whats the big deal? - Page 3

Originally posted by: MERARAI

What's with Indian dramas where the heroine seems to have all the answers to every problem under the sun? Madhu and Vandu had to recently warn her and give her a piece of their minds. Btw, the idea of someone being responsible for other people's happiness sounds good but realistically doesn't pan out, she has no control over the state of happiness or misery of anyone in the family especially Raman.

Ishita is a magnet for attracting trouble into her life. She goes out of her way to bring Shagun/Adi into the Bhalla house. What was the big deal about it? It's not like Adi and Shagun couldn't have stayed near by and Raman visit his son frequently. Adi is used to living away from Raman and he's been in Shagun's care. Unless of course she wants to keep Shagun within her radar so she doesn't try to get her paws into Raman. But that would question how much she trusts her husband.

While trying to make everyone happy Ishita seems to have forgotten the very person who was the catalyst in her life...Ruhi...did she even consider the anxiety the little girl was going through until she voiced it?

i agree with your 4 th point... its high tym thy shld realise audience are nt fools nd woman to hav equal rights... vo abla nari nahi hain...

Originally posted by: drishtimaurya

I agree to all ur points. I thought the fight looked like what happens between any husband and wife. And here both of them said hurtful things to the other- Raman called Ishita dumb in front of Shagun, and Ishita talked about his bitter past so menancingly in front of Shagun. The topic of the fight wasnt that intense an issue to create such a big fight, but the Cvs wanted Shagun to witness them fight so they decided to make an issue out of nothing. In matter of Mihir though, Raman is absolutely right, he made a mistake once and doesnt want Mihir to live the same hell. Ishita had been thru heartbreak as well, didnt she say that it was her family who helped her with it? And her work? Then why is she asking him to run away?

Today the fight was bearable, the actual butchering of Raman's character will start from next episode when he'll shout without reason.

Originally posted by: GanBarunFan

So are you trying to tell me that Raman is so dense he has no capability of independent thinking that Ishita gives him illusion and he buys into it? That to me , as a Raman fan , will be the biggest butchering of Raman Bhalla's character sketch.. He has always been shown to be a guy who is very intuitive.. He gets stuff without it being obvious... What Ishita hid from Raman is the fact that Adi hates her... Because she doesn't want to come in the way of Raman's bonding with Adi, which by the way is happening.. Is not an illusion that Ishita is creating.. She has taken a back step about Adi and Raman has observed that too... ... That's within her character sketch... But Raman being insensitive to Ishita's feelings.. Is not Raman's character sketch.

See, it's not about him being "dense" or devoid of " the capability of independent thinking". It's about Ishita not sharing a fact that very well will change the whole current equation and the fact that Ishita knowing and realizing it thoroughly. Even for the sake of argument, if we assume that that makes him dense, it's no big deal...iske liye the great RKB ki shaan mai koyi gustakhi nahi ho jayega. Everyone's vulnerable when it comes to facing his/her weakest point. And, great RKB did get fooled by Ishita's buckets of white lies during Mani track as well Ashok's manipulation during Ruhi DNA track. I think it makes him human and real that we can easily relate to.

As far as Ishita's false hopes are concerned, it's undeniable that she knows Adi hates her to the core and his love towards his father is a conditional one that excludes her. She very well knows she and Adi are not possible in a fame of life that revolves around Raman. Then what is she waiting for? A miracle? If that doesn't happen, how will she control the irrecoverable damage by then which she has created by instilling a mirage of hope named Adi on Raman? It's hell of a risk which centers around three lives- herself, Raman and most importantly Ruhi. If Ishita would have cut the thread of false hope, Raman would've once again felt the pain of shattered dream but he still could happily live with it. But the storm that is looming around due to this is to much to ask for now.

Well, I agree that the character sketch of Raman is going to be compromised in this track unless Puttar comes up with some last minutes plan . I think CVs wanna restore some sort of balance as Ishita character is heavily butchered since the re-entry of Paramji in Bhalla house.

Originally posted by: AroraTanya

See, it's not about him being "dense" or devoid of " the capability of independent thinking". It's about Ishita not sharing a fact that very well will change the whole current equation and the fact that Ishita knowing and realizing it thoroughly. Even for the sake of argument, if we assume that that makes him dense, it's no big deal...iske liye the great RKB ki shaan mai koyi gustakhi nahi ho jayega. Everyone's vulnerable when it comes to facing his/her weakest point. And, great RKB did get fooled by Ishita's buckets of white lies during Mani track as well Ashok's manipulation during Ruhi DNA track. I think it makes him human and real that we can easily relate to.

As far as Ishita's false hopes are concerned, it's undeniable that she knows Adi hates her to the core and his love towards his father is a conditional one that excludes her. She very well knows she and Adi are not possible in a fame of life that revolves around Raman. Then what is she waiting for? A miracle? If that doesn't happen, how will she control the irrecoverable damage by then which she has created by instilling a mirage of hope named Adi on Raman? It's hell of a risk which centers around three lives- herself, Raman and most importantly Ruhi. If Ishita would have cut the thread of false hope, Raman would've once again felt the pain of shattered dream but he still could happily live with it. But the storm that is looming around due to this is to much to ask for now.

Well, I agree that the character sketch of Raman is going to be compromised in this track unless Puttar comes up with some last minutes plan . I think CVs wanna restore some sort of balance as Ishita character is heavily butchered since the re-entry of Paramji in Bhalla house.