the journey of a Child Bride to 'Young' Widow - Page 3

Hi All,
Thanks so much for the replies.Due to time Zone difference, could not reply back. If they have to end Shiv's character,
1. Because of the non availability of the actor/the actor felt bored/actor is not willing to play the father of 3 kids, they should have gone for replacement. They had replaced Anandi, Ganga twice and so why not Shiv. Anyway Sid's fans (one who see BV only for Sid, no offense here, hope it is taken in the right spirit) would not see BV after Shiv's death. They could have replaced him.
2. If they say, the actor needs a break, the could have either transferred him on a secret mission or some important tasks to Delhi(anything can happen in BV land) and could have brought him back while they can show that they are conversing over phone/SMS...
3. The thing that I could not even buy is that, Shiv was never a original character in the show. This was P's mother's life and in that there is no Shiv. Please, ...If they wanted to sshow Shiv as a cameo, why the magical entry. I could not even recollect, how many times I would have seen the entry scene, especially, the scene where he opens the door and step his head out and removes his glasses. If they wanted him as a cameo, I could recollect all the channels saying "Another man in Anandi's life". In the 1000th episode, when somebody was questioning Anup Soni about Dadisa, he told them that she had gone to search a suitable groom for Anandi and he said, "Maasa do not worry. We have one here".So, they had decided that hw would be the man in Anandi's life.
If they had not, they could have shown him as just a friend of Anandi, who supported her, cared for her, make her realise what a gem is she, the support system whom she could share her internal fears, but as a friend. His job should have been to elevate her and then they could have shown him transfered(leaving us viewers in the hope that atleast one day or the other they would propose or not/will their friendship be ever lasting). Why did they bring him as her husband?
Also, there will be always an inspiration for a person to write a story - mother, father, circumstances, people he sees in life, situations...but it need not be the same, where they could narrate the whole real story. There are lot of films based on the epics, life history of people, but do they depict their whole life or do they end exactly the same way as is the real life, unless and until it is an bography? If Shiv is not there in real life, if they had introduced Shiv, they could have changed the story to suit accordingly. Why to show Anandi as a widow now?
4. Logically Shiv's character has come to an end...Hows that possible? They could have transferred Shiv to some metro areas like Mumbai, Gave Anandi a little makeover. They could have show how they are managing with their kids. Could have shown corruption, trafficking,terrorism, all the other problems that urban women face in their lives, connect Anandi on the women problems and Shiv fighting over problems, officially.

I have stopped watching it on 14th Jan. The last scene was Shiv touching their unborn babies and felt the kick. I did not have the guts to watch further. If shiv has said, Anandi should unite the family again, then I think, they can go easily for another one year, Anandi adjusting for people, hearing all the grunts and blames and crying and feeling lonely...The things/tortures she did not undergo through Dadisa, will continue. Sorry this was not the Anandi, I wanted to see. Again, they will get back to their kitchen poilitics, make her go through the fire to prove her once again, then she will come out(?)and spread...(Will it happen...?).Sorry, as I said in my previous post, let me satisfy myself that Anandi and Shiv with their kids lived happily ever after, like in fairy tales.

A very good post @Nitsrik.
On point 4, by logical standards, story of all the leads had come to a beautiful end. So why not just end BV on a happy note.

Originally posted by: tellygeek

A very good post @Nitsrik.
On point 4, by logical standards, story of all the leads had come to a beautiful end. So why not just end BV on a happy note.

Really, even they can show their career growth, I think apart from that, there is no story left in the case of all the leads. This was what I wrote in the post "Want happy ending fo Ansh"
My Ending for BV would be;

If I would be given an opportunity to write the end portions of BV, I would have ended BV in the following way.

Anandi would witness the terrorist attack in Udaipur. She as a Collector's wife would accompany Shiv to the hospital where people are wounded. She would see lot of women suffering the loss of their husbands, with and without kids which would move her. She would be disturbed by this and would discuss with chotima and chotima would also share her feeling, how she felt , what insecurities did she undergo and how she had composed herself - this would lead anandi to spread the NGOs wing to help the widows and their children whose husband had died/ to help widows who want to study and work and start their life afresh. She would not limit herself in Udaipur but also travel to various places where she encounter lots of people and inspire them to start their life . The whole family supports her in this cause. She gives birth to their twins and still works on the mission with both of her MILS supporting her.

After some months leap, they show anandi being successful in her cause and her NGO has branches in 4/5 major cities. Anandi is shown leading a very busy life attending to Shiv, her kids, amol and also her NGO. Anandi is being awarded, Award for the Empowerment of Women. On the day of receiving the award, Anandi is being readied by Ira and her memories goes back to the date when she was getting readied by Sumitra for getting the award. When she gets into the car , she remembers getting herself in the chariot in jeitsar. Shiv and anadi are there in one car with their two kids sleeoing on each of their laps peacefully. Anandi reminiscences the incidents that led her to meeting with shiv and the incidents thereafter. She blissfully feels that she is happy and content with what she is. In presence of Bhairon, Sumitra, Dadisa , Khajan and her family memebres, she receives her award. Slowly each and every person remembers her part of life - from where she was and where she has come now. They all feel happy and proud. After receiving the award she is asked to give the speech. She starts with reciting a poem, which she had receited when she was a child bride in school, and while getting the award from CM. She tells the crowd how far she has come in life and how Shiv had been the wind beneath her wings and she dedicates the award to shiv and her kids. Shiv and Anandi with their kids receiving the Award and with a happy family picture clicking, ends BV.

