Bhelcome to Rathore Mansion. The Muddle House and the Meddler's House.
Bhelcome - is Welcome - you all know where I got this from, right? Yes, from Sukhi bhaiyya!
Muddle - because the people living here are confused, and disorganized.
Meddler - because Pakhi cannot help herself from meddling into other people's affairs!
Yesterday, I wish that the locket which Veer gifted Pakhi held mirrors instead of pictures of herself and the kids!
Why mirrors you ask?
Well, anybody who wants to make a real change should start by looking at the mirror. If Pakhi wants to know whether she should accept her current situation and live in the present with (or for that matter without) Veer then that is the first place to start.
Nobody can provide Pakhi with solutions or give her how to live suggestions. She is an adult and this has to come from within. The choice and decision is hers and hers alone.
Pakhi is turning to Veer for advice. But he (unlike her) does not meddle in other people's affairs. Example, he enabled Rhea to decide and think for herself independently. Pakhi has more than once severely misunderstood Veer and made character accusations. Such behavior exhibits a certain lack of trust.
This has been a blessing for Veer - for it stripped him of all illusions that he had of Pakhi. This is why yesterday - he could confidently give her a gift whereas earlier on he exhibited the trappings of a teenager buying his girl the first gift. He now knows that he is in this marriage solely as a benefactor and nothing more. In fact, he does not want more.
In yesterday episode, Veer insisted that Pakhi is and will always remain Pakhi Anshuman Rathore. Very true.
The Rathores as a bunch are broken, angry, and dysfunctional individuals! (Carefully look at the bold letters - what do they read?)
Broken - because they come from a broken home. Anuja walked out on her kids and never made an attempt to get in touch with them. Later Anshuman - walked out on Pakhi and married another woman. After the woman he married died - he latched on to Tanya and continued to shun Pakhi. In fact, he even wanted to pack away his son Ayaan to boarding school. Now coming to Lavanya. Can anyone be more muddled and dysfunctional than her? It is a wonder that Girish puts up with her. Her kids never see her and she is forever causing others unhappiness!! I suspect Lavanya has never experienced or heard of harmony!
Pakhi has only experienced the dysfunctional Rathores. So, she is expecting the same from Veer and his family. Surprise, surprise!! Veer and his family embrace harmony, inclusiveness, and moral principles. They have their flaws - certainly they are not perfect. But they are functional and they strive towards a common good which goes beyond the boundaries of family. They with their flaws and all - strive to see the good in all.
This is a tectonic shift in living - dysfunctional family versus a functional family.
Finally (IMHO) in yesterday's episode Pakhi got it. Something clicked and she saw Veer and his family for what they are and (hopefully) shed the erroneous misconceptions she had about them.
So, bhelcome Pakhi to the new family dynamic in Rathore Mansion.