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Posted: 10 years ago
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Why all keeping mum?
No new postings yet?

Feeling dejected?

Yes I do so.

In the yesterday's events, I felt like not going to see the ADHY here after.

Shoba seems completely changed.She didn't even think Vikram once...no fleeting thoughts???

Even she has decided to quit the job so easily.

Naani is very very correct.Naani-Vikram scene is very touching and who can console his grand son other than naani.

Vikram ,consoling his naani...is he consoling himself?

O My God , the situtation is un bearable

What am I asking is ..iff some thing negativity happens Shoba runs to Vikram for his help?

Otherwise she keeps the distance .

Let the kids be her priority, ..but what about her inner self? Won't it speak to her?

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I think it has been a starking issue that Shobha was just not shown to reflect on what is happening between Vikram and her or with Vikram even after Usha had told her no less clarity that he loved her to bits..
When Shobha came to meet Vikram after visitng Usha...when he held her hands...didnt she feel the truth...

i would have appreciated if they had shown that she saw his love but when he said that she should accept Samarth, realized what he is doing for her by not telling in words what his eyes and touch are telling...and looked at him as a person who loves her but has sacrficed his love for her...

but none of this was shown...she just behaved as if there was nothing in the back of her mind about Vikram's love...that she just came as an employee and he helped as a boss/friend...

that night they should have shown her think about Vikram and his sacrifice...a conflct in her mind about what Usha said that if he stops you, then he loves you...she should have thought that he didnt stop me from joining Samarth...but i dont think he said what was in his heart...does that mean that he loves me...

the subsequent meeting to send off Rehaan was also insipid...no awkwardness ..basically because there was no realizeation from Shobha's side...

how i wish they had showed that...

if they had, it would have truly be a conflicting scenario for her to spend every minute in Vikram's presence...it would never be the same as before after the realization that the other person loves you...

Not sure how they missed thsi big piece in the jigsaw...was it because of fear of showing her sparing a thought about Vikram when Samarth was in the house...but that is the stiuation now...that Samarth is in her house and Vikram in her heart..or until she realizes...she must atleast acknowledge his love for her...and his sacrifice...


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: meeyaa

I think it has been a starking issue that Shobha was just not shown to reflect on what is happening between Vikram and her or with Vikram even after Usha had told her no less clarity that he loved her to bits..

When Shobha came to meet Vikram after visitng Usha...when he held her hands...didnt she feel the truth...

i would have appreciated if they had shown that she saw his love but when he said that she should accept Samarth, realized what he is doing for her by not telling in words what his eyes and touch are telling...and looked at him as a person who loves her but has sacrficed his love for her...

but none of this was shown...she just behaved as if there was nothing in the back of her mind about Vikram's love...that she just came as an employee and he helped as a boss/friend...

that night they should have shown her think about Vikram and his sacrifice...a conflct in her mind about what Usha said that if he stops you, then he loves you...she should have thought that he didnt stop me from joining Samarth...but i dont think he said what was in his heart...does that mean that he loves me...

the subsequent meeting to send off Rehaan was also insipid...no awkwardness ..basically because there was no realizeation from Shobha's side...

how i wish they had showed that...

if they had, it would have truly be a conflicting scenario for her to spend every minute in Vikram's presence...it would never be the same as before after the realization that the other person loves you...

Not sure how they missed thsi big piece in the jigsaw...was it because of fear of showing her sparing a thought about Vikram when Samarth was in the house...but that is the stiuation now...that Samarth is in her house and Vikram in her heart..or until she realizes...she must atleast acknowledge his love for her...and his sacrifice...



Here comes Indian cultural upbringing..Definitely they fear that the masses will oppose their move.
First it was published as an extra marital affair ,then they change it into ADHY.
No body sees it in their mind's eye.It looks so unnatural on Shoba's inertness.

Even in her introspection she thinks of her family but Vilram.

It looks so ajeeb hai na?

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Posted: 10 years ago
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In the introduction to the show, Ekta was saying she wanted to see how the society thinks...but I feel now that it is bland to show Shobha so naive...or even selfish to a certain extent...
a teenager may be so naive...but Shobha...who believes in love...who had truly fallen in love with Samarth...who has 2 children ...who knows the heartbreaks due to affairs...who has been exposed to the truth about the relationships...should be able to know and feel what Vikram is going through...

it is unbelievable that even after Usha's hints she is not seeing what is there ...what she does about it is a different question...but not acknowledging Vikram's love for her and his sacrifice is a big let down for me...


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Posted: 10 years ago
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.what she does about it is a different question...but not acknowledging Vikram's love for her and his sacrifice is a big let down for me...

That is what I want to convey.By all means she should have the intution to understand Vikram's mind

It is not the carelessness of CV writers, but they want it to go in a different direction
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Posted: 10 years ago
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As a viewer I feel disconnected to shobha and her sacrifice and trials and turmoil for the basic reason she seems to not value the person who has done so much for her after her husband went to jail. Each and every scene that has followed after fridays episode irritates me more making me immune to whatever she shall face henceforth at the hands of her beloved family
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Posted: 10 years ago
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To me after what I see from Shobha's POV she is going to be in a mess!! Samarth is a very cunning guy he is extremely manipulative & he will make eveey attempt to take Shobha into confidence , Shobha for her family is everything even her MIL made it clear so ahe will be back to where ahe started no freedom indepdencence & sadly Vikram cannot help her even as a good friend which I doubt will exist.. She cannot feel anything else other than her desication to her family and another man a good amazing soulful person is out of question. I feel Vikram is too selfless and in reality its non existant he thinks she is very happy and his love is her happiness Is Shobha happy ?? She seem jailed again well if this what Shobha sees for herself her kids & her phase of happiness well Vikram this is what u will get by loving Shobha!!

Unless she Shobha keeps her foundation intact she knows her vision as of a freedom of knowing what she does for herself also apart from family she is caged!!Also samarth being poticially cunning for his own needs he is back he will lie & force Shobha to lie about their relationship is she confortable with that ?? Is her heart willing to accept for the sake of family & to make samarth repair his image which he himaeld apoiled!! She gave a false statement in court for the sake of the custody of kids now for her famiky incl hisband if she meets the press as per article she was missing if needed to talk abt hers and samarth will she say all is fine she again ready to become his arm candy!!

Vikram may feel happiness in his love for Shobha selfless love is shobha happy herself ?? She is sacrificing her happiness to be caged again ??

Only every episode will tell her state again will she do it herself fight
Out the web she is in well she has to noone can help her unless she asks & her ties with Vikram may have been sealed forever as she decides to take her turn back for jiyu & rehaan..

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