If they want Jagya's story to move forward too, please make him fight for good causes like empowerment of Jaitsar. Let Jaitsar be 100% literate, 0% crime free and drug free zone and they can handle engineering and medical college, factories and 100% employment - Let Jagya change and fight for empowering Jaitsar and probably he can also be awarded.

Let anandi and jagya meet each other at the award function and can share some memoies among them and thank each other for making each other successful in some way or the other. Let them also share some nice words about their parteners and how their life would be incomplete without them. Let the viewers have a happy picture if both the families.

This would have been the inspiring story of a child bride, is what I feel. If they show Anandi being a widow, struggling again in her life, I do not feel anandi will be complete. Is anandi's life always full of struggles? God is not that much bad to give all the sufferings to single person. Our lives are not always like that. Ups and downs are part of everybody's lives but there are seasons where we are happy and contented too. Let Anandi enjoy the contentment now and if they want to provide problems in ANandi's life let it be in version 2.0, where Ansh are dealing with the kids, their education, peer pressure, slowly bad companies in school...

Not only tragedies, but happiness also strike a chord with people, else DDLJ would not have been liked that much by people as Aashqui 2/Devdas. People really want/like the protoganist to conquer fear, come out of the shell and be victorious and not being vicotoriously outside and feeling sad inside.

Originally posted by: nitsrik

Really, even they can show their career growth, I think apart from that, there is no story left in the case of all the leads. This was what I wrote in the post "Want happy ending fo Ansh"
My Ending for BV would be;

If I would be given an opportunity to write the end portions
of BV, I would have ended BV in the following way.

Anandi would witness the terrorist attack in Udaipur. She as
a Collector's wife would accompany Shiv to the hospital where people are
wounded. She would see lot of women suffering the loss of their husbands, with
and without kids which would move her. She would be disturbed by this and would
discuss with chotima and chotima would also share her feeling, how she felt ,
what insecurities did she undergo and how she had composed herself - this would lead anandi
to spread the NGOs wing to help the widows and their children whose husband had
died/ to help widows who want to study and work and start their life afresh. She
would not limit herself in Udaipur but also travel to various places where she
encounter lots of people and inspire them to start their life . The whole
family supports her in this cause. She gives birth to their twins and still
works on the mission with both of her MILS supporting her.

After some months leap, they show anandi being successful in
her cause and her NGO has branches in 4/5 major cities. Anandi is shown leading
a very busy life attending to Shiv, her kids, amol and also her NGO. Anandi is being
awarded, Award for the Empowerment of Women. On the day of receiving the award,
Anandi is being readied by Ira and her memories goes back to the date when she
was getting readied by Sumitra for getting the award. When she gets into the
car , she remembers getting herself in the chariot in jeitsar. Shiv and anadi
are there in one car with their two kids sleeoing on each of their laps
peacefully. Anandi reminiscences the incidents that led her to meeting with
shiv and the incidents thereafter. She blissfully feels that she is happy and
content with what she is. In presence of Bhairon, Sumitra, Dadisa , Khajan and
her family memebres, she receives her award. Slowly each and every person
remembers her part of life - from where she was and where she has come now.
They all feel happy and proud. After receiving the award she is asked to give
the speech. She starts with reciting a poem, which she had receited when she
was a child bride in school, and while getting the award from CM. She tells the
crowd how far she has come in life and how Shiv had been the wind beneath her
wings and she dedicates the award to shiv and her kids. Shiv and Anandi with
their kids receiving the Award and with a happy family picture clicking, ends
BV.

If they want Jagya's story to move forward too, please make
him fight for good causes like empowerment of Jaitsar. Let Jaitsar be 100%
literate, 0% crime free and drug free zone and they can handle engineering and medical
college, factories and 100% employment - Let Jagya change and fight for
empowering Jaitsar and probably he can also be awarded.

Let anandi and jagya meet each other at the award function
and can share some memoies among them and thank each other for making each
other successful in some way or the other. Let them also share some nice words
about their parteners and how their life would be incomplete without them. Let
the viewers have a happy picture if both the families.

This would have been the inspiring story of a child bride,
is what I feel. If they show Anandi being a widow, struggling again in her
life, I do not feel anandi will be complete. Is anandi's life always full of
struggles? God is not that much bad to give all the sufferings to single
person. Our lives are not always like that. Ups and downs are part of everybody's
lives but there are seasons where we are happy and contented too. Let Anandi
enjoy the contentment now and if they want to provide problems in ANandi's life
let it be in version 2.0, where Ansh are dealing with the kids, their education,
peer pressure, slowly bad companies in school...

Not only tragedies, but happiness also strike a chord with
people, else DDLJ would not have been liked that much by people as Aashqui 2/Devdas.
People really want/like the protoganist to conquer fear, come out of the shell
and be victorious and not being vicotoriously outside and feeling sad inside.

i really loved this ansh track
but now everything is over