IDEAL Women

Guys, I am feeling very angry, disappointed and disgusted with everything being shown on hindi tv serials, including this one...I have not lived in India, so, I am learning about India from these tv serials, and it saddens me that such is the mentality of educated class of india who are making these serials...what i learned from YHM:

I agree manhandling issue was wrong n CVs went overboard but sometimes women do forgive for their husband's mistakes. What happens between man n wife stays with them, physical intimacy is an extremely personal matter which will differ for different couples. N for that matter Raman didnt go further n tried to sexually harrass her or rape her. N he has never after that or even before that forced himself on her - maybe thats y she forgave him coz she knew it wasspur of the moment.

Originally posted by: mnr123

I agree manhandling issue was wrong n CVs went overboard but sometimes women do forgive for their husband's mistakes. What happens between man n wife stays with them, physical intimacy is an extremely personal matter which will differ for different couples. N for that matter Raman didnt go further n tried to sexually harrass her or rape her. N he has never after that or even before that forced himself on her - maybe thats y she forgave him coz she knew it wasspur of the moment.

Ishita I think lets go of verbal abuse coming out of Raman coz she knows maybe that Raman says any BS when he is angry. Sometimes she chooses to answer him back sometimes not.

I think she must not say sorry to Adi coz she is not at fault here. But maybe she will say so that Bhallas n Adi is happy.

I m more irked with CVs showcasing women marrying their molestors or women not registering police complaint against molestors or Ishita not understanding Shagun's sly games n giving her dress or earrings which is a token of love from her husband. if they make Ishita say sorry to Adi coz Bhallas n Raman cant live without their Ghar ka Chirag then it showcases weak portrayal of women n women being played at hands of in laws n hysband for no fault of theirs.

The above is just my POV about marriage equations, womanhood etc, we all can agree to disagree. 😳

Originally posted by: mnr123

I agree manhandling issue was wrong n CVs went overboard but sometimes women do forgive for their husband's mistakes. What happens between man n wife stays with them, physical intimacy is an extremely personal matter which will differ for different couples. N for that matter Raman didnt go further n tried to sexually harrass her or rape her. N he has never after that or even before that forced himself on her - maybe thats y she forgave him coz she knew it wasspur of the moment.

Ishita I think lets go of verbal abuse coming out of Raman coz she knows maybe that Raman says any BS when he is angry. Sometimes she chooses to answer him back sometimes not.

I think she must not say sorry to Adi coz she is not at fault here. But maybe she will say so that Bhallas n Adi is happy.

I m more irked with CVs showcasing women marrying their molestors or women not registering police complaint against molestors or Ishita not understanding Shagun's sly games n giving her dress or earrings which is a token of love from her husband. if they make Ishita say sorry to Adi coz Bhallas n Raman cant live without their Ghar ka Chirag then it showcases weak portrayal of women n women being played at hands of in laws n hysband for no fault of theirs.

The above is just my POV about marriage equations, womanhood etc, we all can agree to disagree. 😳

The one thing thats the most problematic with YHM is that when raman is angry, the writers forget every ounce of character development they had built towards Raman. In order for Ishita to stay in the Bhalla house happily is if she never angers Raman and never touches her individuality. For heavens sake she is damn doctor who handles her household perfectly. As far as we know there has never been a complaint where the Bhallas have been upset with Ishita for spending too much time in her office rather than at her house. I just hate the fact that Ishita is never cared for personally, but only when it comes to being a mother, wife and a daughter-in-law. People always talk about how Ishita is not your typical bahu but her identity has always revolved around her being a perfect Ishima or a Punjabi bahu. We've never had any scope of Ishita on her being a doctor, But how many times has Raman given the CEO title? I mean how many times has this title come into play when explaining his actions? He was literally awarded for it. Can we also celebrate Ishita's accomplishments or does that only happen when she balances everything in her life with no room for mistakes whatsoever?

Originally posted by: music_l0ver036

The one thing thats the most problematic with YHM is that when raman is angry, the writers forget every ounce of character development they had built towards Raman. In order for Ishita to stay in the Bhalla house happily is if she never angers Raman and never touches her individuality. For heavens sake she is damn doctor who handles her household perfectly. As far as we know there has never been a complaint where the Bhallas have been upset with Ishita for spending too much time in her office rather than at her house. I just hate the fact that Ishita is never cared for personally, but only when it comes to being a mother, wife and a daughter-in-law. People always talk about how Ishita is not your typical bahu but her identity has always revolved around her being a perfect Ishima or a Punjabi bahu. We've never had any scope of Ishita on her being a doctor, But how many times has Raman given the CEO title? I mean how many times has this title come into play when explaining his actions? He was literally awarded for it. Can we also celebrate Ishita's accomplishments or does that only happen when she balances everything in her life with no room for mistakes whatsoever?

Originally posted by: Lekz

I dont think what they show is a even half a reflection of the Indian society.

Some of the stuff are so regressive that its beyond comprehension.

Please do not form opinions based on what you see on TV.

However rural India still reels under male chauvinism and illiterate woman falling prey to age old traditions and beliefs, tailor made to suit male ego.

Urban India has changed a lot in fact I would say the women have moved to the next century educated and financially independent. They do have a choice to live or let go if situation so arises.

Men are yet to get there, guess that will also happen as they do not stand a choice.

They are still caught in between benevolence of their mothers and the no sense stance from their partners...

Strictly my opinion though.