to respond to your queries,

1 - I will still reiterate that, in light of my understanding and training, Mr. Singh's default mode of decision making is Feeling. This is based on my observation of his behavior over the last 4 months, which I would admit is not enough time. But Bigg Boss does give you a good opportunity to consistently observe things unlike real life. I will however say that you may and can disagree with me. Your analysis may be rooted in your experiences and you are welcome to your opinion.

2 - I would like to challenge your assumption that Thinking mode is intrinsically bad and Feeling is intrinsically right. They are just modes of deciosn making. There is no value judgement to it. Feelers can be emotionally manipulative and Thinkers can be very perceptive.

3 - Behavior is more dynamic and mercurial as compared to personality traits. Traits keep stable over a period of time. Behavior however can be learned and unlearned with practice. Once you have learned and inculcated a new behavior, it then becomes unconscious. For example, when you are learning to drive a car, you are very aware and conscious of your actions. However after achieving mastery, it becomes unconscious. So in other words, actions / behavior is both a conscious and unconscious choice.

4 - This thread does not address the person of Mr. Gulati, but I stand by my analysis. I also think that Bigg Boss is very taxing psychologically. All the participants have shown signs of lowered psychological resilience and stress. Some more than others. This can be damaging in long term. And the responsibility of psychological well being lies with the creators. A person who shows signs of low resilence should not be exposed to unnecessary stress.

5 - As far as I am concerned, I am neither based in India nor really in tune with the evolving social structures. For me Bigg Boss and Big Brother are academic interests. I would not like to align my self with one contestant or the other. It is not in line with my academic ethics and training. I try to be as neutral as possible. My sole intention is to talk about the psychological makeup of contestants. If you think its an effort to slyly change opinion, frankly it can't be done through random posts on India Forums.

Take care.

Originally posted by: BorntoRead

4 - This thread does not address the person of Mr. Gulati, but I stand by my analysis. I also think that Bigg Boss is very taxing psychologically. All the participants have shown signs of lowered psychological resilience and stress. Some more than others. This can be damaging in long term. And the responsibility of psychological well being lies with the creators. A person who shows signs of low resilence should not be exposed to unnecessary stress.

5 - As far as I am concerned, I am neither based in India nor really in tune with the evolving social structures. For me Bigg Boss and Big Brother are academic interests. I would not like to align my self with one contestant or the other. It is not in line with my academic ethics and training. I try to be as neutral as possible. My sole intention is to talk about the psychological makeup of contestants. If you think its an effort to slyly change opinion, frankly it can't be done through random posts on India Forums.

Take care.

@Born2read Ur posts are interesting to read as they are written with unique perspective.

I understand when u say u are not well versed with the social structures as u do not reside in India. It's the same with many of us who are nonresidents and visit forum due to our common interest in BBoss. For some of us its pure entertainment and for u as u say it is ur academic interest. Ur interest is evident by ur detailed psychoanalysis on contestants. However u cannot say u are making just some random posts when u have actually diagnosed contestants and have also claimed their winning may lead to grave personal failings. It is then only natural that some of us may question ur findings and challenge u for better explanations.

I brought ur previous posts on Gautam here only because I felt u would not mind since academic interest/neutral opinion is your priority. Moreover since this thread pertains to ranking any contestant in BBoss can be discussed. That is fine u want to stand by your analysis. But on the basis of my understanding in Psychiatry I will maintain ur information on narcissism was misleading and a misdiagnosis.

Hopefully this might interest u. BBoss had invited a psychiatrist Dr. Sawant on the show. His comments on Gautam is on official website and u may refer to it and I quote ""Gautam has always maintained a flamboyant image in the house and he is care free person. He doesn't plan things and for this reason his behavior comes as shocker for others." Further the Doctor added, "Gautam ko aisa nahi lagta ki wo dusron se bada hai,yeh sabki galatfehmi hai." Meaning to say he doesn't have a superiority complex; his flamboyant, nonchalant attitude results in misunderstanding.

Originally posted by: -Hadia-

Pritam has lost the chances for being the BB fixed winnerThanks to his Dirty game and double dholki behaviour 😭 Poor pritam Sacha acha chota shehar ka admi image has gone down the dumps 😭 😉 Now not even bb can fix him as the winner after the blunders he had made in the show 🥳

Pritam soo much into game all the time

Originally posted by: BorntoRead

Dear Picasso and Sanguinesal,

Ill try to respond to your queries,

1 - I will still reiterate that, in light of my understanding and training, Mr. Singh's default mode of decision making is Feeling. This is based on my observation of his behavior over the last 4 months, which I would admit is not enough time. But Bigg Boss does give you a good opportunity to consistently observe things unlike real life. I will however say that you may and can disagree with me. Your analysis may be rooted in your experiences and you are welcome to your opinion.

2 - I would like to challenge your assumption that Thinking mode is intrinsically bad and Feeling is intrinsically right. They are just modes of deciosn making. There is no value judgement to it. Feelers can be emotionally manipulative and Thinkers can be very perceptive.

3 - Behavior is more dynamic and mercurial as compared to personality traits. Traits keep stable over a period of time. Behavior however can be learned and unlearned with practice. Once you have learned and inculcated a new behavior, it then becomes unconscious. For example, when you are learning to drive a car, you are very aware and conscious of your actions. However after achieving mastery, it becomes unconscious. So in other words, actions / behavior is both a conscious and unconscious choice.

4 - This thread does not address the person of Mr. Gulati, but I stand by my analysis. I also think that Bigg Boss is very taxing psychologically. All the participants have shown signs of lowered psychological resilience and stress. Some more than others. This can be damaging in long term. And the responsibility of psychological well being lies with the creators. A person who shows signs of low resilence should not be exposed to unnecessary stress.

5 - As far as I am concerned, I am neither based in India nor really in tune with the evolving social structures. For me Bigg Boss and Big Brother are academic interests. I would not like to align my self with one contestant or the other. It is not in line with my academic ethics and training. I try to be as neutral as possible. My sole intention is to talk about the psychological makeup of contestants. If you think its an effort to slyly change opinion, frankly it can't be done through random posts on India Forums.

Take care.