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Posted: 10 years ago
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The most interesting question at the moment is, "Why do dadi and bua want Sharon to get rid of her habits and assimilate with their third calss family standards and outdated lifestyle when Swaron will be living in Mumbai while dadi and bua will be far away in Jodhpur in the future?"
As far as I can understand, bua is married to Tilu Shilu ke papaji and Swaron's dance academy will be based in Mumbai only. Therefore, bua will soon leave Swayam's house to go back to Jodhpur with her husband and kids. I am sure she doesn't work but her husband does. In that case, she will be obliged to leave very soon as her husband will be required to report to work i.e. wherever he works in Jodhpur. Therefore, why instigate dadi to change Sharon? If bua and dadi are so traditional, why doesn't dadi ask her so-called daughter i.e. bua to go and stay with her dude i.e. tilu shilu ke papa? Dadi also knows that Mumbai isn't the place for her and soon she will have to leave. Then WHY ON EARTH would you wish for Sharon's makeover into a traditional stone age naari? Now these senseless women also have issues with Sharon's career in dance? WHY? Why dominate and suffocate someone who is not even going to stay with you under the same roof in the future?Bua herself admitted once in Swayam's room in front of tilu, shilu, and swaron that now we are nothing but guests in Swayaam's house and Sharon is swayam's real family. She said that to taunt swayam, but she also knew that it's the ultimate truth. Then why not LIVE and LET LIVE?

I guess bua suffers from daal baati attyachaar i.e. domestic violence for not serving daal baati churma at home. As a result she takes out her frustration in the name of daal baati ki sau🤢

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Posted: 10 years ago
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ur post's last line...daal baati atyachaar🤣🤣
dis s ameeta ka d3 dea...logic doesnt matter in it..all d kitchen politics and saas bahu atyachaar techniques matter fr her...🤢
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Posted: 10 years ago
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so u mean shadi ke baad uski famly wo sab guest ban jaye .. great..
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: swaronlove001

so u mean shadi ke baad uski famly wo sab guest ban jaye .. great..

I mean to say Swaron will not be living with dadi, bua, eelu, tilu, and shilu as these guys will soon return to Jodhpur. Thus, whenever they have to meet Swayam, they will be received by swaron as guests who will stay for a few days and then leave. Swaron cannot shift to Jodhpur as their career will be based in Mumbai only. Similarly, these guys can't also shift base to Mumbai as they are too traditional and prefer to live the way they did back in Jodhpur. So, ultimately yes Swaron and Swayam's family will be visiting each other as guests although familial ties will always remain the same.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: swaronlove001

so u mean shadi ke baad uski famly wo sab guest ban jaye .. great..

Aapko toh psnd nahi hai na toh aapko itni problem q ho rhi h?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: ..MiStLeToE..

Aapko toh psnd nahi hai na toh aapko itni problem q ho rhi h?




me show dekhta hu psand nhai ha but family interfance is good.. if they want sharon follow there tradition so whats d big dell ..
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: swaronlove001




me show dekhta hu psand nhai ha but family interfance is good.. if they want sharon follow there tradition so whats d big dell ..



really????whats a big deal?????
sharon kisi ke liye bhi khud ko change kyun kare jab un log ke sath rehna hi nahi hai to and swayam ko bhi koi prob nahi h????????
sare compromises girls hi kare kyun hai na waooo
and ya tradition follow karne me and kisi girl ki freedom uska career chorne bol dene me bohot difference hota hai i think ye aapko pata hoga
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: ..MiStLeToE..

Aapko toh psnd nahi hai na toh aapko itni problem q ho rhi h?

Really???In which century u live???18th???Coz this is twenty first century and girls are to be treated differently and should be given space and freedom. . .And this is a SwaRon post. . .I dont see any point of you commenting here!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: ..MiStLeToE..

Really???In which century u live???18th???Coz this is twenty first century and girls are to be treated differently and should be given space and freedom. . .And this is a SwaRon post. . .I dont see any point of you commenting here!

@bold: I second that completely. The rules that this FLINTSTONE family follows are biased, unfair, and discriminatory. In short, BOTH the rules and the family members are too narrow minded to give anybody the space, privacy, and individuality that they require. Sharon is the future daughter-in-law of that family NOT THEIR SLAVE or a lump of clay that can be shaped and reshaped according to anyone's desires. 😃
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: .Alina.


Why should Sharon change the lifestyle she's been living in since her childhood, for a family she's not even going to stay with.. 😕

Exactly my point! I am not liking this new Sharon who is justifying such abusive traditions in the name of love by saying, "ye sab mai swayam ke liye kar rahi hu." As far as Swayam is concerned, he never had to know sharon's family values and standards in order to assimilate and thus get accepted by Sharon's mom. Sharon's mom used to look down upon Swayam and achanak se she started liking him? We didn't even get to see a single scene where Swayam talks to Sharon and makes her patch up with her mom. In addition, Swayam has made many promises to Sharon about how they would be living in their house and all. In that case, why would he put up with dadi bua's baseless insults and tantrums? Why should he even tolerate Sharon being moulded into different shapes and sizes of modak by dadi and bua? He should instead insist that they spend more time with Sharon by talking to her to know how she really is from the inside...not ask her to put up this superficial mask of fakeness just for the sake of temporary daal baati aashirwaad and acceptance from dadi and bua who will not EVEN be living with them in the future. If she is to be accepted...then she should be accepted for who she is as a person...not on the basis of what swayam's family can make out of her to satisfy their own selfish needs. Swayam's dad needs to take a stand on this issue or at least have a phone conversation with dadi and bua to tell them off that he is indeed Swayam's guardian and currently he is the only one who reserves the right to decide for his son.

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