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Stephanie

@stephie34

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Posted: 11 years ago

Is it fair for Sid to be so upset with Roshni...Well i think not yes she should not have taken the money but being in the position that she was in...it seem like the only thing to do...Yes Sid is hurted because he wanted to work hard and pay the loan back rather than taking the easy way out...What to say if they do go back home will DD treat him like a human...i think she will continued her negative attitude towards him...which will make Roshni angry on Sid for returning in torment...The unfair part 9f the story is that Sid is lying from day one which is ridiculous and after how Sid behaved on her yesterday...i am fully supporting whatever Roshni reaction will be when his truth will be reveal at this moment in time Sid is always siding with DD

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abirami

@madhuharini

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Posted: 11 years ago

though Roshni did all this to rescue Sid from DD's jail, it is not the right way !!!

Already DD is supporting Rajveer and thinking like he's the only best and if we see from sid's place he'ld upset thinking his wife also thought like he is useless and can't pay 10 lakh amount😊

Sid is also right from his place and though Roshni spoke in anger she must not said he love enjoying luxuries and there is no wonder anyone would get angry for this and upset too😊

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Stephanie

@stephie34

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: madhuharini
though Roshni did all this to rescue Sid from DD's jail, it is not the right way !!!
Already DD is supporting Rajveer and thinking like he's the only best and if we see from sid's place he'ld upset thinking his wife also thought like he is useless and can't pay 10 lakh amount😊
Sid is also right from his place and though Roshni spoke in anger she must not said he love enjoying luxuries and there is no wonder anyone would get angry for this and upset too😊

I must say you are making a wonderful point but was it fair for Roshni to see tears in her hubby eyes caused by her family...was it fair for her to watch her hubby take off his mom in law slippers and was it fair for her to witness his insult day in and day out...Even if taking money was wrong she wanted him to be free from all that...she wanted him to be out of that house where he is always the target...Some things she said was wrong and yes she should not treat her mom that way...But she as a wife can not stand it anymore to see her hubby being treat like garbage

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abirami

@madhuharini

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Posted: 11 years ago

you are so true Stephie but it was like an insult in Sid's POV... Just think it as a man and this issue from his POV? It'ld be really hurting his self-respect and also he'ld think, his wife have no trust on him and so she borrowed it from some one else... I am not saying her bad, but she is quiet wrong here. Atleast, she should discuss this with Sid personally na? I feel like she should really need to apologize him that she did all this unintensionally and the thing going on with her mind was only her mom insulting him anytime...😊

u made a wonderful post for discussion here baby👏👏 keep going😊

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rosesidni

@rosesidni

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Posted: 11 years ago

Both are wrong and right at their stand.. I can't blame Roshni b'cos she did that out of her love for Sid.. And Sid said all those b'cos his ego was hurt.. Yesterday he talked really bitter and I was mad at him.. But after today's episode I think he acted tough b'cos he know its the only way he could deal with his stubborn wife😉. Anyway Sid was not that mad about Roshni lying but he was more mad about she borrowing money from someone else. Male ego..It happens😆

But both hurted each other with their words.. So I want both to apologies each other..😊

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wensue

@wensue

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Posted: 11 years ago

May I also add, Sid's going to face a major hurdle when Roshni finds out who he really is. She will have every right to be just as angry when it comes out, so he needs to consider that.

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Tich

@Jin.

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Posted: 11 years ago

See, this is where women go wrong.

Roshni is absolutely wrong in taking money from Rajveer.

Sid can take insults from DD because he owes her. And DD is a family not an outsider. But Rajveer is an outsider. And Roshni taking money from him only proves that she did not have confidence on Sid's abilities. She has insulted the man in him - proving that he cannot do anything on his own. It would have been different if she worked herself and earned the money and gave it to DD, but she didnt. She took money from an outsider - just like that. For free. How did she think she'll repay him? To clear one debt she fell in another debt. Didn't she think even once what if Sid had to work for Rajveer to repay the money? What if Rajveer treats Sid the same way DD did? Then what will she do? Take money from third person again and give it to Rajveer?

Love is not the only thing a wife has to show towards a husband, she should also keep his respect and self-respect. Which she failed a big time. Her problem is not about Sid losing, but DD winning. When the time of crisis comes she is not even able to walk two steps.

Sid is a mature and good person - and this is a show. Hence he forgave her easily. But in real life if any wife does what Roshni has done, then there would be a huge crack in marital life.

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Stephanie

@stephie34

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: madhuharini
you are so true Stephie but it was like an insult in Sid's POV... Just think it as a man and this issue from his POV? It'ld be really hurting his self-respect and also he'ld think, his wife have no trust on him and so she borrowed it from some one else... I am not saying her bad, but she is quiet wrong here. Atleast, she should discuss this with Sid personally na? I feel like she should really need to apologize him that she did all this unintensionally and the thing going on with her mind was only her mom insulting him anytime...😊
u made a wonderful post for discussion here baby👏👏 keep going😊

Now that you posted that it got me thinking...yes Sid felt bad as a man...but what about Roshni...what about when her husband is being insulted by her family in front of her face...would you not feel bad...even if she had told Sid she will borrow the money he would have said no

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Stephanie

@stephie34

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: zoopassion
Both are wrong and right at their stand.. I can't blame Roshni b'cos she did that out of her love for Sid.. And Sid said all those b'cos his ego was hurt.. Yesterday he talked really bitter and I was mad at him.. But after today's episode I think he acted tough b'cos he know its the only way he could deal with his stubborn wife😉. Anyway Sid was not that mad about Roshni lying but he was more mad about she borrowing money from someone else. Male ego..It happens😆

But both hurted each other with their words.. So I want both to apologies each other..😊

Yep both are wrong and they definitely should apologise to each other...wonderful post

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Stephanie

@stephie34

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: wensue
May I also add, Sid's going to face a major hurdle when Roshni finds out who he really is. She will have every right to be just as angry when it comes out, so he needs to consider that.

He should remember this well cause when the truth will be out and she reacts to it he will definitely know what she is feeling

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