Is it not too early to propose love

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Is it not too early to propose love?
Shoba has not yet got divorce.

Of course they feel comfortable with each other,
she touching his hand for checking fever,
accepting his coat .
All are OK.
But she does not seem to understand his strange behaviour towards her.

He was always a terror to people around him,
such a person has changed completely,
pampering and petting her.

Doesn't she see the change in him?

Does she think it is mere friendship?

Oh,still now as naani said she hasn't spoken to her heart

She has definitely developed some feeling apart from friendship,
but her present situation, namely Sarika and Samrath
do not allow her to probe into inner self

It needs some catalytic events to have the chemical reaction between Vibha.

So if he proposes now, the reaction may be opposite.Why can't he wait?



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Posted: 10 years ago
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I think Vikram wants to say his heart out. Thats fine. Well he has every right to I feel its the best for him to say whats in his heart.. If the other person rejects or says that I never saw you in that sense well donno know , but aleast Vikram wanted to tell Shobha how he feels & feels happy about it.

She has already signed the dotted line for her divorce , she has broken ties official seal is awaited , she claims yo have moved on, her feelings for Vikram is still not clear does she feel the way he feels well only Shobha can answer.

I am happy for Vikram that guy needs hapiness he also says that he had lost the feel of love & if he feels this is hapiness and feels it from his heart he has grown to admire her over the 6 months & she has changed many of his behaviors for the better & he feels better and he keeps great foundation that I am sure things will be good for him.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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There is no right and wrong time to express your love to the one person you want them to know about your feelings.

It does not matter if she is divorced officially from Samarth. She has already separated. There is a bandhan (of friendship, loyalty, bonding over kids) between them and he wants to take all of this to the next level.

Marriage is another thing. This would have to wait depending on Shobha's response and her official divorce.

Secondly read about Samarth coming back. This is so required, because Shobha has to take that decision of saying NO to a changed (maybe) Samarth.

Shobha has to ask herself, does she want to go back to a man who cheated on her and the country, forgive and go back? Or she will listen to her heart and say NO to her ex-husband.

All this time Shobha was the one pleading with Samarth to give their marriage a second chance. And he pushed the divorce on her. Now it will be Samarth running after her.

She has to decide whether she wants to be his doormat wife once again. Or have the courage to reject him and move on. Its a very tough decision as kids are involved. And the crux of the story of ADHY.


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Vikram for the present is totally following his guardian angel's advice.😃 He was thinking she is wearing purple, dont know whether it is light or dark.☺️ His admission of love to Shobha is on naani's insistence.🤔 In fact if Vikram had no advice on this , he would not have been in such a hurry to propose.🤔
Naani is on some other planet altogether.😆 She has made dates ready for marriage and is also talking of honeydates schedule too.😲 She does not believe in wasting time.😆😎
Thanks to Shobha's sneezes the proposals did not go beyond I love ❤️
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: ddsoaps

There is no right and wrong time to express your love to the one person you want them to know about your feelings.

It does not matter if she is divorced officially from Samarth. She has already separated. There is a bandhan (of friendship, loyalty, bonding over kids) between them and he wants to take all of this to the next level.

Marriage is another thing. This would have to wait depending on Shobha's response and her official divorce.

Secondly read about Samarth coming back. This is so required, because Shobha has to take that decision of saying NO to a changed (maybe) Samarth.

Shobha has to ask herself, does she want to go back to a man who cheated on her and the country, forgive and go back? Or she will listen to her heart and say NO to her ex-husband.

All this time Shobha was the one pleading with Samarth to give their marriage a second chance. And he pushed the divorce on her. Now it will be Samarth running after her.

She has to decide whether she wants to be his doormat wife once again. Or have the courage to reject him and move on. Its a very tough decision as kids are involved. And the crux of the story of ADHY.



What you have said

There is no right and wrong time to express your love to the one person you want them to know about your feelings.
Marriage is another thing. This would have to wait depending on Shobha's response and her official divorce.
is correct

My concern is after a 9 long years of remorse life,he once again should not be wounded

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: asdpsanmol

Vikram for the present is totally following his guardian angel's advice.😃 He was thinking she is wearing purple, dont know whether it is light or dark.☺️ His admission of love to Shobha is on naani's insistence.🤔 In fact if Vikram had no advice on this , he would not have been in such a hurry to propose.🤔

Naani is on some other planet altogether.😆 She has made dates ready for marriage and is also talking of honeydates schedule too.😲 She does not believe in wasting time.😆😎
Thanks to Shobha's sneezes the proposals did not go beyond I love ❤️


Naani is so concerned about her potha,she wants him to settle down,after seeing Shoba she is very particular that he gets married to him.

But what is in store for us?

Samrath is coming back,Sarika has vouched that she will eliminate Shoba as Abay if she comes between them.

But in the end victory is ours that is ViBha
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: rangamma


What you have said

There is no right and wrong time to express your love to the one person you want them to know about your feelings.
Marriage is another thing. This would have to wait depending on Shobha's response and her official divorce.
is correct

My concern is after a 9 long years of remorse life,he once again should not be wounded



Shobha may have second thoughts on saying yes to him right away. She might turn around and say that she needs time to make the right decision, which is fair enough. But she just wont hurt him deliberately like the way Sarika did.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Dd I hope so , the thing is she should never make a u turn back or say Move On and see that so called new Samarth if he appears all changed , i always feel that you need yo value your love she gave her love to the wrong person well we cannot tell if the person is good or bad untill he does something which u never expwct & in samarth's case he never respected her love or trust or understood , so if he tommorw comes & says that I will do all that I never did in those 9 years & win your trust again so should shobha forgive him & go back? Its a shame on her dignity & self respect & o plz don't even mention that he is the father of my kids !!

On the other hand Vikram whom she knows for just 6 months period someone who is a complete stranger someone who stood by every thick & thin of the worst situation she was in shpuld'nt his Love yes here I say love with the meaning of respect trust & understanding be valued !!

Her journey to accept him is not difficult not easy BUT its truely real pure & valued, he sees her as his best friend they know each others flaws in this time period of 6 months she should realize that a companion like him with such qualities is truly worthy of a life partner , her kids love him, Ok Shobha is at a stage where romance love is boiled down to what the kids family like alright take that route and see his journey in ur eyes u will fall in love with him which is the apex of the triangle love making respect trust & understanding as its angles!!


These two characters Vikram & Shobha are deep rooted individually that again where one is so expressive about his feelings the other is still seekng where this dastaan will reach , yet if Shobha makes an attempt to follow Vikrams route to her heart even with the kids she will see how much of passion his heart gives hers.

Making Shobha's character just travel through Vikram's heart leading to hers she would do wonders to know he is her true love.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Agree with you dd and Shanti👍🏼
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Posted: 10 years ago
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^ Agree with both of u, DD & Shanti! 😊

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