Why Cant They Be Normal??? - Page 9

Originally posted by: wardahere

@ Kavya, I disagree with you. Even though we have moved ahead in life there are girls who still value the old style romance. I mean Mumbia or US, I believe that old style romance is still alive in a lot of us. I live in US, was born and brought up here and I believe in the old romance. I think the girl blushing and the guy in-spite of all trying to kiss her.

Originally posted by: kavya.b

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U got me wrong or may be i was not clear enough earlier

7-8 yrs part...i meant on screen, that too i wasn't talking girls not blushing

what i wanted to say, things changed...but i never said, ppl moved on from old romance

the point is, they both exist...what has changed is showing them on-screen explicitly and audience accepting it

the era of no-touchings, no-kissing...only talking and fighting allowed is gone...that's all i meant

TM was talking about 'why romance?'

and frankly, i don't believe that romance is old or new

Originally posted by: KreyaArshiLover

Sometimes one touch can do which words can never do. Touching kissing is normal in a relationship if not then their is something wrong with that couple.

Hugging and Kissing needs to be their. Atleast lots of touching if not kissing but lots of touching. Hugs, handhold and etc..etc.etc

And he comes the best part I have never had a Boyfriend all my life!! Not even one.😆

Originally posted by: Noorie30

@ Thread maker, i am genuinely interested to know ( And I am truly sincere)

Primo: are you from India?
Secondo : How old are you?
Terzio: What is your definition of Normal?

Hope you answer me😳

Originally posted by: Muggle_Diaries

Interesting discussion...😃

And I am butting my nose a bit here and tell my pov...

Lets talk about real life and forget about reel life for now.I have been in a relationship in college as a teenager (I was 19 yrs at that time) and now have been married to the same person. As the time progresses the intimacy only grows. So I can safely say that I am experienced in the matter of love and intimacy...😉

What is normal and who defines it? No one should, apart from the couple themselves. If they want to spend the initial few years or months of their relationship holding only hands and doing eye locks...entirely up to them. Or if they want to jump right into the physical relationship, again right up to them. Physical relationship will be always part of a romantic love, I am not saying that is the only thing there is to a relationship, but it is a big part... As long as one person is not forcing the other person (this becomes abuse), is it entirely up to their comfort level.

Now coming to the reel life a.k.a. tv serials... they are only catching up to the real life now... all these days it was a fantasy land.. 😆 Come on, even the married couple shy away from each other...how is that? and who makes love in the dark...😕 that's what they show in the other serials...

And TV serials some times glorify an abusive relationship as the most intense, romantic relationship ever! Now that is abnormal. That should never be shown. They don't kiss, but the guys abuses the girl and still call it "love"!

I would rather see a couple exploring the physical aspect of their love in a healthy way and also build their emotional intimacy along the way...

Okay...I said too much...😳

Love

MD